愛相繫 - 婚姻

Noah avatar
By Noah
at 2017-02-19T16:14

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是否同意記者抄文:NO

小姑在預產期前一個月忽然生了。

本來我婆婆要幫她做月子,所以小姑沒訂月子中心,

但提早生的結果,婆婆還在旅行團遊玩中,

而小姑自己的婆婆還沒退休,先生則在國外出差還沒回來。

(至於我公公,嗯,沒有人指望他,不要來添亂就偷笑了。)

我們有幸生在這個萬事都很方便的時代,我在醫院打電話問月子餐,

運氣好有一家願意配合時間送來醫院試吃,小姑覺得合口味,我當場就訂了。

小姑說回家之後再還我錢,我說妳先好好休息比較重要,其他都之後再講。

我先生知道以後,跟我商量說這筆錢他匯給我,因為妹妹生孩子,他想當作一份心意。

我說那你也不用給,反正你的就是我的、我的也是你的。

你就跟妹妹說這算我們送她和寶寶的禮物,這樣就好。

小姑出院回家後,我和公司報備,筆電扛著白天去小姑家辦公兼幫手,

怎麼哄睡?脹奶怎麼處理?新生兒怎麼洗澡洗屁股?

有google和youtube,什麼問題都能找到答案(再說一次這個時代真是太美好)

晚上先生下班幫我送晚餐來,我還指使他幫小姑打掃。XD

再晚一點小姑的婆婆下班過來接手,我們才回家。

我來小姑家十天,之後我婆婆回來了,我回家先生一直叫我量體重,怕我累瘦。

累是真的累,該處理的工作一件也不少,加上拍嗝換尿布那個手忙腳亂,

新生兒小小一隻又軟綿綿,我每次抱都很怕自己手滑。

瘦就沒有了,三天兩頭跟著試吃彌月蛋糕,不要肚子多一層就很好。XD

某次在我要回家的時候小姑抱我一下說「什麼叫長姐如母,我現在體會到了」,

我跟先生說,賺到一個妹妹,而且寶寶可愛到沒天理,姊姊我超爽der,累也值得啦!

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Tags: 婚姻

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Zanna avatar
By Zanna
at 2017-02-23T09:26
妳好棒!!
Aaliyah avatar
By Aaliyah
at 2017-02-26T08:55
好棒!!
Lauren avatar
By Lauren
at 2017-02-27T04:51
好棒的嫂嫂&懂得感恩的菇~好人有好報
Adele avatar
By Adele
at 2017-02-28T07:34
甜滋滋 辛苦囉
Tracy avatar
By Tracy
at 2017-03-04T19:04
真的是好棒喔!推
Emily avatar
By Emily
at 2017-03-08T17:42
妳人真好!(遞卡
Hamiltion avatar
By Hamiltion
at 2017-03-11T03:21
你好棒!!
Necoo avatar
By Necoo
at 2017-03-13T02:48
好甜蜜的家庭生活 推一個
Carolina Franco avatar
By Carolina Franco
at 2017-03-17T04:49
你真棒!
Oliver avatar
By Oliver
at 2017-03-20T08:18
你太讚
Andy avatar
By Andy
at 2017-03-21T23:34
你們都好棒喔!
Steve avatar
By Steve
at 2017-03-26T19:40
好棒~~~~~~
Jack avatar
By Jack
at 2017-03-30T17:39
我要哭了~~~~~~~
Wallis avatar
By Wallis
at 2017-04-04T05:47
你好棒
Leila avatar
By Leila
at 2017-04-07T12:48
你超棒!
Charlie avatar
By Charlie
at 2017-04-08T15:26
你好棒
Bethany avatar
By Bethany
at 2017-04-12T10:59
有洋蔥~~
John avatar
By John
at 2017-04-16T11:56
Una avatar
By Una
at 2017-04-18T00:21
很棒耶!
Queena avatar
By Queena
at 2017-04-18T02:59
咧~推一個,但,不是「長嫂如母」才對嗎?怎變長姐?
Yedda avatar
By Yedda
at 2017-04-21T00:30
很好耶這版需要多點這種文章
Caitlin avatar
By Caitlin
at 2017-04-21T12:08
你好棒!
Caroline avatar
By Caroline
at 2017-04-25T01:42
好棒的大嫂,洋蔥放太多了...但好極了
Isla avatar
By Isla
at 2017-04-27T14:42
你好棒,正面能量加油!
Elizabeth avatar
By Elizabeth
at 2017-04-29T05:14
你超讚的!
Lily avatar
By Lily
at 2017-05-03T08:06
好棒的大嫂,原po真心對老公的家人好,對方都感受得到
~
Ophelia avatar
By Ophelia
at 2017-05-04T10:52
好感動
Leila avatar
By Leila
at 2017-05-06T21:11
溫馨感人
George avatar
By George
at 2017-05-07T16:25
真的很感動ㄟ!
Delia avatar
By Delia
at 2017-05-10T22:15
推~~~
Zanna avatar
By Zanna
at 2017-05-13T03:47
好棒的互動!!
Anonymous avatar
By Anonymous
at 2017-05-13T11:30
太感動了!!
Catherine avatar
By Catherine
at 2017-05-13T19:11
妳超棒的啦
Daph Bay avatar
By Daph Bay
at 2017-05-17T05:17
好棒的嫂子
Isabella avatar
By Isabella
at 2017-05-17T09:40
好感人ㄛ!按個讚!
Necoo avatar
By Necoo
at 2017-05-19T10:49
Brianna avatar
By Brianna
at 2017-05-23T04:01
好感人嗚嗚
George avatar
By George
at 2017-05-27T02:33
超感人的 眼眶紅了
Daph Bay avatar
By Daph Bay
at 2017-05-31T13:10
好大嫂~
Tristan Cohan avatar
By Tristan Cohan
at 2017-06-01T07:08
Daph Bay avatar
By Daph Bay
at 2017-06-03T03:47
施比受更有福 你超棒的
Necoo avatar
By Necoo
at 2017-06-07T16:53
好甜好甜
Agatha avatar
By Agatha
at 2017-06-10T14:20
好溫馨!
Agatha avatar
By Agatha
at 2017-06-12T04:18
好到不像姻親,所以直接認姊姊吧!原po你好棒,欣賞你這樣
正面又大方的人!
Rosalind avatar
By Rosalind
at 2017-06-12T10:57
Irma avatar
By Irma
at 2017-06-14T08:58
推!
Vanessa avatar
By Vanessa
at 2017-06-16T11:19
你好讚哦 當妳家人真的好幸福!
Tristan Cohan avatar
By Tristan Cohan
at 2017-06-20T13:13
正面能量!!!!
Madame avatar
By Madame
at 2017-06-21T10:43
整個家庭都好棒
Zanna avatar
By Zanna
at 2017-06-24T01:20
妳好棒
Olive avatar
By Olive
at 2017-06-26T03:29
好棒喔
Steve avatar
By Steve
at 2017-06-27T21:28
好棒呦! 推一個。
Hedwig avatar
By Hedwig
at 2017-07-02T21:09
Edward Lewis avatar
By Edward Lewis
at 2017-07-03T21:56
推推!!
Mia avatar
By Mia
at 2017-07-08T13:14
妳好棒!
Caroline avatar
By Caroline
at 2017-07-11T10:33
好感人
Quintina avatar
By Quintina
at 2017-07-15T15:02
好棒的嫂嫂(心
Rebecca avatar
By Rebecca
at 2017-07-17T01:10
嫂嫂很貼心!真羨慕妳有懂得感恩的小姑!
Hazel avatar
By Hazel
at 2017-07-17T08:28
感動。
Faithe avatar
By Faithe
at 2017-07-18T22:46
溫馨 ^^
Andrew avatar
By Andrew
at 2017-07-23T13:41
溫馨*^_^*
Victoria avatar
By Victoria
at 2017-07-25T03:11
你有善良懂得感恩的小姑,她有貼心願意付出的大嫂,超棒
Susan avatar
By Susan
at 2017-07-27T02:16
溫馨
Doris avatar
By Doris
at 2017-07-29T18:03
推~
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By Puput
at 2017-07-30T12:33
妳真好!
Ivy avatar
By Ivy
at 2017-08-02T02:02
好棒啊
Oscar avatar
By Oscar
at 2017-08-05T07:33
你們好棒阿
Margaret avatar
By Margaret
at 2017-08-06T21:42
QQ 版上SEAFOOD有你的一半可能都沒抱怨聞了
Hedda avatar
By Hedda
at 2017-08-11T03:21
Nice!!!!!
Lauren avatar
By Lauren
at 2017-08-15T23:33
推妳人好,恭喜多個妹妹
Jessica avatar
By Jessica
at 2017-08-18T20:11
推妳的善良!!
Anonymous avatar
By Anonymous
at 2017-08-19T12:39
哈哈哈哈哈,推海鮮
Kumar avatar
By Kumar
at 2017-08-19T19:24
好幸福~
Caitlin avatar
By Caitlin
at 2017-08-20T16:58
好棒的嫂嫂跟老婆,彼此互相才是相處之道啊
Caitlin avatar
By Caitlin
at 2017-08-20T19:53
真的好佩服你!
Harry avatar
By Harry
at 2017-08-24T05:16
你好棒!
Ida avatar
By Ida
at 2017-08-25T23:57
太棒了你(姆哥)
Adele avatar
By Adele
at 2017-08-30T08:00
暖暖的
Lauren avatar
By Lauren
at 2017-09-03T01:11
好溫馨啊^^
Tracy avatar
By Tracy
at 2017-09-05T20:05
好棒
Elvira avatar
By Elvira
at 2017-09-08T15:15
太感人了~好溫馨喔
Lucy avatar
By Lucy
at 2017-09-09T01:37
超棒的!
Todd Johnson avatar
By Todd Johnson
at 2017-09-09T03:40
妳超棒的~
Elizabeth avatar
By Elizabeth
at 2017-09-10T18:07
好棒的大嫂
Liam avatar
By Liam
at 2017-09-11T21:52
推推 你們彼此正向回饋真的很棒
Anonymous avatar
By Anonymous
at 2017-09-16T14:15
Harry avatar
By Harry
at 2017-09-21T13:56
妳真好!
Bethany avatar
By Bethany
at 2017-09-25T05:46
妳是個好嫂嫂!!!
James avatar
By James
at 2017-09-26T04:39
就甘心 :)
Anthony avatar
By Anthony
at 2017-09-30T13:51
妳人好好!要向妳學習~
Caroline avatar
By Caroline
at 2017-10-03T15:37
溫馨推
Emma avatar
By Emma
at 2017-10-04T18:02
超棒的~
Todd Johnson avatar
By Todd Johnson
at 2017-10-06T23:18
一家人的互動都好棒~~
Hazel avatar
By Hazel
at 2017-10-09T00:35
推!
Lily avatar
By Lily
at 2017-10-11T09:54
超溫馨的!!
Xanthe avatar
By Xanthe
at 2017-10-15T11:36
好溫暖
Hazel avatar
By Hazel
at 2017-10-16T11:28
好棒的大嫂!!!!!!!
Zora avatar
By Zora
at 2017-10-16T20:33
你臻棒
Olive avatar
By Olive
at 2017-10-19T08:55
推正能量
Caroline avatar
By Caroline
at 2017-10-21T21:27
Victoria avatar
By Victoria
at 2017-10-22T04:14
有這樣的嫂嫂真的太幸福了!!!!
Kama avatar
By Kama
at 2017-10-25T08:33
Eartha avatar
By Eartha
at 2017-10-28T01:56
妳好棒!在最需要時會記一輩子,婚姻版難得有婆家正面消息
Xanthe avatar
By Xanthe
at 2017-11-01T00:58
推 天使嫂嫂啊
Irma avatar
By Irma
at 2017-11-05T00:29
妳好棒!!!
Brianna avatar
By Brianna
at 2017-11-07T02:40
根本就是婚姻板的甘泉文章
Anthony avatar
By Anthony
at 2017-11-10T17:48
感受到滿滿的正面能量
Elma avatar
By Elma
at 2017-11-12T02:36
推妳!!大拇指
Quanna avatar
By Quanna
at 2017-11-16T11:56
推,先生娶到妳真是太幸運
Dinah avatar
By Dinah
at 2017-11-20T20:08
感動~超棒的
Dorothy avatar
By Dorothy
at 2017-11-21T07:42
這篇文讀起來真愉悅
Gary avatar
By Gary
at 2017-11-24T13:26
幸福是如此~~~
Anthony avatar
By Anthony
at 2017-11-24T22:13
讚讚讚~你人真好
Leila avatar
By Leila
at 2017-11-28T21:36
好棒!
Belly avatar
By Belly
at 2017-11-29T11:39
雖說付出不求回報,但聽到這樣的話真的會很窩心,心暖
暖~~
Jacob avatar
By Jacob
at 2017-12-02T17:35
真棒的啊!!!
Selena avatar
By Selena
at 2017-12-06T03:14
呃,是長嫂如母吧? 小姑都叫妳姊姐不叫妳嫂嫂?
Mia avatar
By Mia
at 2017-12-10T22:23
恭喜妳們,人都是互相互相的,本板需要這種暖文。。。
James avatar
By James
at 2017-12-11T21:24
好感動
John avatar
By John
at 2017-12-16T01:17
揪甘心!!
Eartha avatar
By Eartha
at 2017-12-19T05:10
推推
Olga avatar
By Olga
at 2017-12-19T09:49
超棒的 月子期間很脆弱 這時候收到的好真的會記得一輩子
Kama avatar
By Kama
at 2017-12-20T07:20
Mason avatar
By Mason
at 2017-12-24T18:27
很棒的一對姑嫂
Wallis avatar
By Wallis
at 2017-12-27T14:24
超棒的姑嫂呢!!!!!
George avatar
By George
at 2017-12-28T08:29
他小姑不只這樣 一堆人好像以為只有小姑佔便宜 其實看
Callum avatar
By Callum
at 2017-12-30T21:40
以前文章 小姑幫他擋了很多 而且還說因為老公不希望婆
婆跟原Po太常接觸 平時好像還都是小姑照顧婆婆
Charlie avatar
By Charlie
at 2018-01-03T09:35
不要誤會 我不是說照顧婆婆是原po的事 是指她老公問題
Edwina avatar
By Edwina
at 2018-01-05T05:00
沒記錯他老公為了擋自己爸媽 還想找不適合老人去的房子
Robert avatar
By Robert
at 2018-01-08T02:08
Andy avatar
By Andy
at 2018-01-11T10:58
推溫馨,但還是長嫂如母比較好,認姐姐就變亂倫了XD
Agatha avatar
By Agatha
at 2018-01-13T08:28
有家人的後援好幸福
Dinah avatar
By Dinah
at 2018-01-17T01:35
妳好棒!
Rachel avatar
By Rachel
at 2018-01-19T01:45
很棒的姑嫂
Skylar Davis avatar
By Skylar Davis
at 2018-01-20T17:31
推你!讓人感動呢你們倆~
Kama avatar
By Kama
at 2018-01-22T05:42
真的好棒...(拇指)
Rosalind avatar
By Rosalind
at 2018-01-24T10:18
好喜歡這種有愛有感恩的文章!
Catherine avatar
By Catherine
at 2018-01-26T17:57
你真棒
Olivia avatar
By Olivia
at 2018-01-27T13:45
不科學啊 這裡不是姑婆芋怨恨板嗎 以為來錯地方
George avatar
By George
at 2018-01-31T23:59
長嫂還是長姐根本不是文章重點吧(~_~;)
George avatar
By George
at 2018-02-02T18:28
推溫馨好文
Quintina avatar
By Quintina
at 2018-02-06T03:10
婚姻板好難得看到互相扶持感恩的姑嫂組合...@@
Regina avatar
By Regina
at 2018-02-06T15:20
有洋蔥~~
Edith avatar
By Edith
at 2018-02-08T02:43
感動 眼框濕濕的
Heather avatar
By Heather
at 2018-02-10T03:32
好棒哦
Ursula avatar
By Ursula
at 2018-02-14T13:17
正能量文章必推
Lydia avatar
By Lydia
at 2018-02-18T19:40
好棒,推
Oliver avatar
By Oliver
at 2018-02-22T06:44
幸福
Gilbert avatar
By Gilbert
at 2018-02-22T18:41
很溫馨感人,正能量
Dinah avatar
By Dinah
at 2018-02-23T22:46
好溫馨 只有我有洋蔥嗎
Quanna avatar
By Quanna
at 2018-02-27T00:12
好棒!!!!!!
Delia avatar
By Delia
at 2018-02-28T10:28
一定要推一下
Tristan Cohan avatar
By Tristan Cohan
at 2018-03-04T11:53
你好棒!真的!
Edward Lewis avatar
By Edward Lewis
at 2018-03-07T12:01
好棒的感覺!!
Eartha avatar
By Eartha
at 2018-03-09T18:46
妳超棒的!!
Hedwig avatar
By Hedwig
at 2018-03-14T07:14
好溫馨!
Yuri avatar
By Yuri
at 2018-03-17T13:45
眼眶泛淚
Todd Johnson avatar
By Todd Johnson
at 2018-03-17T22:10
Freda avatar
By Freda
at 2018-03-22T00:31
每天來點正能量!!!
Aaliyah avatar
By Aaliyah
at 2018-03-25T23:07
推推
Todd Johnson avatar
By Todd Johnson
at 2018-03-28T15:51
Necoo avatar
By Necoo
at 2018-04-01T03:20
你好棒
Yuri avatar
By Yuri
at 2018-04-05T00:03
好棒喔QAQ
Barb Cronin avatar
By Barb Cronin
at 2018-04-09T09:58
好棒
Queena avatar
By Queena
at 2018-04-09T14:18
推好嫂嫂
Aaliyah avatar
By Aaliyah
at 2018-04-13T21:06
好棒的嫂嫂 當你的家人好幸福
Enid avatar
By Enid
at 2018-04-14T05:04
你是模範,小姑也是很棒
Leila avatar
By Leila
at 2018-04-16T13:21
好棒的嫂嫂
Robert avatar
By Robert
at 2018-04-19T23:49
我也好想有這樣的大嫂~
Olive avatar
By Olive
at 2018-04-22T13:02
好溫馨!
Caroline avatar
By Caroline
at 2018-04-27T04:11
沒有這樣的大嫂QQ
Cara avatar
By Cara
at 2018-05-01T03:29
你好優秀
Rae avatar
By Rae
at 2018-05-03T20:20
妳超棒))))))))))))))

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Jacky avatar
By Jacky
at 2017-02-19T16:13
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Jack avatar
By Jack
at 2017-02-19T11:43
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Kumar avatar
By Kumar
at 2017-02-19T11:00
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Freda avatar
By Freda
at 2017-02-19T10:21
昨晚外出吃飯,有提到婆婆餐費。 先生意見是有沒有付婆婆餐費或是只付自己部分都可。 婆婆邀約吃餐廳,餐廳不喜歡,沒有一定要去。 婆婆s點餐,菜色不喜歡也少點,不用免強。 其實講了很多,但主要就是婆婆餐費付不付或是婆邀的餐費去不去都隨我意,會幫忙我委 以前都配合,如果真不想就直講,先生會幫忙緩 ...

Re: [閒聊] 要幫婆婆付吃飯錢嗎?

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By Blanche
at 2017-02-19T02:45
簡述一部叫喜福會的電影某個地方的片段(1993年的電影應該不算爆雷了吧囧) 前面也有版友提到這部電影,電影有一段述說的是Lena跟她的先生Harold之間的故事。 Harold的收入Lena的數倍,結婚時Lena說要均攤費用,但他們的婚姻生活實際上充滿了 均攤與不均攤,外出吃飯-Lena點生菜沙拉吃Ha ...