萬中選一的絕世好男人 - 婚姻
By Connor
at 2013-05-13T00:10
at 2013-05-13T00:10
Table of Contents
<很煩! 慎入!>
一直以來 我都以我的婚姻為傲
因為 我 老 公 真 的 對 我 很 好
偶而為之的不愉快 氣個幾天 就煙消雲散了
不因這些小摩擦 而去抹滅他對我們婚姻的付出
每當 幾個已婚嫁的好姊妹們聚在一起
聊些媽媽經 或是一些家庭瑣事
當她們聊到我老公時
在人前 我對我的老公 從來只有褒沒有貶
所以 當這次我被老公趕回家時
身旁聽聞消息的親友 個個都吃驚到無法置信
連我自己的親妹妹 都很狐疑的問我:
"姊 你確定你說的是姐夫嗎?!"
(連我家人都無法置信了 更何況是外人)
我才意識到自己的處境...
老公人前完美的形象 + 平日我不斷幫忙塑造的好老公形象 之下
網友推文中
"有一天如果我遭難(不管是啥難),都不會有人相信我或幫助我"
正是我這次的寫照...
我母親聽到他趕我回來後的反應是
安慰我說 :
"跟其他女人比起來我很幸福了
有些被打到不成樣 還得出去工作 至少妳老公沒動手打你"
PS:不能認同的 推文可以炮我 但請不要連同我媽一起罵
我媽的這句話 真的有影響到我
我也認同了這句話 所以我選擇原諒我老公
(媽媽從小教導我 要心懷感激 比上不足 比下有餘)
上婚姻版PO文 原想彷先前的模式:
和老公無法溝通時 或者老公無法接受我的意見時
先來尋求眾人的意見 先判斷 出問題的是否在我
然後再轉寄"原文+網友的推文"給老公看
一來 讓老公知道 我是用公平的語氣 來描述事件
單純"就事論事"
二來 我跟老公平日就喜歡"互相轉寄"文章 給彼此觀看
無法相聚的時候 或是他上班不方便講電話通視訊
這算是我們長期的相處模式之一
先前的例子是 通常老公看完我的PO文內容+網友的推文
知道我的感受後 立刻就會打電話過來 為他當時的事件道歉
所以 我一直以為 這是一個溝通的方式
直到其他網友點出 這樣做或許讓他很沒面子
我才了解到 我只顧到自己的感受 忽略了他的感受
所以 從這次趕回娘家文開始 我就停止轉寄的行為
又因為被趕回娘家的一文中 讓許多網友誤會了他 認為他是王子病
所以才又PO了這篇文章 還原他所有美好的一面
雖然他曾經在高速公路下 要逼還是孕婦的我下車
同樣是在懷孕時
他夜間開車載我去市區兜風
卻遇到一群飆仔挑釁逼車
對我們狂吹油門 狂按喇叭
當時我在車上 嚇到不敢說話
他卻對我說:無論待會發生什麼事 鎖好車門 你都不准下車 我下去就好
說完 就往車門縫旁 拿出球棒做好防身 準備下車去...
我只PO出他氣我的話
卻沒PO出 真正遇到危險時 他是那個捨命要保護我的人
去年 和他出差去荷蘭的時候
曾經當街遇到 警匪追逐戰
兩個年輕歹徒就朝我們方向狂奔而來 所有路人紛紛閃避
他還是那個 奮不顧身只為了保護我跟兒子的好老公 好爸爸...
沒有真正去經歷"生死邊緣"
愛用說的很簡單
真正生死瞬間的臨場反應 卻是騙不了人
我相信他也愛我
否則不會不顧自己的生命
拼了命 只為了保護我們
我也不願意放棄這段感情
很謝謝網友們的建議
我決定自己先去找心理諮商
先試試看 有沒有其他的方法
可以讓我們的婚姻 繼續幸福下去
謝謝大家 : )
--
一直以來 我都以我的婚姻為傲
因為 我 老 公 真 的 對 我 很 好
偶而為之的不愉快 氣個幾天 就煙消雲散了
不因這些小摩擦 而去抹滅他對我們婚姻的付出
每當 幾個已婚嫁的好姊妹們聚在一起
聊些媽媽經 或是一些家庭瑣事
當她們聊到我老公時
在人前 我對我的老公 從來只有褒沒有貶
所以 當這次我被老公趕回家時
身旁聽聞消息的親友 個個都吃驚到無法置信
連我自己的親妹妹 都很狐疑的問我:
"姊 你確定你說的是姐夫嗎?!"
(連我家人都無法置信了 更何況是外人)
我才意識到自己的處境...
老公人前完美的形象 + 平日我不斷幫忙塑造的好老公形象 之下
網友推文中
"有一天如果我遭難(不管是啥難),都不會有人相信我或幫助我"
正是我這次的寫照...
我母親聽到他趕我回來後的反應是
安慰我說 :
"跟其他女人比起來我很幸福了
有些被打到不成樣 還得出去工作 至少妳老公沒動手打你"
PS:不能認同的 推文可以炮我 但請不要連同我媽一起罵
我媽的這句話 真的有影響到我
我也認同了這句話 所以我選擇原諒我老公
(媽媽從小教導我 要心懷感激 比上不足 比下有餘)
上婚姻版PO文 原想彷先前的模式:
和老公無法溝通時 或者老公無法接受我的意見時
先來尋求眾人的意見 先判斷 出問題的是否在我
然後再轉寄"原文+網友的推文"給老公看
一來 讓老公知道 我是用公平的語氣 來描述事件
單純"就事論事"
二來 我跟老公平日就喜歡"互相轉寄"文章 給彼此觀看
無法相聚的時候 或是他上班不方便講電話通視訊
這算是我們長期的相處模式之一
先前的例子是 通常老公看完我的PO文內容+網友的推文
知道我的感受後 立刻就會打電話過來 為他當時的事件道歉
所以 我一直以為 這是一個溝通的方式
直到其他網友點出 這樣做或許讓他很沒面子
我才了解到 我只顧到自己的感受 忽略了他的感受
所以 從這次趕回娘家文開始 我就停止轉寄的行為
又因為被趕回娘家的一文中 讓許多網友誤會了他 認為他是王子病
所以才又PO了這篇文章 還原他所有美好的一面
雖然他曾經在高速公路下 要逼還是孕婦的我下車
同樣是在懷孕時
他夜間開車載我去市區兜風
卻遇到一群飆仔挑釁逼車
對我們狂吹油門 狂按喇叭
當時我在車上 嚇到不敢說話
他卻對我說:無論待會發生什麼事 鎖好車門 你都不准下車 我下去就好
說完 就往車門縫旁 拿出球棒做好防身 準備下車去...
我只PO出他氣我的話
卻沒PO出 真正遇到危險時 他是那個捨命要保護我的人
去年 和他出差去荷蘭的時候
曾經當街遇到 警匪追逐戰
兩個年輕歹徒就朝我們方向狂奔而來 所有路人紛紛閃避
他還是那個 奮不顧身只為了保護我跟兒子的好老公 好爸爸...
沒有真正去經歷"生死邊緣"
愛用說的很簡單
真正生死瞬間的臨場反應 卻是騙不了人
我相信他也愛我
否則不會不顧自己的生命
拼了命 只為了保護我們
我也不願意放棄這段感情
很謝謝網友們的建議
我決定自己先去找心理諮商
先試試看 有沒有其他的方法
可以讓我們的婚姻 繼續幸福下去
謝謝大家 : )
--
Tags:
婚姻
All Comments
By Tracy
at 2013-05-15T14:46
at 2013-05-15T14:46
By Puput
at 2013-05-20T06:58
at 2013-05-20T06:58
By Todd Johnson
at 2013-05-22T21:43
at 2013-05-22T21:43
By Gary
at 2013-05-25T02:10
at 2013-05-25T02:10
By Lydia
at 2013-05-28T01:37
at 2013-05-28T01:37
By David
at 2013-05-30T22:52
at 2013-05-30T22:52
By Iris
at 2013-06-02T22:27
at 2013-06-02T22:27
By Jack
at 2013-06-06T19:32
at 2013-06-06T19:32
By Eden
at 2013-06-08T17:14
at 2013-06-08T17:14
By Charlotte
at 2013-06-11T04:18
at 2013-06-11T04:18
By Agnes
at 2013-06-14T01:12
at 2013-06-14T01:12
By Regina
at 2013-06-16T23:07
at 2013-06-16T23:07
By Joe
at 2013-06-17T04:31
at 2013-06-17T04:31
By Cara
at 2013-06-19T04:51
at 2013-06-19T04:51
By Iris
at 2013-06-24T02:25
at 2013-06-24T02:25
By Gary
at 2013-06-24T17:39
at 2013-06-24T17:39
By James
at 2013-06-27T19:36
at 2013-06-27T19:36
By Olga
at 2013-07-02T08:11
at 2013-07-02T08:11
By Zanna
at 2013-07-06T09:25
at 2013-07-06T09:25
By Yuri
at 2013-07-07T16:32
at 2013-07-07T16:32
By Sandy
at 2013-07-12T00:50
at 2013-07-12T00:50
By Mason
at 2013-07-15T20:06
at 2013-07-15T20:06
By Catherine
at 2013-07-20T10:45
at 2013-07-20T10:45
By Liam
at 2013-07-23T22:46
at 2013-07-23T22:46
By Queena
at 2013-07-28T05:56
at 2013-07-28T05:56
By Jessica
at 2013-08-01T08:52
at 2013-08-01T08:52
By Liam
at 2013-08-04T22:40
at 2013-08-04T22:40
By Freda
at 2013-08-09T16:06
at 2013-08-09T16:06
By Caroline
at 2013-08-12T12:47
at 2013-08-12T12:47
By Faithe
at 2013-08-13T18:44
at 2013-08-13T18:44
By Jessica
at 2013-08-14T14:22
at 2013-08-14T14:22
By Heather
at 2013-08-18T23:22
at 2013-08-18T23:22
By David
at 2013-08-19T18:06
at 2013-08-19T18:06
By Wallis
at 2013-08-23T00:36
at 2013-08-23T00:36
By Christine
at 2013-08-26T14:28
at 2013-08-26T14:28
By Hazel
at 2013-08-29T11:26
at 2013-08-29T11:26
By Elizabeth
at 2013-08-31T18:48
at 2013-08-31T18:48
By Suhail Hany
at 2013-09-04T06:23
at 2013-09-04T06:23
By Linda
at 2013-09-05T15:32
at 2013-09-05T15:32
By Ingrid
at 2013-09-09T13:28
at 2013-09-09T13:28
By Selena
at 2013-09-12T00:04
at 2013-09-12T00:04
By Donna
at 2013-09-12T10:45
at 2013-09-12T10:45
By Andy
at 2013-09-14T04:49
at 2013-09-14T04:49
By Zora
at 2013-09-18T09:04
at 2013-09-18T09:04
By Ursula
at 2013-09-22T10:33
at 2013-09-22T10:33
By Necoo
at 2013-09-26T12:17
at 2013-09-26T12:17
By Olivia
at 2013-09-27T12:16
at 2013-09-27T12:16
By Oliver
at 2013-09-28T14:34
at 2013-09-28T14:34
By Megan
at 2013-10-02T21:26
at 2013-10-02T21:26
By Adele
at 2013-10-04T02:13
at 2013-10-04T02:13
By Lydia
at 2013-10-05T11:49
at 2013-10-05T11:49
By Lydia
at 2013-10-08T08:23
at 2013-10-08T08:23
By Elma
at 2013-10-11T11:48
at 2013-10-11T11:48
By Gary
at 2013-10-14T16:12
at 2013-10-14T16:12
By Lucy
at 2013-10-15T06:02
at 2013-10-15T06:02
By Eden
at 2013-10-16T07:19
at 2013-10-16T07:19
By Emily
at 2013-10-19T13:16
at 2013-10-19T13:16
By Hedy
at 2013-10-20T22:34
at 2013-10-20T22:34
By Lauren
at 2013-10-24T16:56
at 2013-10-24T16:56
By Ingrid
at 2013-10-25T12:00
at 2013-10-25T12:00
By Victoria
at 2013-10-27T19:27
at 2013-10-27T19:27
By Carol
at 2013-11-01T06:40
at 2013-11-01T06:40
By Thomas
at 2013-11-01T09:30
at 2013-11-01T09:30
By Steve
at 2013-11-04T16:01
at 2013-11-04T16:01
By Mason
at 2013-11-05T08:36
at 2013-11-05T08:36
By Edith
at 2013-11-06T14:08
at 2013-11-06T14:08
By Robert
at 2013-11-09T21:52
at 2013-11-09T21:52
By Carol
at 2013-11-11T06:40
at 2013-11-11T06:40
By Quanna
at 2013-11-12T10:01
at 2013-11-12T10:01
By Ivy
at 2013-11-13T13:27
at 2013-11-13T13:27
By Lily
at 2013-11-15T03:04
at 2013-11-15T03:04
By Skylar Davis
at 2013-11-16T12:19
at 2013-11-16T12:19
By Suhail Hany
at 2013-11-19T19:09
at 2013-11-19T19:09
By Rachel
at 2013-11-24T18:07
at 2013-11-24T18:07
By Bethany
at 2013-11-25T18:51
at 2013-11-25T18:51
By Elvira
at 2013-11-27T18:13
at 2013-11-27T18:13
By Freda
at 2013-11-30T23:26
at 2013-11-30T23:26
By Lauren
at 2013-12-02T11:25
at 2013-12-02T11:25
By Hedda
at 2013-12-02T17:03
at 2013-12-02T17:03
By Daniel
at 2013-12-05T12:08
at 2013-12-05T12:08
By Carolina Franco
at 2013-12-07T21:19
at 2013-12-07T21:19
By Hazel
at 2013-12-07T22:46
at 2013-12-07T22:46
By Mary
at 2013-12-12T01:21
at 2013-12-12T01:21
By Oscar
at 2013-12-13T19:24
at 2013-12-13T19:24
By Kyle
at 2013-12-14T16:20
at 2013-12-14T16:20
By Ina
at 2013-12-15T00:22
at 2013-12-15T00:22
By Kumar
at 2013-12-15T07:03
at 2013-12-15T07:03
By Genevieve
at 2013-12-18T05:35
at 2013-12-18T05:35
By Anthony
at 2013-12-18T19:29
at 2013-12-18T19:29
By Annie
at 2013-12-22T10:28
at 2013-12-22T10:28
By Olive
at 2013-12-24T14:41
at 2013-12-24T14:41
By Frederic
at 2013-12-26T15:34
at 2013-12-26T15:34
By Catherine
at 2013-12-29T22:44
at 2013-12-29T22:44
By Rosalind
at 2013-12-31T16:18
at 2013-12-31T16:18
By Christine
at 2014-01-03T09:47
at 2014-01-03T09:47
By Jack
at 2014-01-04T15:46
at 2014-01-04T15:46
By Liam
at 2014-01-08T15:04
at 2014-01-08T15:04
By Madame
at 2014-01-09T22:20
at 2014-01-09T22:20
By Hardy
at 2014-01-13T00:34
at 2014-01-13T00:34
By Joseph
at 2014-01-16T14:59
at 2014-01-16T14:59
By Lydia
at 2014-01-18T19:34
at 2014-01-18T19:34
By Tom
at 2014-01-23T12:07
at 2014-01-23T12:07
By Vanessa
at 2014-01-27T06:12
at 2014-01-27T06:12
By Christine
at 2014-01-30T20:19
at 2014-01-30T20:19
By Aaliyah
at 2014-02-03T22:20
at 2014-02-03T22:20
By Jacob
at 2014-02-05T00:57
at 2014-02-05T00:57
By Donna
at 2014-02-07T11:55
at 2014-02-07T11:55
By Robert
at 2014-02-08T19:16
at 2014-02-08T19:16
By Steve
at 2014-02-12T18:59
at 2014-02-12T18:59
By Elvira
at 2014-02-13T05:11
at 2014-02-13T05:11
By Tracy
at 2014-02-16T08:35
at 2014-02-16T08:35
By Todd Johnson
at 2014-02-19T19:23
at 2014-02-19T19:23
By Barb Cronin
at 2014-02-23T10:50
at 2014-02-23T10:50
By Emily
at 2014-02-27T16:11
at 2014-02-27T16:11
By Kristin
at 2014-02-28T10:58
at 2014-02-28T10:58
By Andy
at 2014-03-04T00:44
at 2014-03-04T00:44
By Rae
at 2014-03-05T13:07
at 2014-03-05T13:07
By Ursula
at 2014-03-08T08:05
at 2014-03-08T08:05
By Andy
at 2014-03-12T21:03
at 2014-03-12T21:03
By Kumar
at 2014-03-16T05:47
at 2014-03-16T05:47
By Bennie
at 2014-03-19T02:04
at 2014-03-19T02:04
By George
at 2014-03-23T03:21
at 2014-03-23T03:21
By Victoria
at 2014-03-27T19:33
at 2014-03-27T19:33
By Belly
at 2014-03-31T18:52
at 2014-03-31T18:52
By Margaret
at 2014-04-01T03:45
at 2014-04-01T03:45
By Elma
at 2014-04-02T04:25
at 2014-04-02T04:25
By Genevieve
at 2014-04-04T22:48
at 2014-04-04T22:48
By Susan
at 2014-04-07T03:04
at 2014-04-07T03:04
By Anonymous
at 2014-04-10T17:01
at 2014-04-10T17:01
By David
at 2014-04-10T21:40
at 2014-04-10T21:40
By Candice
at 2014-04-12T04:44
at 2014-04-12T04:44
By Freda
at 2014-04-16T02:35
at 2014-04-16T02:35
By Odelette
at 2014-04-20T11:43
at 2014-04-20T11:43
By Jessica
at 2014-04-24T00:08
at 2014-04-24T00:08
By Adele
at 2014-04-26T18:49
at 2014-04-26T18:49
By Tracy
at 2014-04-30T16:49
at 2014-04-30T16:49
By Joseph
at 2014-05-04T13:02
at 2014-05-04T13:02
By Skylar DavisLinda
at 2014-05-06T02:19
at 2014-05-06T02:19
By Christine
at 2014-05-09T08:23
at 2014-05-09T08:23
By Jack
at 2014-05-13T16:35
at 2014-05-13T16:35
By Agnes
at 2014-05-16T19:05
at 2014-05-16T19:05
By Christine
at 2014-05-18T07:52
at 2014-05-18T07:52
By Ursula
at 2014-05-19T04:18
at 2014-05-19T04:18
By Donna
at 2014-05-22T08:56
at 2014-05-22T08:56
By Sierra Rose
at 2014-05-25T14:51
at 2014-05-25T14:51
By Poppy
at 2014-05-30T00:58
at 2014-05-30T00:58
By Emma
at 2014-05-30T16:03
at 2014-05-30T16:03
By Quintina
at 2014-06-02T01:41
at 2014-06-02T01:41
By Leila
at 2014-06-03T16:13
at 2014-06-03T16:13
By Edwina
at 2014-06-07T13:27
at 2014-06-07T13:27
By Caitlin
at 2014-06-09T22:59
at 2014-06-09T22:59
By Sandy
at 2014-06-14T20:39
at 2014-06-14T20:39
By Audriana
at 2014-06-16T13:05
at 2014-06-16T13:05
By Oscar
at 2014-06-17T16:59
at 2014-06-17T16:59
By Edwina
at 2014-06-18T05:18
at 2014-06-18T05:18
By Freda
at 2014-06-22T10:35
at 2014-06-22T10:35
By Damian
at 2014-06-22T16:51
at 2014-06-22T16:51
By David
at 2014-06-26T19:59
at 2014-06-26T19:59
By Aaliyah
at 2014-06-29T16:59
at 2014-06-29T16:59
By Frederic
at 2014-07-03T23:19
at 2014-07-03T23:19
By Freda
at 2014-07-07T08:07
at 2014-07-07T08:07
By Oliver
at 2014-07-08T05:39
at 2014-07-08T05:39
By Ingrid
at 2014-07-09T01:19
at 2014-07-09T01:19
By Rae
at 2014-07-13T19:50
at 2014-07-13T19:50
By Kama
at 2014-07-14T13:31
at 2014-07-14T13:31
By Rosalind
at 2014-07-18T19:57
at 2014-07-18T19:57
By Michael
at 2014-07-21T13:07
at 2014-07-21T13:07
By Belly
at 2014-07-24T01:59
at 2014-07-24T01:59
By William
at 2014-07-25T23:42
at 2014-07-25T23:42
Related Posts
忙碌的母親節
By Ina
at 2013-05-12T22:56
at 2013-05-12T22:56
夫妻間的價值觀
By Tristan Cohan
at 2013-05-12T21:05
at 2013-05-12T21:05
母親節的康乃馨
By Doris
at 2013-05-12T16:44
at 2013-05-12T16:44
萬中選一的絕世好男人
By Megan
at 2013-05-12T15:37
at 2013-05-12T15:37
萬中選一的絕世好男人
By Dora
at 2013-05-12T14:38
at 2013-05-12T14:38