老公跟老媽之間... - 婚姻
By Susan
at 2013-01-12T12:48
at 2013-01-12T12:48
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我在婚姻版潛水很久 剛好有類似相處的經驗
只是我的角色是原PO媽咪的位置..XD
感謝有這個版 讓我觀念更新必修(調適了一陣子)
收穫是學習怎麼跟自己的子女或另一半相處
所以當我去年底正式成為丈母娘到剛出爐的外婆
受益良多 算是認真做足功課~
我的想法是:距離的美感 舉例:我家裡有很多空房間
我也很愛女兒 但是做月子 我寧願讓他們去月子中心
第一吃力不討好 還有給新手爸媽發揮的空間
互相保有隱私 感情更融洽 即使吵架也是成長磨合的過程
另一個想法:幫對方講好話 無論是女兒女婿公婆或娘家父母
這是跟親家與女婿學習的 有一次的經驗很特別
就是去年女兒請了三個月的安胎假(臥床安胎)
親家每個禮拜都風塵僕僕的從外縣市趕來探望 我是平常幫忙料理午晚餐
親家母都貼心的準備好材料 大家一起共進午餐
記得有一次女婿的爺爺奶奶也有來 滿桌的好菜
奶奶一直讚美這個菜好吃 那個菜好吃..(像很普通的粽子XD)
這個畫面 深植我心...這是女婿家媽媽跟婆婆的互動 我學起來了
還有電腦的問題 因為我會上網 所以女兒女婿的筆電
有告訴我密碼 無聊就上去逛逛PTT fb 或看文章新聞
其他的我不會去亂碰
現在baby婆婆在幫忙帶 就是當假日父母 禮拜五晚上就回去接手
也珍惜跟寶寶互動的時間 禮拜天晚上才趕回來準備上班
我們喜歡現在的相處模式 新手父母自己有一套標準
我只要站在後援的位置 在他們需要幫忙的時候出現就好了XD
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