老公說我小心眼 - 婚姻
By Zenobia
at 2012-12-24T16:59
at 2012-12-24T16:59
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原文恕刪
看完以後我好心有慼慼焉 只是我還不敢跟老公反應 因為我也怕老公說我小心眼
其實重點都不是東西的貴重與否
重點是奇摩子不爽自己的東西被隨便拿去給別人用 而且事前沒有先問
即使是自己的家人 拿人家的東西去用 好歹也會說一聲吧
就這樣不告而取 真的讓人很不舒服
我跟原po的情形一模一樣 婆家有個老公的房間
平常我們不住婆家 假日才回去 一個月大概回去一次
婆婆的衣櫃放在老公房間裡 所以婆婆平常就會進出老公房間 這個我無所謂
但是後來發生幾件事 讓我心裡有一點不太舒服
事件一 牙刷事件
有一次我買了一包牙刷六枝帶回婆家 幫老公跟自己的牙刷換新之後 還剩四支
我隨手放在老公桌上
下次回家發現那包牙刷不見了 公公婆婆大伯嫂嫂的牙刷全數換新
牙刷很便宜 但還是可以打聲招呼再拿啊
啊如果我都沒有買牙刷回去 那是大家都不要換牙刷了嗎?
事件二 保養品事件
我平常會放一套保養品在婆家 這樣回去的時候就不用把東西帶來帶去
結果有一瓶保養品才用了兩次 再回婆家時就消失了 怎麼樣都找不到
後來有次進婆婆房間跟他聊天 才發現那瓶保養品放在她桌上
因為那是很年輕的開架式品牌 他平常不會買的 所以我很確定那是我的
當然東西不貴 但是要用的時候找不到讓人很不開心
而且很明顯得那是我正在用的東西 為什麼婆婆可以這樣若無其事的就拿去用呢?
後來我有買保養品送婆婆 一方面是希望他不要再亂拿我的東西了
事件三 禮盒事件
朋友送了我家小孩一個禮盒 因為想說還用不到 所以先放在婆家
後來有次回去 婆婆告知他把那個禮盒拿去轉送給他的朋友了
理由是反正你家小孩也用不到了
東西已經被送走了也不能怎樣
但是那是朋友的心意啊 而且其實現在我家小孩用剛好
好幾次朋友問說:現在禮盒的東西是不是可以拿來用啦 現在用剛剛好啊
我跟老公都只能打哈哈帶過 很尷尬
事件四 Tiffany事件
我跟老公結婚時 朋友送了我們一個Tiffany的水晶盒
後來因為我們搬家的關係 把一些東西先拿回婆家老公的房間放
有天老公忽然問我:那個Tiffany水晶盒勒?
我說應該放在婆家老公房間裡吧 有一個地方我專門用來存放我們的貴重物品的
結果下次回去找 不見了
因為那個Tiffany水晶盒我們捨不得用 所以是包的好好的 放在禮物盒裡
打上緞帶 放在紙袋裡 整袋都不見了
但是我跟老公誰都沒有記憶到底當初是誰把東西放到貴重物品存放處的
所以誰也不敢保證自己真的有把東西放到那邊
但是東西不見了是事實
因為自己也沒啥記憶 所以也不能怪誰
但是從此以後 老公說要把什麼東西拿回去放在婆家房間
就會遭到我的反對
因為好像東西放過去之後 所有權就不只是自己的了
婆家的所有人都可以自由取用
說我小氣小心眼也好
但是我是如果娘家的人這樣亂拿我東西我都會生氣的人
今天反而因為是婆家而忍著不敢發作
(不過在娘家可以講開也好 以後沒事還可以拿來互相糗一下
婆家就只能悶在心裡 事情悶久了會變質的啊)
但是也不敢跟老公說 因為老公一定會罵我小氣.....
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看完以後我好心有慼慼焉 只是我還不敢跟老公反應 因為我也怕老公說我小心眼
其實重點都不是東西的貴重與否
重點是奇摩子不爽自己的東西被隨便拿去給別人用 而且事前沒有先問
即使是自己的家人 拿人家的東西去用 好歹也會說一聲吧
就這樣不告而取 真的讓人很不舒服
我跟原po的情形一模一樣 婆家有個老公的房間
平常我們不住婆家 假日才回去 一個月大概回去一次
婆婆的衣櫃放在老公房間裡 所以婆婆平常就會進出老公房間 這個我無所謂
但是後來發生幾件事 讓我心裡有一點不太舒服
事件一 牙刷事件
有一次我買了一包牙刷六枝帶回婆家 幫老公跟自己的牙刷換新之後 還剩四支
我隨手放在老公桌上
下次回家發現那包牙刷不見了 公公婆婆大伯嫂嫂的牙刷全數換新
牙刷很便宜 但還是可以打聲招呼再拿啊
啊如果我都沒有買牙刷回去 那是大家都不要換牙刷了嗎?
事件二 保養品事件
我平常會放一套保養品在婆家 這樣回去的時候就不用把東西帶來帶去
結果有一瓶保養品才用了兩次 再回婆家時就消失了 怎麼樣都找不到
後來有次進婆婆房間跟他聊天 才發現那瓶保養品放在她桌上
因為那是很年輕的開架式品牌 他平常不會買的 所以我很確定那是我的
當然東西不貴 但是要用的時候找不到讓人很不開心
而且很明顯得那是我正在用的東西 為什麼婆婆可以這樣若無其事的就拿去用呢?
後來我有買保養品送婆婆 一方面是希望他不要再亂拿我的東西了
事件三 禮盒事件
朋友送了我家小孩一個禮盒 因為想說還用不到 所以先放在婆家
後來有次回去 婆婆告知他把那個禮盒拿去轉送給他的朋友了
理由是反正你家小孩也用不到了
東西已經被送走了也不能怎樣
但是那是朋友的心意啊 而且其實現在我家小孩用剛好
好幾次朋友問說:現在禮盒的東西是不是可以拿來用啦 現在用剛剛好啊
我跟老公都只能打哈哈帶過 很尷尬
事件四 Tiffany事件
我跟老公結婚時 朋友送了我們一個Tiffany的水晶盒
後來因為我們搬家的關係 把一些東西先拿回婆家老公的房間放
有天老公忽然問我:那個Tiffany水晶盒勒?
我說應該放在婆家老公房間裡吧 有一個地方我專門用來存放我們的貴重物品的
結果下次回去找 不見了
因為那個Tiffany水晶盒我們捨不得用 所以是包的好好的 放在禮物盒裡
打上緞帶 放在紙袋裡 整袋都不見了
但是我跟老公誰都沒有記憶到底當初是誰把東西放到貴重物品存放處的
所以誰也不敢保證自己真的有把東西放到那邊
但是東西不見了是事實
因為自己也沒啥記憶 所以也不能怪誰
但是從此以後 老公說要把什麼東西拿回去放在婆家房間
就會遭到我的反對
因為好像東西放過去之後 所有權就不只是自己的了
婆家的所有人都可以自由取用
說我小氣小心眼也好
但是我是如果娘家的人這樣亂拿我東西我都會生氣的人
今天反而因為是婆家而忍著不敢發作
(不過在娘家可以講開也好 以後沒事還可以拿來互相糗一下
婆家就只能悶在心裡 事情悶久了會變質的啊)
但是也不敢跟老公說 因為老公一定會罵我小氣.....
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