老公說我小心眼 - 婚姻
By Lydia
at 2012-12-23T00:01
at 2012-12-23T00:01
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其實我很意外竟然會有很多人覺得這樣是小心眼,
在我看來,這件事情最令人不爽的點,是「不被尊重」+「老公不挺」!!
(原po我支持你!這是我在婚姻版的首波,請大家手下留情XD)
畢竟是拿去墊嘔吐物,(先姑且不論小嬸是不是真的有使用過)
並不是一般毛巾的使用用途,就像原po說的,「如果不在意為何不拿你們自己的?」
今天當你不確定某件東西對別人是否有重要意義時,
不是應該先假定是有意義的嗎?
正所謂禮多人不怪,我想尊重這種東西,沒有人會嫌多吧!
又,如果婆婆是有意識的挑選了媳婦的毛巾,這個挑選的過程會讓我覺得很點點點
若是無意識地挑選了,好,就算婆婆神經很大條好了,
那現在做老婆的不爽了,而且也沒有當面爆炸,
而是在跟老公私底下兩人相處的時候委屈+生悶氣
這種時候老公不安撫一下還要說妳計較是怎樣?
我覺得除非原po自己親自開口說"我的毛巾反正很少用 借你拿去墊吐的!"
沒有人可以替她做這個決定,在我看來這何嘗不是另一種一種慷他人之慨?
※ 引述《meettheright (用PTT看世界(  ̄ c ̄)y▂)》之銘言:
: 昨天回婆家想拿床罩月底入厝用
: 發現去年結婚 娘家幫我準備的兩條大毛巾(鋪在枕頭上)不在我的房間內
: 問了婆婆後 才知道婆婆拿娘家買給我的大毛巾 放到小叔的新房使用
: 如果只是要睡覺使用,我還沒這麼介意...
: 婆婆卻跟我說,之前小叔老婆懷孕會孕吐
: 所以她拿這個大毛巾去墊在小叔老婆的枕頭上, 如果她想吐,就可以直接吐在上面
: 婆婆說小叔老婆沒有吐在毛巾上, 也說會幫我洗一洗再還我
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: 我聽到這件事的當下真的很無言 回家路上 我不發一語
: 我老公知道我生氣了
: 他對我說 我很愛計較又小心眼 只是一條毛巾罷了 也說會洗後還我 不懂為何我想不開
: 我對他說,在別人眼中只是毛巾,但這卻是我的嫁妝之一 對我是有紀念意義的
: 為什麼要拿我的東西去墊別人的嘔吐物?真如婆婆所說洗一洗就乾淨了
: 為什麼不拿他們洗澡用的浴巾or自己的衣服?
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: 老公認為整件事情都是meettheright小心眼,婆家做法都很ok
: 我對老公不挺我 不懂我的想法感到很委屈又心寒
: 現在想到還在掉眼淚..
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