月子的錢誰出? - 婚姻
By Ina
at 2011-08-30T21:33
at 2011-08-30T21:33
Table of Contents
※ 引述《liffe ()》之銘言:
: 第一胎時 我媽給我三萬
: 我月子是我丈人作的 特色是輕淡的雞爪湯 對產後不造成油膩負擔
: 第二胎時 我請阿姨來作
: 丈人給了我兩萬
: 我覺得沒有誰該負責的問題 自己選了哪一邊 自己承擔後果
: 因為每個人標準不一
講到這個也是我最近的苦惱。
第一胎的時候,前半個月挑了一家還算高檔的坐月子中心,
地點在大直,剛好在娘家與婆家中間,住了半個月花了八萬多。
(本來想住一個月,我實在覺得負擔太重跟老婆商量減半)
因為我媽自己會開車所以老婆待在月子中心的時候,
剛開始母親幾乎每天都會去探望一趟,拿點水果甚麼的給媳婦,順便看一下孫子。
雖然都待不超過半小時,不過我老婆覺得這樣讓她很困擾,跟娘家抱怨了這件事。
於是我小姨子還來叫我跟我媽說不要每天都去。
這件事情讓我很生氣,有必要輪到我小姨子來抱怨我媽嗎?
不過我知道老婆的心理,還是委婉的告訴我媽要她不用每天來。
後來半個月坐月子中心結束以後,我老婆說剩下的產假她都要住娘家。
我就又拿了三萬(還是五萬?其實我忘了)給我老婆要她轉交給丈母娘。
最近老婆有了第二胎,胎兒才剛剛驗到心跳,
老婆就說她這次要挑娘家附近走路就可以到的月子中心。
我也知道老婆沒說出口的是甚麼,
只是打哈哈說那上次同一家月子中心的回客優惠就得浪費掉了,有點捨不得。
不過懷孕的女人最大,千萬不能忤逆她!
不然三天兩頭威脅我要把孩子拿掉,我還真承擔不起!
--
I - with my eyes burning much more strongly than Robert De Niro's
in "The Taxi Driver", my heart not more restless than a soldier boy
facing death on battleline - started the engine of the bike I stole.
Tension within myself made me high.Leading a life filled with rules
is not a bad way. But, to be free, to be an outsider - that suits me, man.
--
: 第一胎時 我媽給我三萬
: 我月子是我丈人作的 特色是輕淡的雞爪湯 對產後不造成油膩負擔
: 第二胎時 我請阿姨來作
: 丈人給了我兩萬
: 我覺得沒有誰該負責的問題 自己選了哪一邊 自己承擔後果
: 因為每個人標準不一
講到這個也是我最近的苦惱。
第一胎的時候,前半個月挑了一家還算高檔的坐月子中心,
地點在大直,剛好在娘家與婆家中間,住了半個月花了八萬多。
(本來想住一個月,我實在覺得負擔太重跟老婆商量減半)
因為我媽自己會開車所以老婆待在月子中心的時候,
剛開始母親幾乎每天都會去探望一趟,拿點水果甚麼的給媳婦,順便看一下孫子。
雖然都待不超過半小時,不過我老婆覺得這樣讓她很困擾,跟娘家抱怨了這件事。
於是我小姨子還來叫我跟我媽說不要每天都去。
這件事情讓我很生氣,有必要輪到我小姨子來抱怨我媽嗎?
不過我知道老婆的心理,還是委婉的告訴我媽要她不用每天來。
後來半個月坐月子中心結束以後,我老婆說剩下的產假她都要住娘家。
我就又拿了三萬(還是五萬?其實我忘了)給我老婆要她轉交給丈母娘。
最近老婆有了第二胎,胎兒才剛剛驗到心跳,
老婆就說她這次要挑娘家附近走路就可以到的月子中心。
我也知道老婆沒說出口的是甚麼,
只是打哈哈說那上次同一家月子中心的回客優惠就得浪費掉了,有點捨不得。
不過懷孕的女人最大,千萬不能忤逆她!
不然三天兩頭威脅我要把孩子拿掉,我還真承擔不起!
--
I - with my eyes burning much more strongly than Robert De Niro's
in "The Taxi Driver", my heart not more restless than a soldier boy
facing death on battleline - started the engine of the bike I stole.
Tension within myself made me high.Leading a life filled with rules
is not a bad way. But, to be free, to be an outsider - that suits me, man.
--
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