生男和生女的差別(幫代po) - 婚姻
By Ida
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先代我同學謝謝大家的回應~我再補充說明一下讓我同學更心酸的點
1.前面提及我同學她老公是獨生子,而他還有一個姊姊,姊姊已經嫁人了,而跟我同學
相反,我同學他的大姑都生兒子,還生三個,最小的才2歲多
因為大姑和她老公工作的關西,所以最小兒子就留在外我同學她公婆家帶,所以這是婆婆
對我同學冷落的最大的因素。
2.再來就是祖產的問題,因為我同學生第二胎時就表明絕不會再生了,而我同學她老公
也支持她,只是回到祖產的問題就是我同學她老公確定不會把大部分祖產傳給她自己的
女兒,為什麼呢?因為我同學她的大姑要把她最小的兒子過繼給我公婆
等於是讓那個最小兒子去繼承大部分的祖產(透天厝和土地)....
而我同學的老公對此也沒啥意見,他覺得能讓老人家開心就好
3.回到我同學在意的點,她之前跟她老公對於現在房價高漲的年代
她有希望她老公能至少讓孩子們都分一棟自己的房子(以她老公家的實力是有的)
而她老公在交往時也是跟她說會盡力讓孩子無後顧之憂,這點讓她覺得有很大安全感
只是婚後生子因為男孩女孩而產生那麼大的落差讓她難以釋懷
4.最後說說現在我同學的現況,他們住的獨棟透天是她公婆給她老公的
不過她老公目前僅有的不動產也僅止於此,而這佔不到百分之五...
後記:我也把板上正面的想法跟我同學說,他也明瞭不要祖產換來的自由
只是他也說身為人母後,現實和那理想的拉鋸還是會有的
雖然我還不太明白,不過也隱隱約約能了解他的明白吧
不知大家還有什麼其他的想法嗎??
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