為了棄貓說自已死掉的新祕!許多莉 - 結婚
By Suhail Hany
at 2016-06-08T13:05
at 2016-06-08T13:05
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(原文恕刪)
我老婆是多莉服務過的新娘,老實說這件事從貓版爆發出來後,
我就一直在關注事情的發展方向,當初我們也是從版上眾多推薦文中,
找到了多莉。如果她不是認真的人,怎麼會有這麼多人願意無條件的幫她寫推薦文呢?
當風向一面倒的指責多莉,我知道現在不是幫多莉說話的好時機,
只怕會被“鄉民的正義”給一下子淹沒,但既然已經有律師發文澄清,
我想現在就是這個時間了。
FB文章連結如下,
https://www.facebook.com/sleeplaw/posts/1780800632149086?pnref=story
https://www.facebook.com/sleeplaw/posts/1781293375433145
楊律師文中結尾沒有下定論,只是希望大家能冷靜思考當中不合理的地方。
回到正題,我會選擇po在GetMarry是因為我想從推薦新秘的角度來幫多莉說話。
(題外話,有些鄉民讓我覺得很有趣,沒po三聯單前說報案沒證據,
po三聯單後說可能是自導自演,都給你說就好了啊)
Lemon68大在前篇文章提到,她認為多莉騙她臥病在床,藉故拖延退還訂金的時間。
退還訂金確實是晚了,但Lemon68怎麼能夠如此肯定多莉是詐病?
我老婆還是偶爾會和多莉聊天,加上ning1989大的說法
(或許有其他多莉服務過的新娘可以跳出來證明),
據我所知,去年底多莉確實遇到了人生的低潮。
先不用說生重病開刀等等,如果有經歷過重感冒還必須要勉強上班的人,
一定可以體會,如非必要,躺在床上最好。
這邊一下子就下定論說多莉騙人,我覺得非常不公道。
換個角度來討論,根據Lemon68大提供的合約內容,
“不可抗力”因素還特別包含“婚期異動”的沒幾個人會這樣寫吧?
我認為從這裡就可以看出多莉為客人著想的心,多莉最後也全額退還訂金了,
又何來詐騙之說?
我不知道有多少人真的仔細看過對話紀錄,
多莉親自回文和先生代回的部份語氣明顯不同,就我們接洽多莉的經驗來說,
多莉一向是親切有禮貌的。
再來,先生代回的部分雖然語氣較重,但他也是站在保護太太的立場向客人說明,
像是退款沒有約定期限也是事實。多莉考慮到客人的情況退款,
是否大家也能一起加入考慮,多莉好的一面在討論中都被忽略了。
Lemon68大生氣的點或許是多莉訊息已讀不回的部份,這部份我認為是可以理解的,
但像Lemon68大也曾經考慮到多莉身體不適,所以當時沒有發文,
這個部份我認為Lemon68大也是善良的人。
我相信現在一定也能知道,當時多莉因健康因素還要處理眾多已下訂的合約
(幫忙改期、退訂、另外推荐新祕等,甚至無法改期的還是必須親自服務),
人的能力是有限的,多莉沒有助理協助,事情也有優先順序的考量,
很自然的可以理解多莉為何遲延退款了。
這事件當中,多莉的健康、感情生活、家庭都是很隱私的部份,
根本不需要向外人解釋,現在卻被一一拿出來檢視,
查到一些蛛絲馬跡馬上就被拉出來放大百倍,查不到的鄉民們可以自己隨便臆測,
真的讓我見識到什麼叫做人言可畏,網路霸凌就在我認識的人身邊真實上演,
甚至連多莉曾經服務過的新娘都被牽連下水。
我冒著被強風吹歪的風險,出來替多莉說話,
因為我相信熱愛且認真面對自己職業的人,不會是個沒有誠信的人。
---
「網路也好…真實世界也好…人多的一方,往往霸佔著所謂的正義。」
「我要他們永遠記得,他們曾經用BBS殺死一個女孩子。」
by BBS鄉民的正義
--
我老婆是多莉服務過的新娘,老實說這件事從貓版爆發出來後,
我就一直在關注事情的發展方向,當初我們也是從版上眾多推薦文中,
找到了多莉。如果她不是認真的人,怎麼會有這麼多人願意無條件的幫她寫推薦文呢?
當風向一面倒的指責多莉,我知道現在不是幫多莉說話的好時機,
只怕會被“鄉民的正義”給一下子淹沒,但既然已經有律師發文澄清,
我想現在就是這個時間了。
FB文章連結如下,
https://www.facebook.com/sleeplaw/posts/1780800632149086?pnref=story
https://www.facebook.com/sleeplaw/posts/1781293375433145
楊律師文中結尾沒有下定論,只是希望大家能冷靜思考當中不合理的地方。
回到正題,我會選擇po在GetMarry是因為我想從推薦新秘的角度來幫多莉說話。
(題外話,有些鄉民讓我覺得很有趣,沒po三聯單前說報案沒證據,
po三聯單後說可能是自導自演,都給你說就好了啊)
Lemon68大在前篇文章提到,她認為多莉騙她臥病在床,藉故拖延退還訂金的時間。
退還訂金確實是晚了,但Lemon68怎麼能夠如此肯定多莉是詐病?
我老婆還是偶爾會和多莉聊天,加上ning1989大的說法
(或許有其他多莉服務過的新娘可以跳出來證明),
據我所知,去年底多莉確實遇到了人生的低潮。
先不用說生重病開刀等等,如果有經歷過重感冒還必須要勉強上班的人,
一定可以體會,如非必要,躺在床上最好。
這邊一下子就下定論說多莉騙人,我覺得非常不公道。
換個角度來討論,根據Lemon68大提供的合約內容,
“不可抗力”因素還特別包含“婚期異動”的沒幾個人會這樣寫吧?
我認為從這裡就可以看出多莉為客人著想的心,多莉最後也全額退還訂金了,
又何來詐騙之說?
我不知道有多少人真的仔細看過對話紀錄,
多莉親自回文和先生代回的部份語氣明顯不同,就我們接洽多莉的經驗來說,
多莉一向是親切有禮貌的。
再來,先生代回的部分雖然語氣較重,但他也是站在保護太太的立場向客人說明,
像是退款沒有約定期限也是事實。多莉考慮到客人的情況退款,
是否大家也能一起加入考慮,多莉好的一面在討論中都被忽略了。
Lemon68大生氣的點或許是多莉訊息已讀不回的部份,這部份我認為是可以理解的,
但像Lemon68大也曾經考慮到多莉身體不適,所以當時沒有發文,
這個部份我認為Lemon68大也是善良的人。
我相信現在一定也能知道,當時多莉因健康因素還要處理眾多已下訂的合約
(幫忙改期、退訂、另外推荐新祕等,甚至無法改期的還是必須親自服務),
人的能力是有限的,多莉沒有助理協助,事情也有優先順序的考量,
很自然的可以理解多莉為何遲延退款了。
這事件當中,多莉的健康、感情生活、家庭都是很隱私的部份,
根本不需要向外人解釋,現在卻被一一拿出來檢視,
查到一些蛛絲馬跡馬上就被拉出來放大百倍,查不到的鄉民們可以自己隨便臆測,
真的讓我見識到什麼叫做人言可畏,網路霸凌就在我認識的人身邊真實上演,
甚至連多莉曾經服務過的新娘都被牽連下水。
我冒著被強風吹歪的風險,出來替多莉說話,
因為我相信熱愛且認真面對自己職業的人,不會是個沒有誠信的人。
---
「網路也好…真實世界也好…人多的一方,往往霸佔著所謂的正義。」
「我要他們永遠記得,他們曾經用BBS殺死一個女孩子。」
by BBS鄉民的正義
--
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