我不要孩子的印象中餐桌上沒有爸爸的位置 - 婚姻
By Aaliyah
at 2013-01-19T00:13
at 2013-01-19T00:13
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這兩天跟先生吵架,
原因跟他公司有關,他是台幹,
在我回台灣生產後再回到大陸,一切都變了
原本每星期我們家假日都會在週日帶孩子出去走走
>現在連去超市都要看人臉色,不能擅自離廠,自己打車也不行
原本三餐全家一起吃飯,現在餐桌上不準有家屬,
我跟小孩只能在家等老公用完餐拿飯菜回來給我們吃
就連假日先生也不能跟我們一起吃飯
就連假日他都要進辦公室
以上是主因
加上我一個人帶兩個小孩,連假日都不能幫我帶小孩,他說他太累
平時一下班就去睡覺,兩個小孩哭鬧請他幫忙一下,我就會被冷眼對待
跟他討論這些事,他都不說話,只會一直盯著電腦
問他有沒有想換工作的打算,
都跟我說不在這裡工作他找不到其他工作了
今晚直接跟他說
難道你的童年記憶裡爸爸都沒陪你吃過飯嗎?這就是你想給孩子的"爸爸"
他說他要給孩子富裕的生活,這是他要的,但是孩子的心理他沒有想過
總覺得越吵越沒意義,但是又不希望小孩的心理餐桌上沒有爸爸的位置(嘆)
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原因跟他公司有關,他是台幹,
在我回台灣生產後再回到大陸,一切都變了
原本每星期我們家假日都會在週日帶孩子出去走走
>現在連去超市都要看人臉色,不能擅自離廠,自己打車也不行
原本三餐全家一起吃飯,現在餐桌上不準有家屬,
我跟小孩只能在家等老公用完餐拿飯菜回來給我們吃
就連假日先生也不能跟我們一起吃飯
就連假日他都要進辦公室
以上是主因
加上我一個人帶兩個小孩,連假日都不能幫我帶小孩,他說他太累
平時一下班就去睡覺,兩個小孩哭鬧請他幫忙一下,我就會被冷眼對待
跟他討論這些事,他都不說話,只會一直盯著電腦
問他有沒有想換工作的打算,
都跟我說不在這裡工作他找不到其他工作了
今晚直接跟他說
難道你的童年記憶裡爸爸都沒陪你吃過飯嗎?這就是你想給孩子的"爸爸"
他說他要給孩子富裕的生活,這是他要的,但是孩子的心理他沒有想過
總覺得越吵越沒意義,但是又不希望小孩的心理餐桌上沒有爸爸的位置(嘆)
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