結婚日 家人不在國內 - 結婚
By Adele
at 2010-06-23T19:58
at 2010-06-23T19:58
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很抱歉讓大家麻煩了
因為這事情發生在昨天 當下的心情真的很差
過了這一天 看了大家的想法
我想 我似乎有點過份了
換個立場想 如果對方因為別的理由要改期
我想我應該會大發脾氣吧
而我的男友沒有對我發脾氣 只是很無奈的一直在勸我
我們適不適合結婚的問題 其實我也考慮很久
不只家庭觀念上的差異 還有其他很多事
我也提出來和男友討論過我們之間很多的差異
他也一直很耐心的和我一起溝通協調
他只有一個想法:兩個人本來就生活在不同的家庭
有很多的差異 是需要用一輩子溝通協調的
而他 很願意用他一輩子的時間和我慢慢溝通
其實...我脾很差 真的每次都是我在發脾氣
他都先安撫好我的情緒後再與我找出一個平點
倆個人在一起 也不是單看一件事就去決定是否繼續或結束
他的家庭觀的問題 我在剛和他交往時就知道了
也花了很多時間去適應了...至少現在還能接受他的一些想法
對他來說 他很少有堅持 難得對這件事情有所堅持
通常他有堅持時 我都會退讓
昨天我也曾經想過要順他的意思
只是 他所講出來的話真的讓人很難過
他真的讓我覺得他不重視我所重視的人
所以 我在當下沒仔去多方考慮 只覺得很傷心 就po文上來了
經過大家的建議 我想 我會再和他溝通看看
畢竟我真的很想要我的家人都在身邊
如果他還是覺得要如期完婚 我想 用視訊應該是個好方法
只是 我猜 以我的個性 我應該會唸一輩子吧 因為真的是個很大的遺憾
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