老公想買跑車 - 婚姻
By Ophelia
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at 2019-05-21T13:10
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我們夫妻月收入和這對夫妻差不多 目前有一個小孩 還想再生一個
可能是身在台北 最近想買房積極看屋中...覺得危機感很重...
小時候覺得這樣子的收入不錯 現在覺得 通膨太可怕 錢根本不夠用
如果我先生 夢想 做這樣子的消費然後積極 實現 我會覺得很頭痛生氣
幸好我先生是個務實到小氣的人...
(我們收入相當 各管各 但是一起存錢 房租他出 托嬰錢家裡雜支我付)
費用和存款應該是我略出多一點 但是家是共同擁有的 只要是以家庭為主體的消費花費
我覺得誰出無所謂 我有時候開玩笑地說我覺得我負擔的比較多先生也會不開心
所以付出這種事情只要雙方都有努力 原PO不適合拿來說嘴+1
我家去年也買了車子 買速路霸的森林人 我不懂車子 不過知道他比較耗油
而且零件損壞配件昂貴 但是先生說他很喜歡渦輪的速度感
也能夠載著全家出遊 小孩安裝汽座 我覺得坐起來座位大挺爽的 很同意他買
大筆消費 比自己年薪還多 又不是買手機 PS4 遊戲片!!!
本來就應該考量全家人的用途 不然成家幹嘛!!
如果是存款足夠還好說 還要用到貸款只為了圓一個夢 也許是我不懂夢想
我只覺得荒謬~~~更何況這個先生並非平常省到極點只為了圓這個夢
原PO提到先生還曾經夢想勞力士... 讓我來說說我爸
我爸爸在30年前月薪有8萬多 但是我娘家現在連20年前買的房子(400多萬)
貸款都還沒繳完...我爸就是收入高然後很不務實的人 因為他覺得他收入高
負擔的起很多 對外人很有責任感 對自己擁有無限物慾
(小時候帶我去趟文具店 幾乎每次都消費好幾千塊買鋼筆
其他的我就不說了 總之他的多餘消費沒完沒了)
我媽媽當年做業務薪水比我爸還高 然後因為我爸的不切實際 錢都還債掉了...
我爸絕對是很認真工作 沒有賭博抽菸等不良嗜好
但是就是不切實際 物慾無窮覺得自己收入高什麼都能買 我媽不讓他買會生氣
摔東西 覺得老子工作那麼辛苦 犒賞一下自己也不行?
所以一直到現在還是0存款 收入也沒以前好
建議原PO要清晰記帳 雖然對我爸來說 他鬼遮眼記了也當看不到 ...
這種性格 其實讓家人很頭痛 雖然 現在有比較好一點了 但是錢也不好賺了
相信大多數的人都還是可以用數據溝通的
--
可能是身在台北 最近想買房積極看屋中...覺得危機感很重...
小時候覺得這樣子的收入不錯 現在覺得 通膨太可怕 錢根本不夠用
如果我先生 夢想 做這樣子的消費然後積極 實現 我會覺得很頭痛生氣
幸好我先生是個務實到小氣的人...
(我們收入相當 各管各 但是一起存錢 房租他出 托嬰錢家裡雜支我付)
費用和存款應該是我略出多一點 但是家是共同擁有的 只要是以家庭為主體的消費花費
我覺得誰出無所謂 我有時候開玩笑地說我覺得我負擔的比較多先生也會不開心
所以付出這種事情只要雙方都有努力 原PO不適合拿來說嘴+1
我家去年也買了車子 買速路霸的森林人 我不懂車子 不過知道他比較耗油
而且零件損壞配件昂貴 但是先生說他很喜歡渦輪的速度感
也能夠載著全家出遊 小孩安裝汽座 我覺得坐起來座位大挺爽的 很同意他買
大筆消費 比自己年薪還多 又不是買手機 PS4 遊戲片!!!
本來就應該考量全家人的用途 不然成家幹嘛!!
如果是存款足夠還好說 還要用到貸款只為了圓一個夢 也許是我不懂夢想
我只覺得荒謬~~~更何況這個先生並非平常省到極點只為了圓這個夢
原PO提到先生還曾經夢想勞力士... 讓我來說說我爸
我爸爸在30年前月薪有8萬多 但是我娘家現在連20年前買的房子(400多萬)
貸款都還沒繳完...我爸就是收入高然後很不務實的人 因為他覺得他收入高
負擔的起很多 對外人很有責任感 對自己擁有無限物慾
(小時候帶我去趟文具店 幾乎每次都消費好幾千塊買鋼筆
其他的我就不說了 總之他的多餘消費沒完沒了)
我媽媽當年做業務薪水比我爸還高 然後因為我爸的不切實際 錢都還債掉了...
我爸絕對是很認真工作 沒有賭博抽菸等不良嗜好
但是就是不切實際 物慾無窮覺得自己收入高什麼都能買 我媽不讓他買會生氣
摔東西 覺得老子工作那麼辛苦 犒賞一下自己也不行?
所以一直到現在還是0存款 收入也沒以前好
建議原PO要清晰記帳 雖然對我爸來說 他鬼遮眼記了也當看不到 ...
這種性格 其實讓家人很頭痛 雖然 現在有比較好一點了 但是錢也不好賺了
相信大多數的人都還是可以用數據溝通的
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