沒有辦法接受的雙重標準 - 婚姻
By Mason
at 2012-12-21T19:43
at 2012-12-21T19:43
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我看這篇也很有感覺
我懷孕初期因出血安胎兩週
之後一直上班到生
也因為狀況一直不穩
醫生從頭到尾一直囑咐我能坐就不要站
能躺就不要坐
躺著就是最好的安胎藥
一直到要生前一週他才准我運動
也因為出血的陰影實在太大
所以我自己恪守醫生的叮嚀
除了上班我儘可能休息
可是這中間心酸只有我自己能體會
常常很多人一看到你就跟你說
懷孕要多動啊
你怎麼這麼懶洋洋
(一付你騙我沒生過小孩的樣子)
即使一再解釋還是每天聽到你要去爬樓梯啊
你要運動啊
你要多走路啊這種屁話
大家都覺得自己比醫生還懂孕婦的狀況
認為醫生大驚小怪
即使每次去產檢都聽到醫生說要我盡量臥床的老公或公婆也是這樣
每天在解釋這些我真的心力交瘁
我心裡真的好憂鬱
人言可畏
誰能體會當你每天脫下褲子看到一灘血時心中的恐懼(初期真是每天都見血)
人家只當你是把自己當貴婦
這中間支撐我的只有我的孩子
我一直告訴自己
這世界上只有我能保護他
我要保護他
這個世界就是這樣
沒遇過的人不會了解箇中滋味
只希望有看過這系列文的人能夠將心比心
體諒一下孕婦的辛苦
不要一視同仁的要孕婦多動了
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我懷孕初期因出血安胎兩週
之後一直上班到生
也因為狀況一直不穩
醫生從頭到尾一直囑咐我能坐就不要站
能躺就不要坐
躺著就是最好的安胎藥
一直到要生前一週他才准我運動
也因為出血的陰影實在太大
所以我自己恪守醫生的叮嚀
除了上班我儘可能休息
可是這中間心酸只有我自己能體會
常常很多人一看到你就跟你說
懷孕要多動啊
你怎麼這麼懶洋洋
(一付你騙我沒生過小孩的樣子)
即使一再解釋還是每天聽到你要去爬樓梯啊
你要運動啊
你要多走路啊這種屁話
大家都覺得自己比醫生還懂孕婦的狀況
認為醫生大驚小怪
即使每次去產檢都聽到醫生說要我盡量臥床的老公或公婆也是這樣
每天在解釋這些我真的心力交瘁
我心裡真的好憂鬱
人言可畏
誰能體會當你每天脫下褲子看到一灘血時心中的恐懼(初期真是每天都見血)
人家只當你是把自己當貴婦
這中間支撐我的只有我的孩子
我一直告訴自己
這世界上只有我能保護他
我要保護他
這個世界就是這樣
沒遇過的人不會了解箇中滋味
只希望有看過這系列文的人能夠將心比心
體諒一下孕婦的辛苦
不要一視同仁的要孕婦多動了
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