Re: 男友婚前急買房 我該跟進嗎 - 婚姻
By Lily
at 2023-04-21T21:57
at 2023-04-21T21:57
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我是原po
這件事情已經發生兩個禮拜
他是在我出差不在家的那一個禮拜把房子簽了
他只有簡單的問我喜歡什麼地段
格局圖也是簽約後才給我看的
很多人質疑為何不問清楚他要婚前買房
因為我知道這是他非常在意的點 男生個性強勢
離過一次婚有小孩 對於自己的錢非常保護
交往期間我們也都AA
所以關於他的錢 我沒有過問過
婚事決定暫緩 列入留校察看
謝謝各位的提點..
※ 引述《GunOfWind (問世間情為何物)》之銘言:
: 都要結婚了 為啥不問對方想甚麼
: 這種事情正反兩面看都有可能阿
: 反:
: 因為婚前財產算個人的 離婚不用平分
: 正:
: 因為要結婚了 想要有個房子好讓老婆安心 也好去跟岳父母提親
: 婚姻又不是兒戲 沒有討論 沒有溝通
: 再怎麼愛婚後也會有問題
: ※ 引述《russk (russk)》之銘言:
: : 雙方交往穩定 準備看日子了
: : 但男友最近自己拼命看房 也自己去簽了一間華廈
: : 月繳貸款約10萬 佔薪水的三分之二
: : 我喜歡一起打拼 共同為一個家努力奮鬥的過程
: : 現在他的行為讓我很疑惑
: : 我以為應該要婚後共同持有 一起繳貸款 一起努力
: : 我的薪水跟他差不多
: : 我該跟進也在婚前買一間自己的房嗎?
: : 不太懂他為何要這樣急著買房
: : 像問問各位的意見 謝謝
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這件事情已經發生兩個禮拜
他是在我出差不在家的那一個禮拜把房子簽了
他只有簡單的問我喜歡什麼地段
格局圖也是簽約後才給我看的
很多人質疑為何不問清楚他要婚前買房
因為我知道這是他非常在意的點 男生個性強勢
離過一次婚有小孩 對於自己的錢非常保護
交往期間我們也都AA
所以關於他的錢 我沒有過問過
婚事決定暫緩 列入留校察看
謝謝各位的提點..
※ 引述《GunOfWind (問世間情為何物)》之銘言:
: 都要結婚了 為啥不問對方想甚麼
: 這種事情正反兩面看都有可能阿
: 反:
: 因為婚前財產算個人的 離婚不用平分
: 正:
: 因為要結婚了 想要有個房子好讓老婆安心 也好去跟岳父母提親
: 婚姻又不是兒戲 沒有討論 沒有溝通
: 再怎麼愛婚後也會有問題
: ※ 引述《russk (russk)》之銘言:
: : 雙方交往穩定 準備看日子了
: : 但男友最近自己拼命看房 也自己去簽了一間華廈
: : 月繳貸款約10萬 佔薪水的三分之二
: : 我喜歡一起打拼 共同為一個家努力奮鬥的過程
: : 現在他的行為讓我很疑惑
: : 我以為應該要婚後共同持有 一起繳貸款 一起努力
: : 我的薪水跟他差不多
: : 我該跟進也在婚前買一間自己的房嗎?
: : 不太懂他為何要這樣急著買房
: : 像問問各位的意見 謝謝
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