更進化討論,如何維持5年以上恩愛的婚姻 … - 婚姻
By Daniel
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at 2011-09-27T00:47
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1. (大前提) 要嫁/娶的對方必須是(法律意義或者道德意義上的)好人。
我想沒有人想沒事變成好幾塊切好的肉放冰箱。
2. 配偶雙方必須要有共同的價值觀。
例: 男方要奉養父母,女方(一輩子都)不想跟公婆住 -> 免談。
例: 男方要追求事業世界各地跑來跑去,女方想要男人天天回家吃晚飯 -> 免談。
例: 女生喜歡養貓養狗,男生只能接受變成食物用的動物 -> 免談。
例: 男生要四個小孩,女生完全不想生 -> 免談
價值觀這種東西沒有辦法妥協,但是你可以選擇不要娶或不要嫁,嫁娶之後想來
改變對方,那是人世間最愚蠢的事。
3. 可以維持生活的經濟收入,可以的話,雙方都要有其中之一倒下還可以支撐
的收入。
拿父母錢的一條蟲主義者,絕對不要嫁。
4. 有趣
一定要雙方有些共同的興趣,而且參與度高的。比方說老公喜歡實驗 C4 , 老婆
最好知道過氯酸鉀加硝酸鉀加碳粉混合後用力敲擊會有什麼反應。
我同事曰,他每次聽交響樂/爵士/小提琴/ABBA,他老婆就會變臉。唉....
(不予置評)
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