未來的婆婆讓我很難過 - 結婚
By Heather
at 2010-08-12T09:30
at 2010-08-12T09:30
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我和我的男友交往兩年餘
因為我們彼此都到了適婚年齡
我32歲~我男友30歲
從去年
未來的婆婆就開始催婚
甚至是有一天晚上
未來婆婆在客廳等我們約會回來
語重心長的對我們說
婚禮要辦在年底
她擔心自己身體不好
希望早點完成唯一的兒子婚姻大事
並且還說
家裡所有一切都留給我們
惟獨家事不會
她說~我可以繼續自己的工作
家事還是由婆婆做
當時~面對這樣的婆婆
感到非常幸福
因為我男友非常疼我
如果未來婆婆也這樣疼我~那真是太幸福美滿的事了
但因為當時我跟男友交往也才1年多
還有許多對彼此的不確定性
所以央求隔年再做打算
於是今年初
他們家人便急著到我家提親了
訂了今年10月10日結婚
我是家裡唯一的女孩子
也是我爸媽最疼的小孩
我爸只希望我未來得到幸福
所以~特地告訴對方
他不收任何一筆聘金
只希望對方待我好就行了
因為我男友的舅舅是媒人
他覺得畢竟人家辛苦把女兒養大
男友家也不是拿不出錢
並硬是跟我爸爸說餅錢會給我們家26萬
我爸很堅持不拿任何錢
彼此拉扯最後他們說這是禮數~所以也接受了這樣的美意
而任何的結婚禮節
我爸媽也不是很在意
說只要年輕人喜歡的就可以了
而我也不是那種標新立異的女生
因為知道男友是獨子
所以~在未來的婚姻藍圖上
侍奉公婆是我美滿婚姻裡的一部份
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而就在上個禮拜
發生了一些變化
我和男友載我婆婆一起去婚紗店挑婆婆裝
在車上
因為我朋友也同行
我朋友告訴我婆婆說~
最近他弟弟也要結婚了
對方女生獅子大開口
餅錢就要16萬
沒想到我婆婆突然說
這樣真的很便宜~~
俗啦~~真俗....(台語)
我當下聽了之後不是很開心
言下之意好像是~~我拿了26萬很貴嗎?
我們家沒有要求那些錢
而喜餅我還再三比價~挑了最便宜的喜餅
事後我問男友說~
為什麼你媽媽突然這樣說呢?
我男友說~要我別放心上
如果~結婚他媽媽給我26萬
扣掉餅錢~剩下的還給她就好了
(那當然可以呀!但這真的是感覺上的問題)
而就在昨天
我到男友家陪他媽媽看電視
突然~他媽媽在我面前問我男友
現在金子價是多少
我男友說~大概是5000多了吧
他媽媽一聽就說~怎麼那麼貴啊
(我人還在他家呢......)
接著他媽媽要我男友打通電話給他舅舅
因為他舅舅最近也要娶媳婦了
在電話中(我仍在客廳裡)
他一直說~金價太貴了
還說~~不然我跟對方說不要買可以嗎??????
可能是舅舅說~這樣失禮節...
才又說~好吧~那買吧!
可是之後又說~家裡的金塊不見了
她很痛苦和煩惱
她說~一定是被偷的
但絕不可能是公公拿的...因為他身上有多少錢~她都知道
也不可能是2個女兒拿的
她們很乖
又說~~可能是兒子拿的(我男友????)
最後卻說~~哪裡知道.....知人知面不知心
現在的人都看不出來
反正就是被偷了
我婆婆最疼的就是我男友
而我男友也是家裡最孝順父母的
他媽媽再怎麼樣也不可能懷疑他自己的兒子
那在我面前講述這段話
是在影射我嗎?
我是在離開我男友家~才崩潰大哭的
我從小到大沒做過什麼壞事情
雖然我男友安撫我~
又跟我說~他媽媽說話就是這樣
要我別放心上
我放心上就是我自己的問題
這是我的問題嗎?
我男友要我以後聽到這樣的話就要去釋懷
我不知道該怎麼辦
婚紗照也拍了
喜餅也挑了
連餐廳都訂好了
但我真的很想毀婚
--
生命該浪費在美好的事物上
我和朱提的生活瑣事
http://0rz.tw/c94Am
--
因為我們彼此都到了適婚年齡
我32歲~我男友30歲
從去年
未來的婆婆就開始催婚
甚至是有一天晚上
未來婆婆在客廳等我們約會回來
語重心長的對我們說
婚禮要辦在年底
她擔心自己身體不好
希望早點完成唯一的兒子婚姻大事
並且還說
家裡所有一切都留給我們
惟獨家事不會
她說~我可以繼續自己的工作
家事還是由婆婆做
當時~面對這樣的婆婆
感到非常幸福
因為我男友非常疼我
如果未來婆婆也這樣疼我~那真是太幸福美滿的事了
但因為當時我跟男友交往也才1年多
還有許多對彼此的不確定性
所以央求隔年再做打算
於是今年初
他們家人便急著到我家提親了
訂了今年10月10日結婚
我是家裡唯一的女孩子
也是我爸媽最疼的小孩
我爸只希望我未來得到幸福
所以~特地告訴對方
他不收任何一筆聘金
只希望對方待我好就行了
因為我男友的舅舅是媒人
他覺得畢竟人家辛苦把女兒養大
男友家也不是拿不出錢
並硬是跟我爸爸說餅錢會給我們家26萬
我爸很堅持不拿任何錢
彼此拉扯最後他們說這是禮數~所以也接受了這樣的美意
而任何的結婚禮節
我爸媽也不是很在意
說只要年輕人喜歡的就可以了
而我也不是那種標新立異的女生
因為知道男友是獨子
所以~在未來的婚姻藍圖上
侍奉公婆是我美滿婚姻裡的一部份
-----------------------------------------------------------
而就在上個禮拜
發生了一些變化
我和男友載我婆婆一起去婚紗店挑婆婆裝
在車上
因為我朋友也同行
我朋友告訴我婆婆說~
最近他弟弟也要結婚了
對方女生獅子大開口
餅錢就要16萬
沒想到我婆婆突然說
這樣真的很便宜~~
俗啦~~真俗....(台語)
我當下聽了之後不是很開心
言下之意好像是~~我拿了26萬很貴嗎?
我們家沒有要求那些錢
而喜餅我還再三比價~挑了最便宜的喜餅
事後我問男友說~
為什麼你媽媽突然這樣說呢?
我男友說~要我別放心上
如果~結婚他媽媽給我26萬
扣掉餅錢~剩下的還給她就好了
(那當然可以呀!但這真的是感覺上的問題)
而就在昨天
我到男友家陪他媽媽看電視
突然~他媽媽在我面前問我男友
現在金子價是多少
我男友說~大概是5000多了吧
他媽媽一聽就說~怎麼那麼貴啊
(我人還在他家呢......)
接著他媽媽要我男友打通電話給他舅舅
因為他舅舅最近也要娶媳婦了
在電話中(我仍在客廳裡)
他一直說~金價太貴了
還說~~不然我跟對方說不要買可以嗎??????
可能是舅舅說~這樣失禮節...
才又說~好吧~那買吧!
可是之後又說~家裡的金塊不見了
她很痛苦和煩惱
她說~一定是被偷的
但絕不可能是公公拿的...因為他身上有多少錢~她都知道
也不可能是2個女兒拿的
她們很乖
又說~~可能是兒子拿的(我男友????)
最後卻說~~哪裡知道.....知人知面不知心
現在的人都看不出來
反正就是被偷了
我婆婆最疼的就是我男友
而我男友也是家裡最孝順父母的
他媽媽再怎麼樣也不可能懷疑他自己的兒子
那在我面前講述這段話
是在影射我嗎?
我是在離開我男友家~才崩潰大哭的
我從小到大沒做過什麼壞事情
雖然我男友安撫我~
又跟我說~他媽媽說話就是這樣
要我別放心上
我放心上就是我自己的問題
這是我的問題嗎?
我男友要我以後聽到這樣的話就要去釋懷
我不知道該怎麼辦
婚紗照也拍了
喜餅也挑了
連餐廳都訂好了
但我真的很想毀婚
--
生命該浪費在美好的事物上
我和朱提的生活瑣事
http://0rz.tw/c94Am
--
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