職涯選擇 - 婚姻

By Caitlin
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Table of Contents
※ 引述《ohan (我要睡飽飽)》之銘言:
: 小孩大班及小班
: 現職A: 壓力很大體力消耗大,公職,上班時間0800~1700,休假容易,加班可補休,已做2
: 年,車程10分鐘,年薪70W
考慮車程的話應該是這樣
0730出門,1730到家
其他時間都自己的想幹嘛就幹嘛
你有很多時間可以陪小孩成長
工作穩定,做到退休也不是什麼困難的事情
: 新工作B: 私人企業,輕鬆很多,薪水一年少10萬,上班時間07:30~1700,車程半小時,
: 不可臨時休假,不加班
同樣考慮車程的話,0630出門,1800到家
因為車程比較長,考慮路況會比上面那個抓更多前置量應該沒問題
休閒時間的話不好說,要是需要進修那就難講
而且變數比較大,不一定可以一輩子待著
: 因為壓力大,很想從現職逃走,猶豫很久,想到小孩以後都要麻煩另一半送到學校,覺得
: 自己很自私,可是累到每天要崩潰,不知道怎麼辦
: 是否同意記者抄文:NO
不過你說A壓力大到每天都很厭世那就沒啥好說了,直接換工作吧
只是要換B嗎?我覺得倒也未必
你對B的比較輕鬆了解都是靠打聽的
問題人是這樣,這種打聽多半不是講的很苦就是很爽
都有點偏離現實,不一定能反映現況
而且你的情況又比較特殊
公家機關一般來說業務壓力已經相對小很多,這樣都能搞到想死
通常不是對壓力的耐受性較低,就是做人太失敗被整個辦公室討厭
公務員比較閒很容易搞這種小圈圈我知道
那不管是哪一種,換去私人企業這些問題應該都會更放大
現在你在那邊了不起就是考績乙等,還不是能吃能睡主管也拿你沒辦法
換到私人企業呢?我不知道,大概會被火掉吧,面對這種壓力你承受的住?
何況看來你的工作能力也不是特別好
感覺弄了半天只能換到一個明顯比較爛的工作
到時候要是你B做的不爽大概也回不去A了
想到這個你還能輕鬆的起來?會不會又厭世?
這些都還沒考慮到錢的問題喔
你可以現在開始每個月少花八千塊試試看,說不定這關就過不去
所以換是肯定要換的,但是不一定要換去B
新水比較少,花在上班的時間比較長
唯一能期待的就是那不知道有沒有的比較輕鬆
講真的風險太高報酬太少
再挑其他的吧,人生不應該只有AB這兩種才對
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: 小孩大班及小班
: 現職A: 壓力很大體力消耗大,公職,上班時間0800~1700,休假容易,加班可補休,已做2
: 年,車程10分鐘,年薪70W
考慮車程的話應該是這樣
0730出門,1730到家
其他時間都自己的想幹嘛就幹嘛
你有很多時間可以陪小孩成長
工作穩定,做到退休也不是什麼困難的事情
: 新工作B: 私人企業,輕鬆很多,薪水一年少10萬,上班時間07:30~1700,車程半小時,
: 不可臨時休假,不加班
同樣考慮車程的話,0630出門,1800到家
因為車程比較長,考慮路況會比上面那個抓更多前置量應該沒問題
休閒時間的話不好說,要是需要進修那就難講
而且變數比較大,不一定可以一輩子待著
: 因為壓力大,很想從現職逃走,猶豫很久,想到小孩以後都要麻煩另一半送到學校,覺得
: 自己很自私,可是累到每天要崩潰,不知道怎麼辦
: 是否同意記者抄文:NO
不過你說A壓力大到每天都很厭世那就沒啥好說了,直接換工作吧
只是要換B嗎?我覺得倒也未必
你對B的比較輕鬆了解都是靠打聽的
問題人是這樣,這種打聽多半不是講的很苦就是很爽
都有點偏離現實,不一定能反映現況
而且你的情況又比較特殊
公家機關一般來說業務壓力已經相對小很多,這樣都能搞到想死
通常不是對壓力的耐受性較低,就是做人太失敗被整個辦公室討厭
公務員比較閒很容易搞這種小圈圈我知道
那不管是哪一種,換去私人企業這些問題應該都會更放大
現在你在那邊了不起就是考績乙等,還不是能吃能睡主管也拿你沒辦法
換到私人企業呢?我不知道,大概會被火掉吧,面對這種壓力你承受的住?
何況看來你的工作能力也不是特別好
感覺弄了半天只能換到一個明顯比較爛的工作
到時候要是你B做的不爽大概也回不去A了
想到這個你還能輕鬆的起來?會不會又厭世?
這些都還沒考慮到錢的問題喔
你可以現在開始每個月少花八千塊試試看,說不定這關就過不去
所以換是肯定要換的,但是不一定要換去B
新水比較少,花在上班的時間比較長
唯一能期待的就是那不知道有沒有的比較輕鬆
講真的風險太高報酬太少
再挑其他的吧,人生不應該只有AB這兩種才對
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