老公的朋友來住的次數很頻繁 - 婚姻

By Carol
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是否同意記者抄文:YES
老公的這個朋友是大學時期認識的 大概7-8年了
在大學期間算是不錯的朋友(老公自述的)
就學期間也都住一起(宿舍或是在外租屋)
這朋友在我和老公交往期間 老公就有介紹我們認識
他們畢業後 幾乎沒聯絡 偶爾會出現說要一起吃飯
我對他的印象沒很好 臉皮蠻厚的....
曾經2-3年沒見面 某天開始密切聯繫 卻是因為做保險
從我懷孕 就一直洗腦買小孩的保險 常常約我們吃飯
老公覺得無所謂 反正沒要買 就當朋友敘敘舊
聊天發現我婆婆買了很多保險
朋友就打著要來東部玩的名義 來老公家住
然後說要幫忙檢視保單 開始推薦婆婆保險哪裡不足
要再買這個險 那個險
婆婆人好 買了不少 還推薦三姑六婆買
朋友就更變本加厲的來先生家住 常常一來就是住1-3天
一個月最高紀錄來4次 (我的月經都沒這麼常來..)
我的主要生活空間是二樓 有小客廳和臥室
婆婆住一樓
所以我和寶寶 除了睡覺會進房間
大部分的時間都是和寶寶在客廳玩 我邊看電視
寶寶親餵 常常要掏奶
朋友來時 孩子要喝奶只能回房間
一天可能要跑好幾趟 而且寶寶不會一次喝飽
都是喝到不餓就玩 或是口渴喝一下
朋友一來 都喜歡在二樓客廳吹冷氣 讓我很不方便
朋友一來 客廳就得讓給他睡 孩子睡醒只能在房間玩
朋友一來 我不能不穿內衣 或只穿著小背心跑來跑去
(要餵奶穿內衣實在不方便)
朋友一來 大部分的時間我只能窩房間(沒電視只能滑手機)
朋友一來 一談完業務 就吵我老公帶他出去玩
(有一次他來沒帶他出去 等他回去
老公帶我出去走走 還傳訊息靠北我老公)
朋友一來 我老公為了招呼他 沒辦法幫忙顧寶寶
朋友一來 我無法在孩子睡著後 去客廳吃餅乾看電視
常常都是臨時說要來 臨時說不來
一下說明天要來住 一下說改下禮拜
突然又在早上說 火車中午會到 叫老公去載他
這次更誇張 寶寶生病住院 我和老公都在醫院過夜
朋友說有業務要談 又來了
明知道我和老公不在家 硬是要來住
重點 還帶了他的同事 帶了他的同事 帶了他的同事
因為很無言 所以說三次
這同事只見過一次面
還是和我們約吃飯時 朋友沒告知我們會帶同事就帶去的
吃飯時就很無言 因為帶不認識的 不好放開聊
結果這次還帶來住
婆婆讓他們住二樓客廳 也就是我和老公的生活空間
二樓沒有住其他人 我的私人物品 貴重物品都在二樓
我覺得非常的不舒服 畢竟我也不想懷疑什麼
寶寶剛好隔天出院 我一回家就發現電腦移位
和老公說 他們有動過 老公要我別針對他朋友
結果呢 打開電腦發現 朋友的遊戲帳號沒登出..
覺得很不受尊重...
和老公討論 老公覺得我計較 小心眼 住一下又不會怎樣
我也和他說過 朋友來住對我的不方便
老公當然無所謂 他樂的輕鬆不用顧孩子
和朋友打屁聊天 打電動
苦的是我
朋友來住不是問題 問題是太太太頻繁
朋友之前帶女友來 我們還很開心的當地主
排行程他們四處玩
現在頻繁到 我完全不給好臉色看
難道 真的是我太計較嗎?
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