要結婚了,卻很擔心很多問題 - 婚姻
By Edith
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我跟我女朋友相差2歲,我23她21
我們交往差不多約莫2個多月?
在這期間她多次催婚,我也一直說我們才在一起2個多月會不會太快。
在一次休假中,我跟我家人說,我女朋友叫我娶她
沒想到我家人一口氣答應了,還說我要在年底前結婚...
雖然我女朋友沒有什麼不好
是個標準沒公主病得女生...出去約會也不需要幫她拿包包
是個女性當自強得個性,她總覺得,就算是女生,也不能靠男人養,要錢自己賺
所以就算我們同居2個多月,也從沒跟我拿過錢,只有下班一起吃晚餐,我付錢
有時候她看我衣服少,也會默默得買衣服給我
看我洗髮乳不好用,就買一組2000的洗髮潤濕組給我用
我要拿錢給她,她總是不要
也會幫我整理房間,折衣服,買飯給我吃,我要睡覺就主動幫我舖好毛毛的床單(我超愛
毛毛的棉被~扭
只有幾個缺點是
個性有時候說話太直接...
常常不會想到別人的感受就說出一些會傷到人的言語
很多事情也會都習慣硬來,很有自己的個性...
不太會去看場合,或是說出某些話是否適當
如果我直接說出她的毛病,她又會不爽
讓我很擔心...今天假如結婚了,她個性還是這樣說話不會想一下的,會造成很大的雙方家
長問題,親戚那邊也有可能被她搞到不爽。
而且女朋友家人想法也比較現代化,認為結婚公証登記就好聘金婚紗宴客也不用,不用搞
的太麻煩,不然乾脆不要結
而我家人認為結婚在怎麼簡單也要拜雙方公媽遵循古禮,婚紗照也要拍...這讓我實在不知
道怎麼溝通。
而我從沒想過這麼年輕就要面對這種問題,以前總是覺得我還年輕,不可能這麼早結婚。
現在面對到了,就突然不知所措...很多想法跟現實面的問題都跑出腦海
而且重點是...才交往2個多月,怎麼誰都搞的比我還急著結婚...
請問各位E奶跟30CM們,我該如何調適自己或者是怎麼溝通?
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我們交往差不多約莫2個多月?
在這期間她多次催婚,我也一直說我們才在一起2個多月會不會太快。
在一次休假中,我跟我家人說,我女朋友叫我娶她
沒想到我家人一口氣答應了,還說我要在年底前結婚...
雖然我女朋友沒有什麼不好
是個標準沒公主病得女生...出去約會也不需要幫她拿包包
是個女性當自強得個性,她總覺得,就算是女生,也不能靠男人養,要錢自己賺
所以就算我們同居2個多月,也從沒跟我拿過錢,只有下班一起吃晚餐,我付錢
有時候她看我衣服少,也會默默得買衣服給我
看我洗髮乳不好用,就買一組2000的洗髮潤濕組給我用
我要拿錢給她,她總是不要
也會幫我整理房間,折衣服,買飯給我吃,我要睡覺就主動幫我舖好毛毛的床單(我超愛
毛毛的棉被~扭
只有幾個缺點是
個性有時候說話太直接...
常常不會想到別人的感受就說出一些會傷到人的言語
很多事情也會都習慣硬來,很有自己的個性...
不太會去看場合,或是說出某些話是否適當
如果我直接說出她的毛病,她又會不爽
讓我很擔心...今天假如結婚了,她個性還是這樣說話不會想一下的,會造成很大的雙方家
長問題,親戚那邊也有可能被她搞到不爽。
而且女朋友家人想法也比較現代化,認為結婚公証登記就好聘金婚紗宴客也不用,不用搞
的太麻煩,不然乾脆不要結
而我家人認為結婚在怎麼簡單也要拜雙方公媽遵循古禮,婚紗照也要拍...這讓我實在不知
道怎麼溝通。
而我從沒想過這麼年輕就要面對這種問題,以前總是覺得我還年輕,不可能這麼早結婚。
現在面對到了,就突然不知所措...很多想法跟現實面的問題都跑出腦海
而且重點是...才交往2個多月,怎麼誰都搞的比我還急著結婚...
請問各位E奶跟30CM們,我該如何調適自己或者是怎麼溝通?
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