有人的錢是給老公管的嗎?? - 婚姻
By Adele
at 2011-12-02T22:20
at 2011-12-02T22:20
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先說一下我的婚姻背景
我和我老公都是老師, 在同一個學校
老公的父母都不在身邊(我公公過世, 婆婆改嫁)
所以我沒有侍奉婆家的問題
而我自己是父母健在, 也不需我撫養...
我老公比較善於理財, 而且很會省錢
為了省利息和手續費會不辭辛苦把錢領出來, 自己跑銀行等等
也因為這樣, 他就把我的提款卡收著, 一起去付我們的房貸
(可是房子是婚前用他的名字買的), 和其他的貸款...
他每個月給我5000零用錢, 買菜或是刷卡買東西都隨我的便
沒錢再跟他要...
他不准我存私房錢, 因為他說我們的錢都是給這個家的...
我說那我來管錢, 他又說領錢拿來拿去很危險
也就這樣過了三年耶...真不知我怎麼能這樣過...
我媽媽是很生氣我這樣, 說我被我老公牽著鼻子走
我也曾經跟我老公說我要拿回提款卡, 他就說我在跟他分彼此
這都是我們家的錢, 他也沒自己私用(這是真的, 因為他很節省)
可是有時候我們夫妻吵架, 我就會很生氣
覺得我的錢都給你支配了, 你還對我這樣....
最近, 真的想把提款卡拿回來, 因為不想一直被問說
為什麼這個月電話費那麼多, 刷卡怎麼那麼多等等...
請問各位有甚麼方法可以教我嗎?但又不傷彼此和氣...
還有若拿回提款卡後, 家用花費怎麼分配啊??
目前家裡所有的日常開銷就是我先生去繳錢
吃飯都是他付帳, 現在我們住的房貸, 他的信貸, 我娘家給我的房子還有貸款,
還有我的學貸都是他去繳...
以後該怎麼分呢???
哪些是共用的?哪些又要分開呢??
請大家提供意見, 謝謝!!
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我和我老公都是老師, 在同一個學校
老公的父母都不在身邊(我公公過世, 婆婆改嫁)
所以我沒有侍奉婆家的問題
而我自己是父母健在, 也不需我撫養...
我老公比較善於理財, 而且很會省錢
為了省利息和手續費會不辭辛苦把錢領出來, 自己跑銀行等等
也因為這樣, 他就把我的提款卡收著, 一起去付我們的房貸
(可是房子是婚前用他的名字買的), 和其他的貸款...
他每個月給我5000零用錢, 買菜或是刷卡買東西都隨我的便
沒錢再跟他要...
他不准我存私房錢, 因為他說我們的錢都是給這個家的...
我說那我來管錢, 他又說領錢拿來拿去很危險
也就這樣過了三年耶...真不知我怎麼能這樣過...
我媽媽是很生氣我這樣, 說我被我老公牽著鼻子走
我也曾經跟我老公說我要拿回提款卡, 他就說我在跟他分彼此
這都是我們家的錢, 他也沒自己私用(這是真的, 因為他很節省)
可是有時候我們夫妻吵架, 我就會很生氣
覺得我的錢都給你支配了, 你還對我這樣....
最近, 真的想把提款卡拿回來, 因為不想一直被問說
為什麼這個月電話費那麼多, 刷卡怎麼那麼多等等...
請問各位有甚麼方法可以教我嗎?但又不傷彼此和氣...
還有若拿回提款卡後, 家用花費怎麼分配啊??
目前家裡所有的日常開銷就是我先生去繳錢
吃飯都是他付帳, 現在我們住的房貸, 他的信貸, 我娘家給我的房子還有貸款,
還有我的學貸都是他去繳...
以後該怎麼分呢???
哪些是共用的?哪些又要分開呢??
請大家提供意見, 謝謝!!
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