老婆買車的問題 - 婚姻
By Adele
at 2018-08-22T12:01
at 2018-08-22T12:01
Table of Contents
※ 引述《SATA3 (硬碟最速)》之銘言:
: 是否同意記者抄文:NO
: 然後 前陣子因為兩夫妻剛好嗆碰需要用車
: 他直接開車出門了。然後事後跟他說了
: 是不是可以先說一下,讓我想替代方案
: 結果過三周後。我得知他自己定車交車了。
: 然後就大吵一架。已經搬回娘家了
: 我這邊主張的是,其實用車機會真的很少
: 不需要額外花錢,浪費養車的費用(需要租一個停車位3000)
: 加上最近正在看房想買有停車位的房子
: 所以 真的蠻生氣的。
: 孩子媽媽生氣的點是 他花自己的錢,為什麼要先告知我
家庭中有大花費需不需要和另一半討論, 本來就一派認為要.
一派認為自己花自己的錢, 另一半不需要管. (但前提是扛的住該負擔的共同花費)
問題就在於家用是男方全出.
這情形下男方認為自己收入用在家用沒問題, 女方的收入存起來未來也可作共同規劃.
但被女方打臉 : 她的錢是她自己的錢, 她要怎麼花為什麼要告知男方?
這種模式就像是在宣告 : 對方的錢是共用的錢, 自己的錢還是自己的錢.
這樣合理嗎?!
要說因為開男方車要受限很麻煩, 所以乾脆自己買台車有什麼不對.
用"自己的錢"買台車本來是也沒什麼不對,
但問題在於"自己的錢" 這話說出口了, 自然會被檢視兩人間的金流.
這才是問題所在!
先生扛家用,
不是為了看女方在那邊喊 "用自己的錢(買台不是很需要的車)為什麼要先告知他的".
--
: 是否同意記者抄文:NO
: 然後 前陣子因為兩夫妻剛好嗆碰需要用車
: 他直接開車出門了。然後事後跟他說了
: 是不是可以先說一下,讓我想替代方案
: 結果過三周後。我得知他自己定車交車了。
: 然後就大吵一架。已經搬回娘家了
: 我這邊主張的是,其實用車機會真的很少
: 不需要額外花錢,浪費養車的費用(需要租一個停車位3000)
: 加上最近正在看房想買有停車位的房子
: 所以 真的蠻生氣的。
: 孩子媽媽生氣的點是 他花自己的錢,為什麼要先告知我
家庭中有大花費需不需要和另一半討論, 本來就一派認為要.
一派認為自己花自己的錢, 另一半不需要管. (但前提是扛的住該負擔的共同花費)
問題就在於家用是男方全出.
這情形下男方認為自己收入用在家用沒問題, 女方的收入存起來未來也可作共同規劃.
但被女方打臉 : 她的錢是她自己的錢, 她要怎麼花為什麼要告知男方?
這種模式就像是在宣告 : 對方的錢是共用的錢, 自己的錢還是自己的錢.
這樣合理嗎?!
要說因為開男方車要受限很麻煩, 所以乾脆自己買台車有什麼不對.
用"自己的錢"買台車本來是也沒什麼不對,
但問題在於"自己的錢" 這話說出口了, 自然會被檢視兩人間的金流.
這才是問題所在!
先生扛家用,
不是為了看女方在那邊喊 "用自己的錢(買台不是很需要的車)為什麼要先告知他的".
--
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