產後孕婦要怎麼相處? - 婚姻

By Zenobia
at 2017-06-22T11:20
at 2017-06-22T11:20
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※ 引述《zzzoprah (重新認識自己)》之銘言:
: 雖然這篇文已經被噓到不行
: 但我還是想說一下
: 這是平等權利問題,不是什麼似是而非的 " 傳統"
同意,其實說到底就是對平權的看法
我從來不覺得男女平權在台灣有真正的落實
就好像我在推文處簡單的說明過了
為什麼台灣會有工具人這個名詞?
為什麼男女生交往就一定要男生努力追,當司機,錢包,水電工。。。
我曾經有一個女朋友是ABC, 有一次想幫她拿車子去修
她說不需要,我是成年人可以自己處理好
讓我感觸頗深,如果是某些台女,多半周末你要幫她的清單都開好了
她只要打扮票漂亮亮然後開開心心
一起去看電影逛街然後花你的錢這樣
某些台女根本很多人不懂甚麼是真的男女平權
既然倡議假平權,我就倡議真男女有別
: 引述《gojuryu (鋼柔)》之銘言:
: 這種強迫 男主外女主內 的想法
: 完全就剝奪了一個人對自己人生安排的選擇權
: 男生 生下來就被教育成家裡的權力者
: 女生 生下來就被教育成家裡的支持者
: 我們父母輩幾乎沒有什麼自由度可以選擇自己的角色
: 有多少母親白天幫忙家裡的生意,晚上做家務
: 父親則是收工後就在旁邊休息
: 家庭主婦一年365天哪天不是從早做到晚
: 有很多女性其實想出去工作
: 有很多男性其實想在家照顧孩子
: 但礙於社會價值觀而無法得到平等對待
其實我本來不打算結婚的
看太多這種例子,我也跟當時的女朋友跟現在老婆說
因為這樣,所以我不想結婚
我也不想浪費你時間,你會覺得跟我結婚對你很不公平
然後千方百計想說服她分手,阿她就不要阿
: 再三叮嚀老婆.....
: 這種態度最讓我不敢苟同
: 如果你太太本來目標就是在家當賢妻良母那就好
: 但從你的說法上看起來就是你利用她對你的愛逼她就範
: 為什麼上班得要是她有閒功夫時才能享受的權利?
我只能說女人想結婚,就要做好當老婆的準備
想生孩子,就要做好當媽的準備
不要只是想要把一個男人框住
就不用擔心年老色衰嫁不出去
一個人要認分,自由意志是假的
我們每個人都覺得自己在做選擇
但事實上只是從不得已的幾個選項挑比較好的而已
: 如果這樣,你去上班應該也是興趣啊
: 下班後應該也要做優先權最高的工作-家務
我下班之後累了會休息
然後繼續安排時間準備副業,學新知
也會每週排時間陪老婆小孩
但是不是每天,也不是每個晚上
--
: 雖然這篇文已經被噓到不行
: 但我還是想說一下
: 這是平等權利問題,不是什麼似是而非的 " 傳統"
同意,其實說到底就是對平權的看法
我從來不覺得男女平權在台灣有真正的落實
就好像我在推文處簡單的說明過了
為什麼台灣會有工具人這個名詞?
為什麼男女生交往就一定要男生努力追,當司機,錢包,水電工。。。
我曾經有一個女朋友是ABC, 有一次想幫她拿車子去修
她說不需要,我是成年人可以自己處理好
讓我感觸頗深,如果是某些台女,多半周末你要幫她的清單都開好了
她只要打扮票漂亮亮然後開開心心
一起去看電影逛街然後花你的錢這樣
某些台女根本很多人不懂甚麼是真的男女平權
既然倡議假平權,我就倡議真男女有別
: 引述《gojuryu (鋼柔)》之銘言:
: 這種強迫 男主外女主內 的想法
: 完全就剝奪了一個人對自己人生安排的選擇權
: 男生 生下來就被教育成家裡的權力者
: 女生 生下來就被教育成家裡的支持者
: 我們父母輩幾乎沒有什麼自由度可以選擇自己的角色
: 有多少母親白天幫忙家裡的生意,晚上做家務
: 父親則是收工後就在旁邊休息
: 家庭主婦一年365天哪天不是從早做到晚
: 有很多女性其實想出去工作
: 有很多男性其實想在家照顧孩子
: 但礙於社會價值觀而無法得到平等對待
其實我本來不打算結婚的
看太多這種例子,我也跟當時的女朋友跟現在老婆說
因為這樣,所以我不想結婚
我也不想浪費你時間,你會覺得跟我結婚對你很不公平
然後千方百計想說服她分手,阿她就不要阿
: 再三叮嚀老婆.....
: 這種態度最讓我不敢苟同
: 如果你太太本來目標就是在家當賢妻良母那就好
: 但從你的說法上看起來就是你利用她對你的愛逼她就範
: 為什麼上班得要是她有閒功夫時才能享受的權利?
我只能說女人想結婚,就要做好當老婆的準備
想生孩子,就要做好當媽的準備
不要只是想要把一個男人框住
就不用擔心年老色衰嫁不出去
一個人要認分,自由意志是假的
我們每個人都覺得自己在做選擇
但事實上只是從不得已的幾個選項挑比較好的而已
: 如果這樣,你去上班應該也是興趣啊
: 下班後應該也要做優先權最高的工作-家務
我下班之後累了會休息
然後繼續安排時間準備副業,學新知
也會每週排時間陪老婆小孩
但是不是每天,也不是每個晚上
--
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