討厭被拿來比 - 結婚
By Faithe
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男朋友有一個哥哥 大約五年前結婚
整個結婚過程 就是不停的比、比、比......
男朋友家有三個兒子
他爸媽有幫每個孩子準備一筆錢 是成家用
提親時 我爸媽說要小聘
他爸媽連多少錢都沒問
直接說他哥哥結婚時沒付小聘 為了公平 也不能給我家小聘
而且他已經給了兒子一筆錢 沒辦法另付小聘
但對我爸媽而言 你大兒子結婚時怎樣關我家什麼事?
而且我和男友買房子時 是完全各付一半
只是他的頭期款是用爸媽的錢 我的頭期款是貸款來的
我爸媽覺得 我一絲半點的便宜都沒占到 他們家竟然還趕拿來說嘴
他爸媽卻不停強調 下面還有一個兒子在看 所以一定要公平
說到後來整個僵掉 他們才很不得已的說
他們給我男友的錢還有剩 叫我男友出好了
我爸媽超氣的 覺得他們家非常沒有誠意
更重要的是 他們只想要個形式上的六萬元
卻被一口回絕 連金額都沒機會說出口
後來買戒指 男友也是一直強調 他哥只買多少多少
我們花的錢比較多 所以是對我很好很好
天知道 款式雖然是我挑的 但品牌是他選好叫我挑的 有必要跟我囉唆這種話嗎?
挑婚紗時也是 我本來喜歡藏愛的
他嫌貴 又說 他哥結婚時 婚紗只拍多少多少
如果我們多花 他爸媽會不高興
氣死我了
我是訂結同天 但他們家看的時間很趕
訂婚完要立刻接迎娶 再趕到餐廳合辦午宴
訂婚儀式完幾乎沒有時間拍照 迎娶時也沒時間玩闖關遊戲
我抗議 他就說 他大嫂當時也是這樣
怎麼人家就沒問題 我這麼多花樣
我想請婚禮攝影 想請婚禮樂團 我都願意自己出
他卻罵我浪費 還說他大嫂家很有錢 也沒這麼浪費
我因為工作的關係 同事很多 總共約需200盒餅
他又說 他大嫂家也是很有社會地位的家庭 也沒搞到這麼多
我家族辦訂婚儀式 男方都是六個人
他們家偏要來一大家子 我跟男友說不行這樣
他就說娶他大嫂時就這樣 還說我媽是基督教的 竟然這麼囉唆 超好笑
氣氣氣氣氣~~~
你大嫂怎樣關我屁事啊~~~~
吵到我爸媽也不高興 我也一肚子火
爸媽最後都叫我忍耐 不要為了小事讓公婆不悅
可是我覺得很委屈 很討厭被拿來比
我真希望他弟將來能娶個傳統的客家媳婦
讓他爸媽知道 什麼叫踢到鐵板!!!!
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整個結婚過程 就是不停的比、比、比......
男朋友家有三個兒子
他爸媽有幫每個孩子準備一筆錢 是成家用
提親時 我爸媽說要小聘
他爸媽連多少錢都沒問
直接說他哥哥結婚時沒付小聘 為了公平 也不能給我家小聘
而且他已經給了兒子一筆錢 沒辦法另付小聘
但對我爸媽而言 你大兒子結婚時怎樣關我家什麼事?
而且我和男友買房子時 是完全各付一半
只是他的頭期款是用爸媽的錢 我的頭期款是貸款來的
我爸媽覺得 我一絲半點的便宜都沒占到 他們家竟然還趕拿來說嘴
他爸媽卻不停強調 下面還有一個兒子在看 所以一定要公平
說到後來整個僵掉 他們才很不得已的說
他們給我男友的錢還有剩 叫我男友出好了
我爸媽超氣的 覺得他們家非常沒有誠意
更重要的是 他們只想要個形式上的六萬元
卻被一口回絕 連金額都沒機會說出口
後來買戒指 男友也是一直強調 他哥只買多少多少
我們花的錢比較多 所以是對我很好很好
天知道 款式雖然是我挑的 但品牌是他選好叫我挑的 有必要跟我囉唆這種話嗎?
挑婚紗時也是 我本來喜歡藏愛的
他嫌貴 又說 他哥結婚時 婚紗只拍多少多少
如果我們多花 他爸媽會不高興
氣死我了
我是訂結同天 但他們家看的時間很趕
訂婚完要立刻接迎娶 再趕到餐廳合辦午宴
訂婚儀式完幾乎沒有時間拍照 迎娶時也沒時間玩闖關遊戲
我抗議 他就說 他大嫂當時也是這樣
怎麼人家就沒問題 我這麼多花樣
我想請婚禮攝影 想請婚禮樂團 我都願意自己出
他卻罵我浪費 還說他大嫂家很有錢 也沒這麼浪費
我因為工作的關係 同事很多 總共約需200盒餅
他又說 他大嫂家也是很有社會地位的家庭 也沒搞到這麼多
我家族辦訂婚儀式 男方都是六個人
他們家偏要來一大家子 我跟男友說不行這樣
他就說娶他大嫂時就這樣 還說我媽是基督教的 竟然這麼囉唆 超好笑
氣氣氣氣氣~~~
你大嫂怎樣關我屁事啊~~~~
吵到我爸媽也不高興 我也一肚子火
爸媽最後都叫我忍耐 不要為了小事讓公婆不悅
可是我覺得很委屈 很討厭被拿來比
我真希望他弟將來能娶個傳統的客家媳婦
讓他爸媽知道 什麼叫踢到鐵板!!!!
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at 2010-08-03T22:10
at 2010-08-03T22:10