解不開的結 - 人際關係
By Wallis
at 2010-04-22T07:54
at 2010-04-22T07:54
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我發現我只要經歷過被朋友佔便宜卻一直說不出口、被傷害,或有誤會後
心裡容易對朋友產生莫名的排斥感,會避免自己看到那些朋友的部落格或facebook
即使誤會已經經過化解,但心裡的疙瘩還是在,
我無法說服自己保持平常心去關心朋友的近況
大概是受到傷害,打從心理產生了防衛機制吧.....
我知道這樣不好,自己開始變得封閉,跟患得患失
但我實在無法解開那些結.....
心裡想著要獨立,不要依賴別人,到最後漸行漸遠,只是表面上的好朋友罷了....
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心裡容易對朋友產生莫名的排斥感,會避免自己看到那些朋友的部落格或facebook
即使誤會已經經過化解,但心裡的疙瘩還是在,
我無法說服自己保持平常心去關心朋友的近況
大概是受到傷害,打從心理產生了防衛機制吧.....
我知道這樣不好,自己開始變得封閉,跟患得患失
但我實在無法解開那些結.....
心裡想著要獨立,不要依賴別人,到最後漸行漸遠,只是表面上的好朋友罷了....
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