老公家人... - 婚姻
By Bethany
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各位大大好^^
本人現在住在婆家,老公是獨子,其他都是姐姐
嫁給我老公前,完全沒發現他們家有嚴重依賴他的問題
結果嫁進來之後,問題一一浮現...
1.結婚前我跟老公有跟公婆提到婚後想要搬出去住,結果造成家庭革命
a.婆婆說他以後老了要他兒子照顧他(有個姐姐沒有結婚,住在家裡,也可以幫忙照顧,
為什麼一定要老公照顧?)
b.婆婆說住外面開銷很大,不想讓我們過苦日子(每個月都跟我老公拿錢,
結婚後連我的份也要拿,還嫌我們給的比鄰居小孩媳婦少...)
c.我跟他說我爸爸會幫我們出頭期款,剩下的房貸我們再慢慢還,結果老公姐姐說,
叫我們不要買房子,要拿我爸給的頭期款買一台車給他們家...
(我爸的錢你憑什麼決定要花在哪裡?)
d.老公姐姐跟老公說,你為什麼為了老婆不要爸媽...(沒有這麼誇張吧...)
2.大家是不會叫我做事,但是所有不想做的事全部落在我老公身上,
我就會跟他一起做,可是每每都覺得,為什麼都是只有我們在做?
a.公婆吃飽飯碗就丟在桌上,一定要我老公去洗
b.老公上大夜班好不容易假日可以好好補眠,公婆卻叫他要打掃整棟房子,
兩個人就坐在沙發上看我們做
c.姐姐們什麼大小事都叫我老公做,連嫁出去的姐姐都不叫自己先生做,
還是繼續叫我老公做...
d.姐姐要去看醫生,叫我老公幫忙顧小孩(所有家人都說有事或要上班沒法顧,
我老公也要上班,卻得為了他不去公司...)
e.姐姐小孩生病,叫我老公晚上帶她們去看醫生(所有家人都不要陪她們去,
姐姐一定要去大醫院看醫生,又沒事先掛號,完全不顧慮老公隔天上早班會很累...)
每每跟我老公討論他家人的事情都會吵架,我老公認為他家人就是這樣,
事情如果他也不做誰來做... 但是我的心裡真的很不開心,也很替我老公抱屈
我覺得他的家人都很自私,也常常因為他家人讓我有想跟他離婚的衝動...
想請問各位大大,我該怎麼辦?是我太愛計較嗎...
--
本人現在住在婆家,老公是獨子,其他都是姐姐
嫁給我老公前,完全沒發現他們家有嚴重依賴他的問題
結果嫁進來之後,問題一一浮現...
1.結婚前我跟老公有跟公婆提到婚後想要搬出去住,結果造成家庭革命
a.婆婆說他以後老了要他兒子照顧他(有個姐姐沒有結婚,住在家裡,也可以幫忙照顧,
為什麼一定要老公照顧?)
b.婆婆說住外面開銷很大,不想讓我們過苦日子(每個月都跟我老公拿錢,
結婚後連我的份也要拿,還嫌我們給的比鄰居小孩媳婦少...)
c.我跟他說我爸爸會幫我們出頭期款,剩下的房貸我們再慢慢還,結果老公姐姐說,
叫我們不要買房子,要拿我爸給的頭期款買一台車給他們家...
(我爸的錢你憑什麼決定要花在哪裡?)
d.老公姐姐跟老公說,你為什麼為了老婆不要爸媽...(沒有這麼誇張吧...)
2.大家是不會叫我做事,但是所有不想做的事全部落在我老公身上,
我就會跟他一起做,可是每每都覺得,為什麼都是只有我們在做?
a.公婆吃飽飯碗就丟在桌上,一定要我老公去洗
b.老公上大夜班好不容易假日可以好好補眠,公婆卻叫他要打掃整棟房子,
兩個人就坐在沙發上看我們做
c.姐姐們什麼大小事都叫我老公做,連嫁出去的姐姐都不叫自己先生做,
還是繼續叫我老公做...
d.姐姐要去看醫生,叫我老公幫忙顧小孩(所有家人都說有事或要上班沒法顧,
我老公也要上班,卻得為了他不去公司...)
e.姐姐小孩生病,叫我老公晚上帶她們去看醫生(所有家人都不要陪她們去,
姐姐一定要去大醫院看醫生,又沒事先掛號,完全不顧慮老公隔天上早班會很累...)
每每跟我老公討論他家人的事情都會吵架,我老公認為他家人就是這樣,
事情如果他也不做誰來做... 但是我的心裡真的很不開心,也很替我老公抱屈
我覺得他的家人都很自私,也常常因為他家人讓我有想跟他離婚的衝動...
想請問各位大大,我該怎麼辦?是我太愛計較嗎...
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