老公為人不大方 - 婚姻
By Kristin
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是我親人的遭遇 她不是個愛抱怨的人 憋很久終於忍不住了但只敢跟我說
我就跟她講這個地方不會有人認識她 可以抒發她的心情
以下為原文
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我老公年薪約莫兩百多萬,有房子,有車子
車子沒有貸款,房子房貸已經繳得差不多了
我和他是假日夫妻,育有一子兩歲
但是他沒有給我生活費,我和小孩的生活費是由我自己來賺
我的工作是設計師,以前有自己的小工作室
但是生孩子之後為了專心帶小孩就收了,前面一年都在吃存款
後面存款快吃完了才又陸陸續續接一些案子補家用
帶小孩又要工作真的不是容易,有時候很累,感覺自己根本是單親媽媽
心裡就會有點怨,為什麼老公不願意給我支援
我老公非常節省,他對自己很省,對老婆也很省,只有對小孩會大方一些
假日外出一家人,用餐兩三百元,他會願意幫我出錢
其他的,就不用奢望了
即使我收入微薄,在能力所及之內還是會在節日給他禮物
看他缺衣服我也會用自己的錢添購給他,可是他並不會這麼對我
又因為他的高所得,所以我連政府的育兒補助也拿不到
那種怨漸漸累積,有一天,我發現我對老公的愛情不見了
我每個月煩惱我的案子和我的生活費,他已經不在我生活和我心裡了
最近他想要和我親密,我也一點意願也沒有,我也不在乎他是不是生氣
我只要我的孩子有好好睡覺,我的案子能夠好好交出去就好了
我並不想離婚,只是現實的壓力把我對他的愛情磨光了
我並不是貪他的錢,交往八年,我們出門都是各付各
我送禮物永遠多於他送,他那時甚至沒有車,機車油錢我還會幫忙付
結婚度蜜月,我也分擔一半,絕不讓他多花錢
平日出遊,只要我有餘力,我一定會在他錢包裡塞錢,不讓他多負擔
還沒生小孩之前,我認為他只是一個很節省的人
生了小孩之後,我覺得他是一個吝於對我付出的人
我一個人單獨帶孩子賺生活費,他只有假日回來陪陪我們
錢抓得死死牢牢的,雖然知道我辛苦,但也不會想要支援我
累的時候,我總是會想,我對他這樣,他卻這樣對我
他看待他的錢,比我還要重要
我現在偶爾會想,這個男人對我來說,好像已經沒有什麼必要了
孩子我在帶,小孩的生活費我在賺,我也對這個人沒有感覺了
但是其實我並不很想離婚,他除了吝嗇之外,並沒有什麼罪大惡極的缺點
只是我的愛被現實磨得不見了,我現在很苦惱,不知怎麼才能和這個男人走下去
也許就為了這個孩子,平淡的在一起吧
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我認識文中的老公 是不覺得有要到離婚的地步
但是可以理解我親人那種現實中慢慢失去愛情的感覺
所以我也不知道要給她什麼建議 只能當她的聽眾
她本身不愛抱怨 所以她覺得一開始老公可能不知道她有經濟壓力
老公也可能想要快點還完房貸 所以才會這麼省
可是後來知道她沒有錢了 房貸也繳快完了
她老公還是一點作為都沒有 她也沒有話能幫他講或安慰自己了
她應該不會離婚 會堅忍的維持這個婚姻
等小孩大一點上學了 她就可以專心工作 減輕經濟壓力
但是不知道還能不能再愛上她老公
如果一直無法愛 又要維持婚姻 其實很奇怪
可是 就是這麼難解
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