老公出差了... - 婚姻
By Cara
at 2013-01-08T14:12
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婚姻版首發,請多指教。文長 內有抱怨 不喜請左轉>___<
(想請問大家是我反應太大嗎?大家會怎麼去溝通呢?)
(如果要鞭可以小力一點嗎Q_____Q)
====先說一下背景====
結婚二個多月,與公婆同住,婆婆已退休在家
平時都婆婆煮飯,假日我會在旁邊幫忙
假日是我跟老公打掃家裡的日子(EX:掃地、拖地、拿抹布擦家裡的東西、桌子)
廁所老公會掃,碗筷都是我和老公一起洗、一起收拾的
垃圾因為下班時間的關係,所以婆婆倒(假日有時我會倒)
(其實有另外時間的垃圾車,可是婆婆習慣倒吃飯前的那班,就是我來不及的那班= =)
衣服乾了我幫大家折好,再送到大家的房間放
====正文====
昨天老公開始為期十天的出差之旅
婆婆的爸媽從外縣市來家裡住...
外婆是一個慈祥的老人家,外公是一個很會碎碎唸的老人家...
外公外婆上星期六下午來家裡後,一直到星期日吃晚餐前,就唸了我三、四次了
老公家的桌子和娘家桌子折的方式不一樣,
我試了老半天還是收不起來,老公來幫忙(因為桌子很重,所以平時都是老公弄的)
我就順口問老公怎麼折?問了後才知道原來我沒折錯,只是力氣太小所以折不起來罷了
結果外公就說:不要什麼事都問別人,要自己試著做做看!
後來老公不在,又唸:
女人就是要會煮菜,一次煮不好沒關係,第二次一定比第一次更好
女人會煮菜就是家人的口福,巴拉巴拉
我是沒有很會煮,但也不是不會煮,可是我真的覺得一個廚房不需要二個主廚...
婆婆在的時候(老公不在)又唸:
雖然你平常在上班,可是如果你下班回來看見哪邊髒了可以順手整理一下
這樣大家下班回來看見乾淨的家不是很開心嗎?
你年輕人做一個小時就能做完的事,你媽(他女兒)可能要做一整天,巴拉巴拉
接著,星期一老公出差了
吃晚飯時間雖然我吃飽了,但大家還沒吃飽,所以我還是坐在位子上看電視這樣
外公跟照顧外婆的菲傭說:那邊有湯可以喝
我以為他在跟我講話,所以轉過去看他,結果一對到眼他又唸:
是你要叫人喝湯!這裡是你家!!
星期一午休時間婆婆打電話來叫我幫菲傭買衛生棉,因為下雨他懶得出門
(公司離婆家很近,可是我是只能買個午飯就要馬上回公司,不能午睡的那種)
婆家一條路直直走不用十分鐘就可以到頂x、美x社、小7等
最後請婆婆先拿我的給菲傭用...
之前某天公公跟老公加班比較晚回來
那天奶奶來家裡吃飯,飯後我去洗碗時,婆婆跑到後面跟我說:
以後你就是家裡的人了,然後開始教我什麼東西要怎麼弄
假日想吃什麼可以自己弄來吃(老實說假日我都想吃外面買的= =)
我就覺得 為什麼什麼都要趁老公不在的時候說呢?
然後婆婆有一個朋友要出國三~四個月,請婆婆有空到他家幫他開開水龍頭之類的
結果婆婆又在老公加班那天說:那假日有空你跟我一起去他家打掃
我覺得沒必要,所以有跟老公提一下
老公也覺得沒必要,但他是覺得不該是我去,他媽應該叫他去= =
所以他到時候會跟他媽一起去(我只會黑掉吧哈哈哈)
結果出國的朋友都沒事,竟然在老公出差的時候有事找我婆婆= =
目前還不知道是什麼事啦,不過我有不詳的預感= =
還沒結婚時,婆婆自己跟老公說:你們結婚後,我跟你爸會搬到另一個房子住,
這個家留給你們
結果婚後他們沒有搬,甚至另一個房子的房客剛好退租了,結果他們又要租出去
雖然平常我沒有打掃,可是桌子髒了我還是會擦、廚房髒了我也會掃
只是假日來個大掃這樣 不會都放任髒到假日
是不是婆婆有不滿我的地方,所以外公才會唸那些事情
我自認我付出滿多的了,可是外公唸打掃的事時,婆婆都沒幫腔,讓我很受傷
外公還要住一個禮拜,前幾天每天都唸,我想今天又不知道要被唸什麼了吧
我不想回家到覺得上班時間過好快好煩= =
對於外公唸的事情,是我反應太大嗎?還是其實他沒有針對我
因為我大概只跟外公見過三、四次面而已,到這幾天才知道他很會唸...
如果外公又唸我該怎麼辦呢?
婆婆如果叫我去他朋友家打掃又該怎麼辦呢??
ps一下:衣服我沒洗是因為我從沒看過婆婆去洗澡= =
所以也沒看過婆婆換下來的衣服在哪,洗衣機待洗的衣服永遠只有公公、老公、我的
就算二天沒洗也只有六、七件,可是通常等我下班回去就會發現衣服被洗掉了
而且多了一堆婆婆的衣服= =我真的不知道他放到哪,我也很想洗呀>____<
謝謝大家。
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