很難和公婆溝通衛生習慣 - 婚姻
By Skylar Davis
at 2012-01-11T11:44
at 2012-01-11T11:44
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前兩天剛自己驗出懷孕
因為還沒看醫生確認,所以也先沒跟長輩說
今早略微跟公公討論了一下廚房的清潔事宜,感覺很挫折
婆家的鍋碗瓢盆基本上是我或公公在洗
我公婆很好,不會要我洗,而且公公常常搶著洗
但他洗這些很隨便,不用洗碗精、也不用熱水
多半是冷水沖沖、菜瓜布隨便刷一下,所以常常摸起來都還油油的
更可怕的是,他洗完鍋子都不晾乾也不擦乾,就直接放進抽屜裡
結果是抽屜一打開就是濃濃的黴味
甚至還有過好幾次鍋子直接發黴的情形
今早我很婉轉的提醒他,既然這麼重視飲食健康,就該同樣重視餐具安全
我說,抽屜一打開都是黴味,其實並不好,
我每次用鍋子之前,都還得刷過、再用熱水煮過
公公說,婆婆都只用固定兩、三個鍋子,他都洗得很乾淨而且還會用火烤乾
這些都是騙人的,因為除了我自己處理的鍋子,
鍋子全都油膩膩,拿出來要不是溼的、
就是充滿黴味(因為公公習慣蓋子要蓋上,結果水等於在裡面陰乾,很難不長黴)
我更明白的說,我用過好幾次鍋子長黴的,建議還是要用洗碗精、然後晾乾再收
結果公公直接跳過洗碗精這件事,一直說家裡沒地方晾鍋子…
我真的覺得很沮喪,結婚以來我就一直很在意婆家的廚房管理
婆婆的冰箱,每週都能清出爛掉乾掉、甚至長毛的青菜水果
公公洗的鍋具碗盤,永遠油膩膩又有黴味
這樣子煮的東西能健康到哪裡去?
跟婆婆建議,她就開始抱怨公公,然後兩手一攤
跟公公建議,他覺得他做得很好
我一直在勉強自己,可是現在還要我勉強,我覺得好委屈
跟老公提過,老公也一直跟他父母溝通,可是沒用。
我公婆是很容易跳針又固執傳統觀念的人(公公覺得他從小就這樣洗,也沒事啊)
老公說,要不然以後我要煮飯前他先幫我再洗一次鍋子
問題有時煮飯時,他還沒下班
我很想反正現在沒工作,乾脆回娘家算了
好歹我娘的廚房窗明几淨,完全不用擔心有過期品這回事
這兩天,我真的是想到這些就哭
平常我會安慰自己這只是生活要求不同,可是現在我覺得好委屈
哎,文章打一打又開始掉眼淚了…
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因為還沒看醫生確認,所以也先沒跟長輩說
今早略微跟公公討論了一下廚房的清潔事宜,感覺很挫折
婆家的鍋碗瓢盆基本上是我或公公在洗
我公婆很好,不會要我洗,而且公公常常搶著洗
但他洗這些很隨便,不用洗碗精、也不用熱水
多半是冷水沖沖、菜瓜布隨便刷一下,所以常常摸起來都還油油的
更可怕的是,他洗完鍋子都不晾乾也不擦乾,就直接放進抽屜裡
結果是抽屜一打開就是濃濃的黴味
甚至還有過好幾次鍋子直接發黴的情形
今早我很婉轉的提醒他,既然這麼重視飲食健康,就該同樣重視餐具安全
我說,抽屜一打開都是黴味,其實並不好,
我每次用鍋子之前,都還得刷過、再用熱水煮過
公公說,婆婆都只用固定兩、三個鍋子,他都洗得很乾淨而且還會用火烤乾
這些都是騙人的,因為除了我自己處理的鍋子,
鍋子全都油膩膩,拿出來要不是溼的、
就是充滿黴味(因為公公習慣蓋子要蓋上,結果水等於在裡面陰乾,很難不長黴)
我更明白的說,我用過好幾次鍋子長黴的,建議還是要用洗碗精、然後晾乾再收
結果公公直接跳過洗碗精這件事,一直說家裡沒地方晾鍋子…
我真的覺得很沮喪,結婚以來我就一直很在意婆家的廚房管理
婆婆的冰箱,每週都能清出爛掉乾掉、甚至長毛的青菜水果
公公洗的鍋具碗盤,永遠油膩膩又有黴味
這樣子煮的東西能健康到哪裡去?
跟婆婆建議,她就開始抱怨公公,然後兩手一攤
跟公公建議,他覺得他做得很好
我一直在勉強自己,可是現在還要我勉強,我覺得好委屈
跟老公提過,老公也一直跟他父母溝通,可是沒用。
我公婆是很容易跳針又固執傳統觀念的人(公公覺得他從小就這樣洗,也沒事啊)
老公說,要不然以後我要煮飯前他先幫我再洗一次鍋子
問題有時煮飯時,他還沒下班
我很想反正現在沒工作,乾脆回娘家算了
好歹我娘的廚房窗明几淨,完全不用擔心有過期品這回事
這兩天,我真的是想到這些就哭
平常我會安慰自己這只是生活要求不同,可是現在我覺得好委屈
哎,文章打一打又開始掉眼淚了…
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