我需要一個乾淨的頭腦 - 婚姻
By Donna
at 2011-09-18T08:03
at 2011-09-18T08:03
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我是男性,但是憑良心講,我覺得傳統的婚姻制度對女性很不公平:
1、嫁過去就是別人家的人:這是個很偏差的觀念,原本男女雙方就
來自不同的原生家庭,怎麼可以因為結
婚這件事就硬指女方嫁過來就變成男方
家的人?如此陋習,實屬荒繆!我國法
律並無此規定.
2、女方被要求不准經常回娘家或不准回娘家:
這個陋習也很不合理,不用多說明了.
3、掃墓祭祖時女方不能回娘家:這也是個很奇怪的陋習,就是指女方
不能回娘家掃墓,說什麼會把福氣分掉.
4、不孕是女方的錯:意指若女方一直沒懷孕成功,就會被長輩一直碎念,
問題是難道男方都沒問題?不孕並非是一種罪惡.
總之,傳統的婚姻價值觀還有很多對女方的不平等,我認為夫妻雙方
在結婚前要溝通清楚,我是比較喜歡雙方都在平等公正的立場下過婚
姻生活,拒絕受到無理長輩的胡亂支配!有很多陋習要自己矯正過來.
還有,我討厭用嫁娶這個名詞,因為嫁娶本身已經確定男女地位不平等;
我記得民法並沒有嫁娶這個名詞,只有"結婚",讓男女雙方在婚姻上立於
平等之地位.
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