我算賺到了吧?? - 婚姻
By Daph Bay
at 2011-09-06T16:27
at 2011-09-06T16:27
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我跟我先生交往11年去年結婚登記,他媽媽其實一直很不滿意我這媳婦,
交往期間不斷的叫我先生跟我分手,理由要多奇怪就多奇怪!
說算命的說我是隻狐狸精只想騙我男友錢,當時我男友才只是個窮學生,
而且他家條件跟我家比差更多!只是我們都沒理她一直下去.
登記當天他打電話跟我婆婆報告時,整整在電話上被臭罵了一小時,
而後還一直打電話確認登記到底有沒有結婚效力?!
因為婆婆一直認為沒辦婚宴等於沒結婚,她一直希望我們婚姻實質上是無效的!
我父母想跟婆婆見面一直拖,但是過年拿我紅包卻是不手軟!
今年四月初我先生大哥突然過世,因為他們家人不多,
他媽反而希望這時我的名字在白帖上面,因為我也想趁機修補一下婆媳關係,
所以當中我不止出力還出錢,作七好幾次念經跟告別式.入塔我都請假到場幫忙,
最諷刺的是,婆婆第一次跟我父母見面的原因還是我爸媽來參加告別式!
一切都結束之後,我婆婆似乎對我有所改觀,會對我二伯說我這女孩子不錯,
我先生也說他聽他媽說對我看法改變了,而且覺得我父母還不錯!
就在5月我因為婦科毛病要我先生一起陪我去看病,
結果意外發現我懷孕了!我先生超級高興的,因為他其實很懷疑我們可能生不出來,
檢查當天就帶我去吃大餐,結果隔天他媽就潑他一大盆冷水......
那時我在用電腦,我老公在跟婆婆講電話,我發現他一直臉色凝重的聽,也沒啥回話,
但是因為他跟他媽說電話很常這樣,(他也說過他自己也受不了他媽媽的碎念)
所以我也沒怎在乎,後來先生心情低落了一陣子,我覺得很奇怪,
原本不是心情超好怎變這樣??在我逼問之下他才說了,
原來他媽媽實在很會挑時間說奇怪的話,
他媽就在我檢查出懷孕之後的隔天馬上就跟他耳提面命,
說我可能會討客兄叫他注意別讓我懷孕,因為我可能會懷私生子,
叫他別幫忙養別人的兒子,之後再罵我父母,
因為我先生有跟他媽說過我爸有去學看風水和符祿,
再加上看我爸告別式穿中式上衣,覺得我爸會作法下符,
說我家庭有問題,覺得我ㄧ家都有鬼想要害他.....
我先生一聽覺得超掃興的也氣炸了,他很怪他媽把他高興的心情弄糟,
而且原本他打算報告給我婆婆知道我懷孕的事情,聽到這樣又吞下去了!
但是又看在我是孕婦的情況下,所以本來不打算跟我說,
後來還是因為盧不過我才講了出來....
我先生原本還要求我跟他做戲給他老母看,假如婆婆再打電話來亂講話,
他希望我裝出被他揍的聲音,還說要演就演全套,
還打算掰說他要跟我離婚結果我跑去自殺現在在醫院來嚇他老母....=____=
其實我對婆婆亂講話的事情已經看的很淡了.....
我唯一氣的一點就是她罵我父母,
我也跟我先生說免做戲了,反正別跟婆婆說我懷孕的事情就好,
就別讓她知道她已經快有個孫子了.反正婆婆說那可能是客兄的種!
我先生也答應我他不講,而且這樣我更爽了,他過世大哥的祈福法會我一次都不用去,
也不用跟著先生回去處裡婆婆的事情,這次過年更有理由光明正大的不去婆婆那邊!
因為那時間我正好在坐月子!反正理由我先生會幫我掰!
我現在有點感謝我婆婆愛亂說話....其實我算賺到了吧??XDDDD
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