老公說不用給公婆紅包 - 婚姻
By Rae
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事情是這樣的,
這兩天和老公討論起過年紅包該怎麼包,
畢竟今年是婚後第一次在公婆家過年,禮數要周到,
老公說他之前從來沒包過紅包給公婆,都只有包給他的姑姑和姑丈,
因為姑姑和姑丈才是養育他跟他哥長大的"父母",
公公只是"生父",在他出生後不久就跟小三跑了,
現在的婆婆就是當年的小三,老公的親生媽媽還因此自殺了,
他到現在都不跟婆婆說話,非常不諒解,更遑論包紅包給他們倆了,
所以老公叫我也不用包紅包給公婆了,因為他也沒在包,他哥也沒包,
本來我覺得這樣也OK,既然老公本來也沒有包,那我也不用打破他的慣例,
頂多是多買點東西回去,表達我這個新媳婦的心意就好,
但是就在剛剛,我才從大嫂那邊得知情況好像不是這樣,
他們婚後每年都有包給公婆,而且是頗大包的紅包 =.=
今天還跟婆婆討論年夜飯要帶啥回去,
我老公跟他哥從小寄人籬下,感情很好,不太可能不知道他哥有包紅包,
所以我老公是故意瞞著我他哥有包紅包的事??
因為他就是不願意包給當年那個小三??...
但是對我來說,現在的公婆終究是公婆,總是要盡點心意,不能裝沒事吧!!
更何況聽起來他哥已經對當年的事釋懷了,不懂事的反而像是我老公,
唉...所以這包到底該不該包??
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這兩天和老公討論起過年紅包該怎麼包,
畢竟今年是婚後第一次在公婆家過年,禮數要周到,
老公說他之前從來沒包過紅包給公婆,都只有包給他的姑姑和姑丈,
因為姑姑和姑丈才是養育他跟他哥長大的"父母",
公公只是"生父",在他出生後不久就跟小三跑了,
現在的婆婆就是當年的小三,老公的親生媽媽還因此自殺了,
他到現在都不跟婆婆說話,非常不諒解,更遑論包紅包給他們倆了,
所以老公叫我也不用包紅包給公婆了,因為他也沒在包,他哥也沒包,
本來我覺得這樣也OK,既然老公本來也沒有包,那我也不用打破他的慣例,
頂多是多買點東西回去,表達我這個新媳婦的心意就好,
但是就在剛剛,我才從大嫂那邊得知情況好像不是這樣,
他們婚後每年都有包給公婆,而且是頗大包的紅包 =.=
今天還跟婆婆討論年夜飯要帶啥回去,
我老公跟他哥從小寄人籬下,感情很好,不太可能不知道他哥有包紅包,
所以我老公是故意瞞著我他哥有包紅包的事??
因為他就是不願意包給當年那個小三??...
但是對我來說,現在的公婆終究是公婆,總是要盡點心意,不能裝沒事吧!!
更何況聽起來他哥已經對當年的事釋懷了,不懂事的反而像是我老公,
唉...所以這包到底該不該包??
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