老公反對我幫助娘家! - 婚姻
By Rosalind
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at 2013-03-04T15:49
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潛水很久 沒想到居然有需要上來求助的時候
故事盡量簡短
結婚一年多了 老公跟娘家的人互動還算不錯
我也努力替他保持好的形象
最近因為我哥哥要結婚了正在找房子
而我正好有抽合宜住宅的資格
但因為林口太遠了並沒有打算要去抽
哥哥就跟我商量 請我去抽 如果有抽中的話他可以過去住
當然房貸以及相關費用由他負擔 我只是使用資格而已
我的想法很單純 就是我先買然後租給他 租金=房貸
然後等五年可以移轉之後就把所有權跟房貸一起轉給他
就皆大歡喜拉
結果老公強烈反對
理由如下:
1.要是我哥爽約不給我錢 我是不是就要幫付房貸
2.如果我們以後要買房子 我是不是就不能再用優惠房貸之類的條件
3.如果我們還想再抽合宜住宅 就會喪失資格
4.他覺得我的資源應該留給我的小孩跟老公這個小家庭
而不是源源不絕往娘家送
他討厭娘家的人找我幫忙(其實都只是幫小小的忙 這次抽合宜除外)
最後 他很生氣的說 我堅決要幫忙的話就搬回娘家去
我已經結婚了 我做的任何決定都要他的同意才可以!
我的想法是 我跟哥哥感情很好 我相信他不會不負責貸款
而且只是五年而已 租房子給不認識的房客不是風險更高嗎??
況且我們短期內沒有能力買房子 也不會有影響到我們購屋計畫的情況
我老公單純就是因為討厭我哥哥 因反對而反對
我覺得很生氣 整件事情對他不會造成影響 而他卻一整個無理取鬧
我今天是多了老公但不等於多了老闆 憑什麼我做這個決定需要他的同意
更何況 我跟哥哥已經說好的事情(我媽也極力贊成)
今天因為我老公反對 我要怎麼去跟我娘家的人說明??
一個搞不好感情破裂 我就失去娘家了
真的是一整個裡外不是人(大哭)
我現在只是很失望老公為什麼不能支持我的決定
真的對我的小家庭影響有這麼大嗎??
後來我有想出一個辦法 就是如果抽中讓我媽拿房子去抵押
這樣我就不用另外申請房貸 我哥再把錢還給我媽
只是我媽申請房貸的條件不會有我優渥 這樣娘家的人一樣會不高興
唉 ~.~明明是一件美事現在變成我的大麻煩了!!
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故事盡量簡短
結婚一年多了 老公跟娘家的人互動還算不錯
我也努力替他保持好的形象
最近因為我哥哥要結婚了正在找房子
而我正好有抽合宜住宅的資格
但因為林口太遠了並沒有打算要去抽
哥哥就跟我商量 請我去抽 如果有抽中的話他可以過去住
當然房貸以及相關費用由他負擔 我只是使用資格而已
我的想法很單純 就是我先買然後租給他 租金=房貸
然後等五年可以移轉之後就把所有權跟房貸一起轉給他
就皆大歡喜拉
結果老公強烈反對
理由如下:
1.要是我哥爽約不給我錢 我是不是就要幫付房貸
2.如果我們以後要買房子 我是不是就不能再用優惠房貸之類的條件
3.如果我們還想再抽合宜住宅 就會喪失資格
4.他覺得我的資源應該留給我的小孩跟老公這個小家庭
而不是源源不絕往娘家送
他討厭娘家的人找我幫忙(其實都只是幫小小的忙 這次抽合宜除外)
最後 他很生氣的說 我堅決要幫忙的話就搬回娘家去
我已經結婚了 我做的任何決定都要他的同意才可以!
我的想法是 我跟哥哥感情很好 我相信他不會不負責貸款
而且只是五年而已 租房子給不認識的房客不是風險更高嗎??
況且我們短期內沒有能力買房子 也不會有影響到我們購屋計畫的情況
我老公單純就是因為討厭我哥哥 因反對而反對
我覺得很生氣 整件事情對他不會造成影響 而他卻一整個無理取鬧
我今天是多了老公但不等於多了老闆 憑什麼我做這個決定需要他的同意
更何況 我跟哥哥已經說好的事情(我媽也極力贊成)
今天因為我老公反對 我要怎麼去跟我娘家的人說明??
一個搞不好感情破裂 我就失去娘家了
真的是一整個裡外不是人(大哭)
我現在只是很失望老公為什麼不能支持我的決定
真的對我的小家庭影響有這麼大嗎??
後來我有想出一個辦法 就是如果抽中讓我媽拿房子去抵押
這樣我就不用另外申請房貸 我哥再把錢還給我媽
只是我媽申請房貸的條件不會有我優渥 這樣娘家的人一樣會不高興
唉 ~.~明明是一件美事現在變成我的大麻煩了!!
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at 2013-03-04T12:46
該讓老公去嗎?
By James
at 2013-03-04T12:43
at 2013-03-04T12:43
該讓老公去嗎?
By Hamiltion
at 2013-03-04T12:24
at 2013-03-04T12:24
迷惘
By Sarah
at 2013-03-04T12:07
at 2013-03-04T12:07