老婆喜歡喝酒 - 婚姻
By Heather
at 2011-10-09T10:43
at 2011-10-09T10:43
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最近真的很沮喪,有一個問題想聽聽大家的意見
就是我老婆很愛喝酒,也有一群愛喝酒的朋友,
其中除了有一個女生外,其餘都是男生,然而那個女生很放蕩不拘,
不小心跟男朋友以外的人生了一個小孩後就把小孩送到國外,
然後繼續玩樂跟其他男人搞暖昧,我老婆有種朋友讓我很不安心,
只要一出去喝就會喝到三更半夜
前天我想了解情況,所以決定要求跟她一起去喝,
不知為什麼,我看到她跟其他男生划酒拳划的很hi時,我竟然很難過?
然後快11點了,我叫她不要喝了,因為隔天要上班,所以先回家,
我老婆竟然堅持我先一個人回去,我真的很火大,
我頓時有離婚的念頭,我真的沒想到我老婆是這樣的人,
我完全無法接受,想到之前都會信任她,答應讓她去喝酒,
而我孤單一個人夜晚睡覺時,她是這麼開心的跟別的男生划酒拳,想到就心碎,
我在戶政上班,因為這幾天是結婚好日子,所以很多新人在我面前登記結婚,
但我一想到我老婆的事,我就覺得很諷刺,老天開了我一個很大的玩笑,
我不知道只是我吃醋的關係,所以前天真的氣到把婚戒拿下來,打算離婚,
或是真的只是小事情,我應該要包容她,
她後來有答應我說,以後不會喝到凌晨,但我很難相信了,
因為有3次不守信用的記錄了
所以想問問大家,如果是你們的另一伴如此,你們會不會像我一樣不開心阿?
因為我現在腦中真的都是離婚的念頭,
她喝酒時把自已當男生看,這樣的個性,我是結婚後才知道,所以我真的很沮喪
我們結婚快二年了,
因為如果結婚前知道她是這樣的人,我就會考慮分手了,但結婚是要負責任的,
如果因為這種事而離婚,是不是太小題大做了,
但我真的很不喜歡她愛喝酒又把自已當男生,然後跟別的男生握手划拳的樣子,
還是我的心態有問題要調整一下??
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感謝各位的意見和小故事啊,雖然最後講到了賭博....
已經解決說清楚了,事出必有因,總之婚姻問題一定有解決的辦法的
有版友提醒到了我,其實我只是害怕她的酒友,所以我跟她溝通之後,
已經有共通點了,而她也說出深藏心中的問題,婚姻果然是要一起成長的
感謝提醒我的鄉民們,謝謝囉~~
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就是我老婆很愛喝酒,也有一群愛喝酒的朋友,
其中除了有一個女生外,其餘都是男生,然而那個女生很放蕩不拘,
不小心跟男朋友以外的人生了一個小孩後就把小孩送到國外,
然後繼續玩樂跟其他男人搞暖昧,我老婆有種朋友讓我很不安心,
只要一出去喝就會喝到三更半夜
前天我想了解情況,所以決定要求跟她一起去喝,
不知為什麼,我看到她跟其他男生划酒拳划的很hi時,我竟然很難過?
然後快11點了,我叫她不要喝了,因為隔天要上班,所以先回家,
我老婆竟然堅持我先一個人回去,我真的很火大,
我頓時有離婚的念頭,我真的沒想到我老婆是這樣的人,
我完全無法接受,想到之前都會信任她,答應讓她去喝酒,
而我孤單一個人夜晚睡覺時,她是這麼開心的跟別的男生划酒拳,想到就心碎,
我在戶政上班,因為這幾天是結婚好日子,所以很多新人在我面前登記結婚,
但我一想到我老婆的事,我就覺得很諷刺,老天開了我一個很大的玩笑,
我不知道只是我吃醋的關係,所以前天真的氣到把婚戒拿下來,打算離婚,
或是真的只是小事情,我應該要包容她,
她後來有答應我說,以後不會喝到凌晨,但我很難相信了,
因為有3次不守信用的記錄了
所以想問問大家,如果是你們的另一伴如此,你們會不會像我一樣不開心阿?
因為我現在腦中真的都是離婚的念頭,
她喝酒時把自已當男生看,這樣的個性,我是結婚後才知道,所以我真的很沮喪
我們結婚快二年了,
因為如果結婚前知道她是這樣的人,我就會考慮分手了,但結婚是要負責任的,
如果因為這種事而離婚,是不是太小題大做了,
但我真的很不喜歡她愛喝酒又把自已當男生,然後跟別的男生握手划拳的樣子,
還是我的心態有問題要調整一下??
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~`
感謝各位的意見和小故事啊,雖然最後講到了賭博....
已經解決說清楚了,事出必有因,總之婚姻問題一定有解決的辦法的
有版友提醒到了我,其實我只是害怕她的酒友,所以我跟她溝通之後,
已經有共通點了,而她也說出深藏心中的問題,婚姻果然是要一起成長的
感謝提醒我的鄉民們,謝謝囉~~
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