月子的錢誰出? - 婚姻
By Caroline
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※ 引述《pttu2 (study)》之銘言:
: 請問北部習俗來說,給媳婦結婚金飾 和坐月子 這二種
: 都是婆家出錢吧?
1. 公婆給的金飾 媳婦是可以不要拿的 (我自己就"原封不動"退回! 一毛都沒拿!)
2. 坐月子的錢: 我認為 夫妻兩人若連坐月子的錢 自己都出不起 不如不要生小孩!
: 這樣子是嗎?
不是這樣子的! 通常:
1. 古代重男輕女的社會 比較會這樣
2. 比較窮的人 沒金錢收入的人 比較會這樣
: 生小孩時,婆家照顧媳婦
: 公婆老的時候, 媳婦回饋照顧公婆
: 習俗是這樣子嗎?
古代重男輕女社會--> 女人(=媳婦)要幫男人孝順公婆
男女平等社會--> 自己的父母 自己孝順 自己給孝親費 (我和我先生是如此!)
目前 已有最新研究與統計數字指出:
[新聞] 生兒有婆媳問題! 研究:女兒貼心讓父母增壽
http://www.nownews.com/2011/08/07/91-2733488.htm
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: 請問北部習俗來說,給媳婦結婚金飾 和坐月子 這二種
: 都是婆家出錢吧?
1. 公婆給的金飾 媳婦是可以不要拿的 (我自己就"原封不動"退回! 一毛都沒拿!)
2. 坐月子的錢: 我認為 夫妻兩人若連坐月子的錢 自己都出不起 不如不要生小孩!
: 這樣子是嗎?
不是這樣子的! 通常:
1. 古代重男輕女的社會 比較會這樣
2. 比較窮的人 沒金錢收入的人 比較會這樣
: 生小孩時,婆家照顧媳婦
: 公婆老的時候, 媳婦回饋照顧公婆
: 習俗是這樣子嗎?
古代重男輕女社會--> 女人(=媳婦)要幫男人孝順公婆
男女平等社會--> 自己的父母 自己孝順 自己給孝親費 (我和我先生是如此!)
目前 已有最新研究與統計數字指出:
[新聞] 生兒有婆媳問題! 研究:女兒貼心讓父母增壽
http://www.nownews.com/2011/08/07/91-2733488.htm
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