沒有出口的婚姻 - 婚姻
By Aaliyah
at 2011-12-13T12:53
at 2011-12-13T12:53
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夫妻二人已經結婚九年了,有二個6.7歲的小朋友,單獨住外面沒有與公婆同住,
也沒有房貸車貸的問題,是雙薪家庭,在外人眼裡應是非常幸福。
可是他們已二年沒有單獨的對話了,二個很單純的只是個性不合與觀念不同的吵,
剛結婚還好算小吵,生完小孩後是大吵。
吵了好多年,我朋友放棄了,她不再吵了,面對先生只有與小朋友有關的必要對話,
在小朋友面前表現出好爸爸好媽媽,也會一起帶小朋友出國遊玩,
也會一起關心小朋友的功課...一切的一切...全都是為了二個小孩。
最近三個月,她老公有表現出示好的樣子,因為想要那個吧
(已經快一年沒有過親密行為了)頻頻的肢體碰觸讓她覺得非常噁心反感。
她說她可以原諒多年的爭吵,但僅只於跟老公成為室友、好朋友,無法再成為親密愛人,
她說只要老公碰到她,她就會想起當初吵架時的鄙視傷人的話(真的非常難聽)。
女人身體是誠實的,她唯一的堅持就是讓小孩在一個健全的家庭長大,
她跟我訴苦,我卻無法替她找到出口...我也好悶啊!
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也沒有房貸車貸的問題,是雙薪家庭,在外人眼裡應是非常幸福。
可是他們已二年沒有單獨的對話了,二個很單純的只是個性不合與觀念不同的吵,
剛結婚還好算小吵,生完小孩後是大吵。
吵了好多年,我朋友放棄了,她不再吵了,面對先生只有與小朋友有關的必要對話,
在小朋友面前表現出好爸爸好媽媽,也會一起帶小朋友出國遊玩,
也會一起關心小朋友的功課...一切的一切...全都是為了二個小孩。
最近三個月,她老公有表現出示好的樣子,因為想要那個吧
(已經快一年沒有過親密行為了)頻頻的肢體碰觸讓她覺得非常噁心反感。
她說她可以原諒多年的爭吵,但僅只於跟老公成為室友、好朋友,無法再成為親密愛人,
她說只要老公碰到她,她就會想起當初吵架時的鄙視傷人的話(真的非常難聽)。
女人身體是誠實的,她唯一的堅持就是讓小孩在一個健全的家庭長大,
她跟我訴苦,我卻無法替她找到出口...我也好悶啊!
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