月子中的年夜飯 - 婚姻
By Steve
at 2012-12-26T20:27
at 2012-12-26T20:27
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各位前輩好~(鞠躬)
跟各位分享一下剛剛我老公跟我講的事情,也問問各位的意見。
傍晚我老公打給我,口氣異常的悶,他說有件事情要跟我說。通常聽到
這種口氣就知道有點麻煩事,馬上問『你明天不能來陪我產檢嗎?』
(明天澎湖34W產檢,他會從台北過來陪,接下來就要到台灣去待產了。)
「不是。」他還是很悶。
『那是?』我想不到還有什麼事情了。
「我爸說,除夕夜要我跟家人一起吃年夜飯。」他說。
『那不是很正常嗎?怎麼了嗎?』
「妳忘記妳在月子中心了嗎?我想要在那邊陪妳,我不想要妳一個人。」
原來是這樣子。
我馬上跟他說沒關係啊,因為我在月子中心也有飯可以吃,而且說不定餵
奶很累也要休息睡覺,他不用一直陪我沒關係。
他說因為他爸跟他講的時候他有點猶豫不知道該如何開口說他想要在月子
中心陪我,他媽媽看出他的意思,就有跟他爸說也許我老公想要在月子中心陪我。
他說這時候他爸就不說話(通常代表不大高興)。
因為他弟弟現在人在韓國,過年那段期間剛好有放假回來,我想應該也是
這樣所以全家更覺得應該要聚一聚,應該也會跟他姑姑和叔叔(可能)一家一起吃
,我猜想應該是這樣,才特別說要他也出席,吃完再回月子中心陪我。
他說他有想到我是不是也可以一起出來跟他們去餐廳(日本料理)吃飯。
我是跟他說不用這麼麻煩,而且只是吃頓飯(只是這頓飯在除夕夜),對我來說也
沒這麼重要呀~(我還開玩笑說我會扣住他們家孫子一起陪我)而他問他的女同事
,他的同事一開始說最好不要讓我知道,以免我心裡不好受(但其實我覺得沒差呢
。)同事們也建議月子中沒迫切必要,最好不要外出,尤其是冬天萬一去冷到就不
好了。我也是這樣想~
各位覺得我應該要怎麼安慰我老公呢?
我覺得他現在處在一個非常難過又不知道該怎麼辦的階段,雖然說好像也
只能這樣子了~
謝謝各位看完我的文章~
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