無後援家長如何兼顧職場與生活 - 婚姻

By Belly
at 2023-04-22T19:20
at 2023-04-22T19:20
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是否同意記者抄文: NO
如題,查了一下版規也想過貼那些版適合,想來想去好像就婚姻版恰當
希望主題沒有違反版規
很希望能有:雙薪、有小孩+無後援、事業發展得不錯的夫妻可以分享經驗?
尤其,是夫妻雙方"盡量"都沒有犧牲太多職涯發展的例子
(我的小孩已過了需要保母的年紀,所以保母的選項已經無法適用了)
小弟我和太太的長輩都在外縣市
生了小孩後,雖然覺得人生多了許多前所未有的樂趣
但我跟太太其實都覺得在無後援的情況下
職場競爭力、生活品質都明顯下降
我們自己也很擔心如果不能在三十幾歲時好好打拼
之後等到孩子國小國中可以獨立了
但自己也失去了往上爬的能力,畢竟職場是不太會給老人機會的
環顧身邊有小孩後,夫妻(雙方或一方)還能愜意出去參加活動、吃東西
甚至是猛爆性投注於事業,不用擔心接送、晚回家等等事情的
多半是爸媽都住在附近,有「長期、穩定、自己可以安心交付、可承接臨時需求」的後援
有這樣的資源,真的就不用神傷職場突發狀況或擔心被黑
我甚至還看過平日都在長輩家,假日才接回來玩玩的 (我沒有羨慕這種的)
總體來說,這一來一往的差距
長久下來,都會明顯影響到個體間的職場發展與生活品質
或許是我能力差,有很多彈性做法但自己卻沒想到
希望有前輩可以分享調適、成功的經驗
不管是實際在職場上的處事技巧、心態整備等
任何心法我都想了解,謝謝
(至於第二胎,真的已經完全不敢想了...QQ)
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