搬出來住之後反而想離婚 - 婚姻

By Enid
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之前跟婆婆小叔們住一起,就對傳統的婆婆很反感(不能跟娘家太多接觸、男人不能
洗碗…)自從懷孕後我就變成家庭主婦,家事範圍也就顧小孩、煮午晚餐,整理自己
的房間這樣,好不容易現在有了自己的小家庭,也搬出來住了,但卻吵得更兇,感情
越來越不睦。
小孩現在快兩歲,超級黏我,不准我洗澡,不准我煮飯,不准我洗碗,我做這些事情
都要偷偷摸摸,趁著小孩睡後,但這樣長久下來,覺得很累!因為帶小孩去睡覺我也會
睡著,半夜再驚醒啊我碗還沒洗,爬起來洗完後再拖地,弄完都三四點,曾經跟老公說
你下班後吃完晚餐,洗碗的事就給你好嗎,他說好,結果最後還是我半夜起來洗,有時
我就想,好啊你不洗我也不洗,大家就擺爛啊!結果過兩天整個水槽發霉,我看不過去
還是我洗,還多了個刷洗水槽的工作= =請他拖個地,連忙說等一下等一下,等到後來也
是我拖,小孩大便下去了,永遠是:老婆他大便了!叫他幫小孩洗個澡,一直說:不要
嘛!你洗啦!
我是超人嗎?所有的事情只有我能做嗎?家事、小孩都要我來,我不用休息嗎?也不可
能找保母出去工作,因為我們在大陸!
剛剛老公在看電視,小孩在玩,我趁機跑去洗碗,小孩察覺跑來廚房大哭,老公過來要
抱她離開,她哭得更兇,沒想到老公對小孩凶巴巴大吼(真的很大聲):不要哭了!!
我嚇一跳把小孩抱來坐在流理台看我洗,我越洗越不爽,我洗個碗你照看小孩會怎樣啊
,就故意洗很大聲,老公又大吼:你不要洗了啦!!還用力踢椅子,我真的氣到發抖,
之前也有次我在煮晚餐女兒在哭鬧,老公受不了對我大吼:你不會不要煮喔!那天很可
悲,我氣得抱著小孩外出,可這陌生國度,沒有朋友沒有親人,我真不知該何去何從,
只好坐在星巴克三個小時,才默默回家…..所以我現在很少煮,幾乎都外食了,可是這樣
真的很不健康!
還有次我們回台灣,但那天發燒,我把晚餐弄好,餅乾放好後交代老公照顧小孩,趕快
出門看醫生,但診所人很多,我等了一個小時,老公打來:你還沒好?再不回來,我可
要賞他好幾巴掌了!(背景是小孩哭鬧聲)然後掛我電話!
以前在台灣,明明就不會這樣的,此時此刻我真想離開他
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洗碗…)自從懷孕後我就變成家庭主婦,家事範圍也就顧小孩、煮午晚餐,整理自己
的房間這樣,好不容易現在有了自己的小家庭,也搬出來住了,但卻吵得更兇,感情
越來越不睦。
小孩現在快兩歲,超級黏我,不准我洗澡,不准我煮飯,不准我洗碗,我做這些事情
都要偷偷摸摸,趁著小孩睡後,但這樣長久下來,覺得很累!因為帶小孩去睡覺我也會
睡著,半夜再驚醒啊我碗還沒洗,爬起來洗完後再拖地,弄完都三四點,曾經跟老公說
你下班後吃完晚餐,洗碗的事就給你好嗎,他說好,結果最後還是我半夜起來洗,有時
我就想,好啊你不洗我也不洗,大家就擺爛啊!結果過兩天整個水槽發霉,我看不過去
還是我洗,還多了個刷洗水槽的工作= =請他拖個地,連忙說等一下等一下,等到後來也
是我拖,小孩大便下去了,永遠是:老婆他大便了!叫他幫小孩洗個澡,一直說:不要
嘛!你洗啦!
我是超人嗎?所有的事情只有我能做嗎?家事、小孩都要我來,我不用休息嗎?也不可
能找保母出去工作,因為我們在大陸!
剛剛老公在看電視,小孩在玩,我趁機跑去洗碗,小孩察覺跑來廚房大哭,老公過來要
抱她離開,她哭得更兇,沒想到老公對小孩凶巴巴大吼(真的很大聲):不要哭了!!
我嚇一跳把小孩抱來坐在流理台看我洗,我越洗越不爽,我洗個碗你照看小孩會怎樣啊
,就故意洗很大聲,老公又大吼:你不要洗了啦!!還用力踢椅子,我真的氣到發抖,
之前也有次我在煮晚餐女兒在哭鬧,老公受不了對我大吼:你不會不要煮喔!那天很可
悲,我氣得抱著小孩外出,可這陌生國度,沒有朋友沒有親人,我真不知該何去何從,
只好坐在星巴克三個小時,才默默回家…..所以我現在很少煮,幾乎都外食了,可是這樣
真的很不健康!
還有次我們回台灣,但那天發燒,我把晚餐弄好,餅乾放好後交代老公照顧小孩,趕快
出門看醫生,但診所人很多,我等了一個小時,老公打來:你還沒好?再不回來,我可
要賞他好幾巴掌了!(背景是小孩哭鬧聲)然後掛我電話!
以前在台灣,明明就不會這樣的,此時此刻我真想離開他
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