老公說不用帶小孩回去公婆那了 - 婚姻
By Jacky
at 2013-03-22T12:30
at 2013-03-22T12:30
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沒有提到辦婚宴的事情
是因為覺得不是這板的業務
如果可以的我小提一下好了
有違規的話麻煩告訴我我在刪文
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小孩子出生後兩個月左右(去年約十月)
娘家的媽媽 還有我們 最後和公婆有妥協(被爐爐爐爐爐+被威脅)
決定在今年年中辦一場"訂結婚"合請
自己家的桌次 盈虧由自己家負擔(盈或虧都不落在我和老公身上)
既然要請 又要省錢 就兩方辦在一起
達成協議之後 大家就開始開開心心的去通知親朋好友
我們也開始買婚紗 拍婚紗照等等
殊不知在上個月
公婆突然提說~因為我請太多朋友 造成他們要刪自己的名單
我和老公就覺得奇怪了 不是男女方分開嘛
為什麼對他們有影響
婆婆還打電話跟我媽說 為了我要請同事朋友
所以公公婆婆 連我老公都要刪人
(老公:我的名單都還沒列完我要刪誰啦Q____Q)
後來小姑問我我才知道
公婆對他們的親朋好友都說 這只是"男方"的補請客
真的很難理解女方為什麼要這麼多桌次
已經很包容我了 我還要求這麼多
我和老公回去和他們談
他們卻開始鬼打牆 說剛開始就沒說要"訂結婚合請"
是我們全部的人都錯了
只有他們兩個決定的是對的
講到後面我都想去吃我公婆的喜酒了(無誤)
這個問題然後不了了之
時間越來越近了~沒有個結果也不是辦法
親朋好友開始關心確切的時間了
我媽媽打了電話給我公婆 想問事情怎麼樣
沒想到公婆連番上陣 我媽就被攻擊的體無完膚
從小孩子的事 坐月子的事 不回去跟他們請安的事
問我媽怎麼教小孩這麼厲害 酸我媽無償帶寶寶很辛苦
最後問了我媽一句 我們能決定什麼
我媽是很心平氣和的告訴我這些
也幫我們解釋其實我們有拿等同保母的錢給她請她幫忙
但他們聽不進去就是聽不進去
如果世界沒有順著他們的意思轉 那麼勢必是突然轉錯方向了
我真的覺得自己很不孝 讓媽媽來承受這些酸言酸語
老公知道了 最後就跟我和我媽討論要取消不辦
畢竟弄成這樣了 雙方家長也見不了面啦
其實我和我老公一開始就錯了
結婚真的是兩個家庭的事 不是我們兩個人的事
原本以為登記結婚後快快樂樂的的過日子
然後盡心盡力照顧自己的小家庭
原來這些都是自私的做法
嗚嗚 我要打電話去跟我媽懺悔了
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