我是累了,還是病了?! - 婚姻

By Oliver
at 2012-11-18T02:03
at 2012-11-18T02:03
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小孩1歲4個月了,白天都由娘家照顧,每個月我大約支付我媽1萬~1萬5的照顧費。
小孩的爸在這1年多來只付過3次8千元,其他費用都由我負擔,中間還有每個月他錢花光會和我借錢,每月領的薪水大約3萬五,但都會花不夠,沒有貸款沒有存款。
8月底時突然把工作辭掉說要回南部照顧他爸媽,然後就突然搬走了,到現在也沒有找到新工作,每天和朋友去喝咖啡、釣蝦、假日就揪朋友到外地遊玩。
前幾天又突然傳簡訊和我借錢,因為身上都沒錢了,這次我以錢不夠的理由拒絕,後來想想自己的老公身上沒錢可能連吃飯都有問題,就主動說要匯錢給他,但他反而說不需要,因為把原本每月固定扣三千元的基金先拿來用了.....
今晚看到他和朋友去吃火鍋又去唱歌,
我真的好難過口口聲聲說想念小孩,想把小孩一起帶回南部生活,為什麼身上有錢卻一直這樣玩樂,也不願意幫我分擔一些小孩的費用,我一個月也才領三萬多,就已經有3分之2的費用花在小孩身上,一想到這些就好恨好恨他!
過幾天是我的生日,他說要開車上來台北陪我,但我真的不想,如果他真的回來,我想我會更恨他,我只會想到這懷孕到小孩出生一直現在兩年了,這兩年我是多麼的辛苦!過的有多累,沒有一天好好休息過,我只要一想到這些我就會默名的想崩潰大哭,但我不能,我不想讓我爸媽擔心,所以表面上我一直都裝的很堅強......
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小孩的爸在這1年多來只付過3次8千元,其他費用都由我負擔,中間還有每個月他錢花光會和我借錢,每月領的薪水大約3萬五,但都會花不夠,沒有貸款沒有存款。
8月底時突然把工作辭掉說要回南部照顧他爸媽,然後就突然搬走了,到現在也沒有找到新工作,每天和朋友去喝咖啡、釣蝦、假日就揪朋友到外地遊玩。
前幾天又突然傳簡訊和我借錢,因為身上都沒錢了,這次我以錢不夠的理由拒絕,後來想想自己的老公身上沒錢可能連吃飯都有問題,就主動說要匯錢給他,但他反而說不需要,因為把原本每月固定扣三千元的基金先拿來用了.....
今晚看到他和朋友去吃火鍋又去唱歌,
我真的好難過口口聲聲說想念小孩,想把小孩一起帶回南部生活,為什麼身上有錢卻一直這樣玩樂,也不願意幫我分擔一些小孩的費用,我一個月也才領三萬多,就已經有3分之2的費用花在小孩身上,一想到這些就好恨好恨他!
過幾天是我的生日,他說要開車上來台北陪我,但我真的不想,如果他真的回來,我想我會更恨他,我只會想到這懷孕到小孩出生一直現在兩年了,這兩年我是多麼的辛苦!過的有多累,沒有一天好好休息過,我只要一想到這些我就會默名的想崩潰大哭,但我不能,我不想讓我爸媽擔心,所以表面上我一直都裝的很堅強......
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