我的小姑 - 婚姻
By Yuri
at 2011-09-19T01:21
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哈囉 大家晚安 ^^
其實標題很難下,但是整件事情 讓我覺得心裏很受傷...
我的小姑(先生的妹妹) 年紀大我一歲, 平常沒太大的交集
有的話 最多就是回婆家時小姑也剛好回家
(我們約3~4週回婆家一次,小姑不定,但也不常回家,距離都是新竹<-->台南
小姑與我們在同縣市工作,偶爾平日有一些接觸但不多)
在婆家時跟小姑都會有說有笑,自認感情還不錯 但是我在今天才知道小姑在我背後
跟婆婆說我是非, 這還是今天婆婆私下跟先生說的, 先生原本打算不跟我說
後來還是說了 讓我感到心理很受傷
===========================故事是這樣發生的==============================
中秋節(9/10)那晚,婆家人找了些朋友,小姑也約了男朋友一同到家裡烤肉
等到烤完 客人各自離去後 當然就剩下很多的碗盤 需要善後收拾
我在晚上9點幫女兒(1y6m)洗澡 喝睡前奶 哄睡後也差不多快11點了
我看了洗碗槽滿滿的碗盤待洗,跟先生說聲:我先去洗澡 洗澡完我再去洗碗
當時小姑在房間內,所以沒有聽到我這麼說 但是等到我洗完澡準備要去洗碗時
發現碗已經洗好了 當下還以為是先生洗的 要給我驚喜,跟先生道謝後才發現是小姑洗的
於是趕忙跟小姑道謝. 以為事情就這樣結束,沒想到隔天小姑私下跟她媽媽(也就是我婆婆)
說,大意如下: 我好像都故意拖很晚才願意去洗碗,讓她在昨晚洗了碗盤之類的...
細節我不清楚 畢竟這是婆婆轉述小姑的話給先生聽 先生在跟我說的
所以 也就如此 婆婆聽了小姑的話也就認為我洗碗的時間 好像都故意拖的比較晚
但是 事實上並不是這樣阿,每次的回婆家 幾乎的碗盤都是我再洗的
(這也是因為在前年過年 我懷孕3x週 又感冒時,年夜飯的碗不是我洗的(也不是小姑洗的)
惹來小姑的不滿 所以 之後我就戰戰兢兢 很害怕哪次沒有洗到碗,會在背後被說閒話)
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今天聽到婆婆這樣私下跟先生說 讓我感到很受傷
1.為何小姑當面跟我笑笑 私下卻又跟婆婆這樣說?
2.婆婆也沒想過 飯是大家一起吃的 偶爾大家輪流洗一下也沒啥大不了的吧,
為何就一定要由媳婦來做洗碗的事?
3.家事我可以做,但是需要有人可以幫我看我女兒阿,1y多正值好動又亂跑的年紀
一個不小心 可能就會有意外,之前有次洗碗時,我先請小姑幫我看一下女兒(小姑當時
在用電腦),小姑回應我說好,但是在我洗碗洗到一半時,回頭卻看到女兒已經爬上2階的
階梯到和室內玩拉門 (拉門外直接就是階梯) 我嚇死了 說好的幫我看女兒呢?
哀...很難描述內心的感觸,總之 我好受傷 需要拍拍,遇到這種小姑 我該怎辦?
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