美好的假日應該是要隨心所欲的吧 - 婚姻
By Sandy
at 2011-10-06T09:00
at 2011-10-06T09:00
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先說明一下好了 我們跟公婆住 小孩目前快滿週歲
平常下班後都會回家吃飯 婆婆是個很要求營養滿分的人
而且婆婆很不愛外面的食物 她覺得自已煮的最乾淨衛生
我想先問大家一句話 "假日應該是要能夠隨心所欲的吧"
這幾個月來先生的假日總是在值班跟辦活動中渡過
好不容易盼到這週休二天他完全沒任何活動
而且前幾天也聽說公婆要去屏東玩過夜(週休)
我心想太好了 那我們這週休就可以大大的放鬆了
讓老公好好休息 睡到自然醒 一整天都好好放鬆
不急著何時吃飯 不急著做任何事
但就在昨天 我聽到公婆說出遊的事取消了 我心裡真的很失望
我並不是討厭老人家 只是我真的很想要有私人空間
通常假日公公比較不常在家 他的私人活動很多
如果是我們跟婆婆在家 用餐時間一到她就會問要吃什麼
其實我也知道用餐時間要正常 但因為一到五都有煮飯了
我想假日總是可以休息一下吧 但說過了婆婆不愛外食
而我假日不想煮飯的原因也是因為我覺得好不容易盼到假日了
我不想好好一個假日還要在廚房忙著煮飯、洗碗
當然他們吃的很開心 但我真的煮的很累
雖然婆婆也會說"假日想煮就煮不想煮就吃外面"
但如果真要吃外面 她也會碎念外面的東西都不衛生什麼的
所以每到假日我的神經還是很緊繃 想著十一點、下午六點要下樓煮飯
我曾跟娘家媽媽談到這個 我問我娘"能不能跟他們說假日就隨人"
就是假日的時間吃飯什麼的就各自處理 但我娘說這樣很不好
可能也是平常就每天見面 所以到假日我就會很想要有自已的空間
有時候很怕跟婆婆單獨相處 就是因為她總是會有意無意的支配妳的活動
例如她可能會跟妳說"推著小孩去外面走走呀" 但其實我想看書
不去的話 可能也會被碎念一堆懶惰呀什麼的
或許吧 我的要求真的很無理 但真的是一個為人媳婦的心聲
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平常下班後都會回家吃飯 婆婆是個很要求營養滿分的人
而且婆婆很不愛外面的食物 她覺得自已煮的最乾淨衛生
我想先問大家一句話 "假日應該是要能夠隨心所欲的吧"
這幾個月來先生的假日總是在值班跟辦活動中渡過
好不容易盼到這週休二天他完全沒任何活動
而且前幾天也聽說公婆要去屏東玩過夜(週休)
我心想太好了 那我們這週休就可以大大的放鬆了
讓老公好好休息 睡到自然醒 一整天都好好放鬆
不急著何時吃飯 不急著做任何事
但就在昨天 我聽到公婆說出遊的事取消了 我心裡真的很失望
我並不是討厭老人家 只是我真的很想要有私人空間
通常假日公公比較不常在家 他的私人活動很多
如果是我們跟婆婆在家 用餐時間一到她就會問要吃什麼
其實我也知道用餐時間要正常 但因為一到五都有煮飯了
我想假日總是可以休息一下吧 但說過了婆婆不愛外食
而我假日不想煮飯的原因也是因為我覺得好不容易盼到假日了
我不想好好一個假日還要在廚房忙著煮飯、洗碗
當然他們吃的很開心 但我真的煮的很累
雖然婆婆也會說"假日想煮就煮不想煮就吃外面"
但如果真要吃外面 她也會碎念外面的東西都不衛生什麼的
所以每到假日我的神經還是很緊繃 想著十一點、下午六點要下樓煮飯
我曾跟娘家媽媽談到這個 我問我娘"能不能跟他們說假日就隨人"
就是假日的時間吃飯什麼的就各自處理 但我娘說這樣很不好
可能也是平常就每天見面 所以到假日我就會很想要有自已的空間
有時候很怕跟婆婆單獨相處 就是因為她總是會有意無意的支配妳的活動
例如她可能會跟妳說"推著小孩去外面走走呀" 但其實我想看書
不去的話 可能也會被碎念一堆懶惰呀什麼的
或許吧 我的要求真的很無理 但真的是一個為人媳婦的心聲
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