從母姓 - 婚姻
By Andy
at 2011-09-03T01:37
at 2011-09-03T01:37
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本人我是男的，從以前我就覺得父姓母姓這真的是一個既無聊又可笑的爭端。
如果你問我小孩跟母姓可不可以，不管小孩是男是女我的回答絕對是YES!因為有太
多的人計較於過去的那些傳宗接代以及家族的觀念。只要小孩不是別人的，姓什麼
根本就無所謂，反正最多就只是老婆的姓氏。姓氏也好名字也罷，那最多只是一個人
的標記(在此不討論姓名學那些東西)，因為真正重要的是你對小孩的照顧，不會小孩
從母姓他就不是你的小孩。與其計較那些表面上的東西，心與心的理解比什麼都重要。
人常常被過去的制約所束縛住，有時要跳出框框思考一下這些習俗是否有其必要
或者正確。再舉一個常見例子，傳統重男輕女的家庭當中如果媳婦生不出兒子，一定
能整天聽到婆婆哭爸東哭爸西的，把整個家弄得烏煙瘴氣的，我只能說這種婆婆真是
沒知識兼沒水準。有國中生物知識的人都應該很清楚生不出男孩是你兒子精蟲游太慢
，如果說出事實婆婆自己又會見笑轉生氣；賴你肚子不爭氣。
最後想表達的是，想維繫好一個美滿的家庭，除了理性溝通跟人情事故之外，懂得
放下不必要的枷鎖也是很重要的，這個枷鎖未必就是上述的傳統觀念，也可能是你自
身的執著。
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