老公說我小心眼 - 婚姻
By Sarah
at 2012-12-23T13:01
at 2012-12-23T13:01
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看了這一系列的回文與推文
我覺得還是要先釐清「嫁妝」的定義
除了貴重物品以外,古代人用一牛車載到夫家的嫁妝
應該也包含了很多日常生活用品吧
我記得我媽說過我舅媽嫁來的時候,附了電視、冰箱、洗衣機等大型電器和傢俱
但實際上也是收了聘金之後,再拿去買這些東西來當嫁妝
就夫家的想法,那還不是拿了我們付出去的聘金買的,所以我們也可以用
就娘家的想法,是為了讓自己女兒在夫家有面子,應該也是要捐出來大家共用的吧
難道媳婦可以規定這台電視是我的嫁妝,你們一定要轉到我想看的節目才行
這台洗衣機是我的嫁妝,你們的嘔吐物不可以放到我的洗衣機裡面攪拌
我的冰箱只能放我的飲料,不准買榴連等臭東西冰進去
所以呢,二條嫁妝毛巾對這個家庭的定義是什麼?大家自己衡量吧
像我的寶寶出生,有很多人送東西,我自己分得清楚哪些是娘家送的,哪些是友人送的
但是我婆婆就搞不清楚來源為何
反正就他的認知這些東西都是寶寶長大了就可以再送別人
一切就是看開就好,連這種事情也要過意不去,以後的日子還長得很呢……
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我覺得還是要先釐清「嫁妝」的定義
除了貴重物品以外,古代人用一牛車載到夫家的嫁妝
應該也包含了很多日常生活用品吧
我記得我媽說過我舅媽嫁來的時候,附了電視、冰箱、洗衣機等大型電器和傢俱
但實際上也是收了聘金之後,再拿去買這些東西來當嫁妝
就夫家的想法,那還不是拿了我們付出去的聘金買的,所以我們也可以用
就娘家的想法,是為了讓自己女兒在夫家有面子,應該也是要捐出來大家共用的吧
難道媳婦可以規定這台電視是我的嫁妝,你們一定要轉到我想看的節目才行
這台洗衣機是我的嫁妝,你們的嘔吐物不可以放到我的洗衣機裡面攪拌
我的冰箱只能放我的飲料,不准買榴連等臭東西冰進去
所以呢,二條嫁妝毛巾對這個家庭的定義是什麼?大家自己衡量吧
像我的寶寶出生,有很多人送東西,我自己分得清楚哪些是娘家送的,哪些是友人送的
但是我婆婆就搞不清楚來源為何
反正就他的認知這些東西都是寶寶長大了就可以再送別人
一切就是看開就好,連這種事情也要過意不去,以後的日子還長得很呢……
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