怎麼拒絕男方的要求比較好? - 結婚
By Oscar
at 2016-06-08T01:07
at 2016-06-08T01:07
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由於原PO寄信要求,並顧及男友也會上PTT,因此本人刪除原文,並修改內文,致使看不出來
原PO和原事件內容為何,這樣便不知道了.另外,貿然刪文,會致使以下推文者錯愕,所以
本人就以此方式處理吧!
天啊!!!!!!!!!!!!!
原PO我看了妳的敘述內容,
來回看了N次,因為妳的一些敘述讓我覺得你們雙方經濟狀況根本不穩定,基本上就是沒
有存款吧!加上男方吝嗇的樣子,還有你們只給男方禮三萬,我也覺得你們雙方家庭不是
可以讓你們靠爸靠媽的那種。
所以我不禁對妳說「雙方經濟穩定,餓不到小孩」存疑,就去google妳在ptt的貼文,(
對不起,我只是好奇)
發現妳去年9月在womentalk 版貼的兩篇文章,
其中一篇是妳被資遣+被新公司解聘
其中一篇是男友工作五年沒有存款把錢花光光狂買遊戲點數!!!!!!!!!!!!!
!!!!!而且你們兩個到現在都還有學貸!!!!!!!!OMG !!!!!!God God
God God God!!!
你們兩人的月收入也很不理想,而且還不穩定。
我拜託妳理智一點,
我看了那兩篇文章快昏倒了。我知道這樣可能讓妳覺得我侵犯妳之類的,但因為那兩篇文
章是公開的,加上姐姐我看太多奉子成婚的慘劇,真的很想拉妳一把,幫妳加油!
這種狀況:
妳不會幸福
男友未必會變得有擔當
婆家 哼!
孩子呵呵了啊!
我先唸一下阿彌陀佛:阿彌陀佛。
然後我建議妳如果上來問問題,敘述上要明確通順一點,
妳可以訓練一下自己的表達能力和行政能力之類的,或培養專業技能,
去找適合又穩定的工作,
換個男友,切切離離欸!
好好養著妳收留的狗,
重新開始好嗎?
加油!
另外,
訂婚的支出都女方負責,
若男方要來訂婚宴,習俗上要負壓桌錢,
如果是結婚場,
男方還要求你們出,妳就真的太可憐了,
但是我想到妳男友根本沒錢,好吧......
不過現在不是討論這些的時候了,
妳該醒醒了!
而且連兩桌的錢也出不了,雙方都不乾不脆的,
我真的不相信你們可以養好小孩,養小孩超級燒錢的。
但這不是重點,
拜託妳不要想結婚了,
還有即使妳想生小孩,
以妳現在的狀況,
希望妳替媽媽想一下,
她老人家現在應該到了退休的時候了,
未來若還要為了幫忙養孫子繼續工作,
妳不會捨不得嗎?
妹妹妳加油!振作!
理智一點,真的!
妳還年輕!
有部電影叫「辣妹青春」,
晚上睡不著妳看一下吧!
看完也許妳會有不一樣的想法和決定。
再給妳一次加油。加油!
--
原PO和原事件內容為何,這樣便不知道了.另外,貿然刪文,會致使以下推文者錯愕,所以
本人就以此方式處理吧!
天啊!!!!!!!!!!!!!
原PO我看了妳的敘述內容,
來回看了N次,因為妳的一些敘述讓我覺得你們雙方經濟狀況根本不穩定,基本上就是沒
有存款吧!加上男方吝嗇的樣子,還有你們只給男方禮三萬,我也覺得你們雙方家庭不是
可以讓你們靠爸靠媽的那種。
所以我不禁對妳說「雙方經濟穩定,餓不到小孩」存疑,就去google妳在ptt的貼文,(
對不起,我只是好奇)
發現妳去年9月在womentalk 版貼的兩篇文章,
其中一篇是妳被資遣+被新公司解聘
其中一篇是男友工作五年沒有存款把錢花光光狂買遊戲點數!!!!!!!!!!!!!
!!!!!而且你們兩個到現在都還有學貸!!!!!!!!OMG !!!!!!God God
God God God!!!
你們兩人的月收入也很不理想,而且還不穩定。
我拜託妳理智一點,
我看了那兩篇文章快昏倒了。我知道這樣可能讓妳覺得我侵犯妳之類的,但因為那兩篇文
章是公開的,加上姐姐我看太多奉子成婚的慘劇,真的很想拉妳一把,幫妳加油!
這種狀況:
妳不會幸福
男友未必會變得有擔當
婆家 哼!
孩子呵呵了啊!
我先唸一下阿彌陀佛:阿彌陀佛。
然後我建議妳如果上來問問題,敘述上要明確通順一點,
妳可以訓練一下自己的表達能力和行政能力之類的,或培養專業技能,
去找適合又穩定的工作,
換個男友,切切離離欸!
好好養著妳收留的狗,
重新開始好嗎?
加油!
另外,
訂婚的支出都女方負責,
若男方要來訂婚宴,習俗上要負壓桌錢,
如果是結婚場,
男方還要求你們出,妳就真的太可憐了,
但是我想到妳男友根本沒錢,好吧......
不過現在不是討論這些的時候了,
妳該醒醒了!
而且連兩桌的錢也出不了,雙方都不乾不脆的,
我真的不相信你們可以養好小孩,養小孩超級燒錢的。
但這不是重點,
拜託妳不要想結婚了,
還有即使妳想生小孩,
以妳現在的狀況,
希望妳替媽媽想一下,
她老人家現在應該到了退休的時候了,
未來若還要為了幫忙養孫子繼續工作,
妳不會捨不得嗎?
妹妹妳加油!振作!
理智一點,真的!
妳還年輕!
有部電影叫「辣妹青春」,
晚上睡不著妳看一下吧!
看完也許妳會有不一樣的想法和決定。
再給妳一次加油。加油!
--
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