愈簡單愈複雜 - 結婚
By Elizabeth
at 2016-10-06T00:00
at 2016-10-06T00:00
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從決定婚期開始就跟媽媽為了習俗吵了不少次假
我們是訂結一起
一開始說簡單就好結果變得什麼都要
像迎娶男方只住我們後面巷子我想說省租車錢希望刪掉
(我們結婚錢都靠自己)
但媽媽堅持說不能走路過去婆家
所以變成花錢租三台車去外面轉10分鐘再回來……
跟最近才結婚的朋友聊天說常吵架的事
朋友是要我不要幫男方講話
避免讓媽媽覺得女兒還沒嫁就站在男方那邊……
於是後面幾個月我盡量不跟媽媽去講到習俗
但不久要結婚了所以又開始討論到一些瑣事了
因為兩方前陣子才嫁娶過所以對習俗認知有些不一樣
說真的男方那邊根本沒什麼習俗不管是宴客時間還是其他的都很配合我們家了
今天只是要求一個我媽沒聽過的小習俗我媽就生氣 (由我轉達)
說他也沒聽過這種什麼的
後來忍不住跟媽媽回嘴
大家就因為認知不同才要好好討論不要反應這麼大
然後就……吵架了……
我媽平常對我很好想吃什麼幾乎過幾天就會出現
開他玩笑他也不會怎樣
但每次討論到婚禮的事他就變得有點計較
花費幾乎都男方出的一點小事讓一下根本沒什麼
我真得很努力調解我媽心態
但還是又吵架了
(他聲音變大我也聲音跟著大……)
真得覺得好煩QQ該如何正面思考唉
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我們是訂結一起
一開始說簡單就好結果變得什麼都要
像迎娶男方只住我們後面巷子我想說省租車錢希望刪掉
(我們結婚錢都靠自己)
但媽媽堅持說不能走路過去婆家
所以變成花錢租三台車去外面轉10分鐘再回來……
跟最近才結婚的朋友聊天說常吵架的事
朋友是要我不要幫男方講話
避免讓媽媽覺得女兒還沒嫁就站在男方那邊……
於是後面幾個月我盡量不跟媽媽去講到習俗
但不久要結婚了所以又開始討論到一些瑣事了
因為兩方前陣子才嫁娶過所以對習俗認知有些不一樣
說真的男方那邊根本沒什麼習俗不管是宴客時間還是其他的都很配合我們家了
今天只是要求一個我媽沒聽過的小習俗我媽就生氣 (由我轉達)
說他也沒聽過這種什麼的
後來忍不住跟媽媽回嘴
大家就因為認知不同才要好好討論不要反應這麼大
然後就……吵架了……
我媽平常對我很好想吃什麼幾乎過幾天就會出現
開他玩笑他也不會怎樣
但每次討論到婚禮的事他就變得有點計較
花費幾乎都男方出的一點小事讓一下根本沒什麼
我真得很努力調解我媽心態
但還是又吵架了
(他聲音變大我也聲音跟著大……)
真得覺得好煩QQ該如何正面思考唉
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