扶持 - 婚姻
By Frederica
at 2011-09-09T14:54
at 2011-09-09T14:54
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這個標題我想很久要怎麼下~
從認識現在的老婆以來,生活一直有大變動
當兵、初次就業、一起搬到外縣市、買車、買房到結婚,過程只有一年半(驚)
好吧~其實是我當初經濟狀況非常好,
大學自行創業~就連當兵都能遠端操控來維持營運,
雖說第一份工作底薪就45k,但我都沒有在動它,就這樣擺著變2X萬
完全靠副業(?)支撐兩個人的生活(結婚前是我作主要支撐)
在經濟好時交的女友,在經濟特好的時候買車買房和結婚~
當然我一直會擔心說「會不會哪天走下坡時,女朋友(老婆)就對我不一樣了?」
在PTT打滾多年,這種例子履見不鮮...果不其然,突然走下坡了
而且運氣一轉就是3年...
這兩年間老婆身體不好,主要還是我在支撐家裡的經濟,之前花錢習慣轉換的速度
遠不及經濟衰退的速度,光車貸房貸和種種分期就會把我壓得喘不過氣來~
我不得不放棄自己的興趣和休閒,把自己以前買的東西和器材全變現了
而老婆的身體狀況無法承受這樣的壓力~就這樣努力撐了快兩年~中間也有經歷過為
錢吵架的時期,終於沒在管錢的老婆知道我為了她撐了那麼久了...
二話不說把結婚前買的名牌包、訂婚的鑽戒(T牌58分的T_T)全都賣了..
讓我印象深刻的是她一早把所有包包和首飾全帶出門,中午只剩紙袋裝錢回來~
連身上揹去的包都賣了~毫無怨言!!
當我終於要放下自己的創業出去工作時~老婆也馬上找了一份工作~
不過條件和學歷的關係,能找到的工作薪水和福利不是很好(月薪20k,東扣西扣剩17k)
我很感謝她在這個時候不是抱怨我沒用,而是願意和我站在同一條線去面對、突破困境
不過她的工作實在太不人道了~反而讓她身體更不好~但又不敢和我說
因為我們家的狀況真的會少她一份薪水就會垮台~
但後來被我知道後就要求她回家休息、玩狗玩貓就好~金錢事小,但老婆只有一個~
壞了我不知道還要去哪找(咦?)
我記得她一直哭著和我說對不起~這時我覺得我的運氣超好,在我經濟好的時候
娶的老婆,在我低潮時是願意和我一起努力的,而不是看上物質生活在一起的~
然後為了要解決財務困境,她願意和我一同和家人低頭,尋求援助~
從以前完全不作家事和天天外食,突然轉變成家事一手包辦,
平常沒有關燈習慣的她,變成都會隨手關燈,下午為了節電就不開冷氣~
而且每天我下班完回到家就有熱騰騰的飯菜可以吃~
一向出手很大方的獅子座老婆,開始會注意特價的消息,節省開銷~
而辭掉工作的她,全力經營我大學所創的事業,並另外接了朋友委託,
以網拍顧問之姿,協助經營商品線上化~她和我說:就算辭頭路在家~
也要為這個家一起努力~
在這段時間,我們還是不停的幫助流浪狗、貓,而她在家裡所作的一切,
真的讓轉換跑道的我能放心在外頭衝刺~
現在狀況稍稍好轉了~我認為「老婆」是最大的功臣<(_ _)>
所以說...「有了妳,我就擁有全世界了」這句話是真的~
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