是我想太多?還是他想太少? - 婚姻
By Kristin
at 2011-11-14T10:07
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結婚已經兩年多了,
轉眼間我們兩個也都在三十歲上下,
有穩定工作,目前也正努力存錢買房,
怎麼想都是可以準備生小孩的好時機了....
但我很不滿的是老公的態度,
他每次對家裡的事都呈現一副時到時擔當的態度,
之前討論生小孩的事,
他說他要等他研究所畢業才要生,
反正他只要生一個,
一整個跩不拉機...
問題是他老兄根本懶得寫論文,那是要幾年才寫的完阿?
再加上我教育背景的影響,對生育年齡這部分很敏感,
和他老兄說之以理,
結果他老兄還很嗆的說他同事四十幾還再生,
哪有幾歲前生最好之類的~哼哼!
結果最近親戚生小孩,
他一整個又愛又憐的把小孩抱來抱去,
旁邊親友看到當然是拼命敲邊鼓催生,
他也是裝傻嘿嘿笑,
回到家還是繼續原來"不主動"生小孩的態度,
想著想著我就怒了,
是怎樣~是不想和我生小孩?
還是覺得小孩該自己蹦出來??
真是莫名其妙!!
之前準備結婚的時候,
他滿腦子都是工作的事,
因為重心不一樣.
所以我們的新婚生活充滿有的沒的爭吵,
現在我們逐漸調好彼此的重心,
相處的也很愉快,
如果現在硬逼他生小孩,
會不會重蹈當時還"沒準備好"的覆轍,
破壞了現在微妙的平衡?
可是歲月不待人阿...
好苦惱,想到我都困惑了
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轉眼間我們兩個也都在三十歲上下,
有穩定工作,目前也正努力存錢買房,
怎麼想都是可以準備生小孩的好時機了....
但我很不滿的是老公的態度,
他每次對家裡的事都呈現一副時到時擔當的態度,
之前討論生小孩的事,
他說他要等他研究所畢業才要生,
反正他只要生一個,
一整個跩不拉機...
問題是他老兄根本懶得寫論文,那是要幾年才寫的完阿?
再加上我教育背景的影響,對生育年齡這部分很敏感,
和他老兄說之以理,
結果他老兄還很嗆的說他同事四十幾還再生,
哪有幾歲前生最好之類的~哼哼!
結果最近親戚生小孩,
他一整個又愛又憐的把小孩抱來抱去,
旁邊親友看到當然是拼命敲邊鼓催生,
他也是裝傻嘿嘿笑,
回到家還是繼續原來"不主動"生小孩的態度,
想著想著我就怒了,
是怎樣~是不想和我生小孩?
還是覺得小孩該自己蹦出來??
真是莫名其妙!!
之前準備結婚的時候,
他滿腦子都是工作的事,
因為重心不一樣.
所以我們的新婚生活充滿有的沒的爭吵,
現在我們逐漸調好彼此的重心,
相處的也很愉快,
如果現在硬逼他生小孩,
會不會重蹈當時還"沒準備好"的覆轍,
破壞了現在微妙的平衡?
可是歲月不待人阿...
好苦惱,想到我都困惑了
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