幫我坐月子我很感激,但不能尊重我一下 - 婚姻
By Isabella
at 2011-12-28T17:52
at 2011-12-28T17:52
Table of Contents
結婚這幾個月以來
公婆都非常照顧我
公公不相信先生的開車技術
於是每天接送我上下班
婆婆每天幫我帶便當
也順利懷孕了
沒想到懷孕了才是問題的開始
現在住的房子是公公買的20多年的法拍屋重新裝潢的
花了一百多萬,也是公公先支付
公婆的家在巷子口的公寓一樓
我們的家在巷子尾的公寓四樓
走路不過五分鐘
當時先生覺得與其要花那麼多錢裝潢舊房子
不如拿這些錢當做頭期款
去買一層新的電梯大樓公寓
於是和公公商議
但公公堅決不肯接受
理由是比較好互相照顧
因為我們也拿不出太多錢結婚
只好默默接受了
最近討論到坐月子的問題
婆婆主動說要幫我坐月子
不希望我到月子中心去
但公公希望我到一樓坐月子
因為婆婆的膝蓋不是很好
但我本身很淺眠
睡眠狀況不太好
也不想坐月子時人來人往
希望在自己的家裡擁有比較多的隱私權
我自己比較希望在四樓坐月子
但考量到婆婆的腳
於是提出由婆婆料理月子餐
先生拿上來加熱
結果公公卻生氣了
認為我是心理問題
不把一樓當成家
才會睡不著
說小孩洗澡怎麼辦?
婆婆還不是要爬到四樓
認為我不體諒長輩
把長輩「做牛做馬」是為理所當然
這一頂大帽子扣在我頭上
我覺得很委屈也很奇怪
難道好意我一定要接受嗎?
我想去月子中心啊
我也沒有要「強迫」長輩幫我做很多事
何必強加罪名在人身上
先生也試著和公公溝通
但公公完全堅持要我到一樓坐月子
請問面對這樣的情形該怎麼辦呢?
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公婆都非常照顧我
公公不相信先生的開車技術
於是每天接送我上下班
婆婆每天幫我帶便當
也順利懷孕了
沒想到懷孕了才是問題的開始
現在住的房子是公公買的20多年的法拍屋重新裝潢的
花了一百多萬,也是公公先支付
公婆的家在巷子口的公寓一樓
我們的家在巷子尾的公寓四樓
走路不過五分鐘
當時先生覺得與其要花那麼多錢裝潢舊房子
不如拿這些錢當做頭期款
去買一層新的電梯大樓公寓
於是和公公商議
但公公堅決不肯接受
理由是比較好互相照顧
因為我們也拿不出太多錢結婚
只好默默接受了
最近討論到坐月子的問題
婆婆主動說要幫我坐月子
不希望我到月子中心去
但公公希望我到一樓坐月子
因為婆婆的膝蓋不是很好
但我本身很淺眠
睡眠狀況不太好
也不想坐月子時人來人往
希望在自己的家裡擁有比較多的隱私權
我自己比較希望在四樓坐月子
但考量到婆婆的腳
於是提出由婆婆料理月子餐
先生拿上來加熱
結果公公卻生氣了
認為我是心理問題
不把一樓當成家
才會睡不著
說小孩洗澡怎麼辦?
婆婆還不是要爬到四樓
認為我不體諒長輩
把長輩「做牛做馬」是為理所當然
這一頂大帽子扣在我頭上
我覺得很委屈也很奇怪
難道好意我一定要接受嗎?
我想去月子中心啊
我也沒有要「強迫」長輩幫我做很多事
何必強加罪名在人身上
先生也試著和公公溝通
但公公完全堅持要我到一樓坐月子
請問面對這樣的情形該怎麼辦呢?
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