小姑莫名的敵意 - 婚姻

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看到這討論串真是讓我心有戚戚焉,因為昨天晚上我老公才搞定ㄧ場家庭革命。
我原本就有大小姑但嫁到外地,而自從我公公的同居人(簡稱阿姨,隔代教養小小菇的女
兒)往生後,小小姑(跟我老公毫無血緣關係,在此稱小小姑)就搬回來和自己的女兒同
住,這場家庭革命就是她)引爆的。
話說我老公帶回來的女友中,我算是我公公最滿意的媳婦,雖然還是會有小摩擦,但氣氛
算是融洽。只是老人家對錢比較沒安全感,而我們目前的債務也比較大,加上要養兩個孩
子,所以孝親費盡最大的能力給,但小小姑卻不滿,為什麼她必須足足要多給我們的ㄧ倍
,因而在上個月有和我老公爭執,即使我們告訴她,妳在園區上班,是我公公幫妳顧孩子
,ㄧ直到妳下班,甚至還煮飯給妳吃,況且冷氣當電扇用,暑假甚至24小時沒關,是使用
者付費的道理,但她仍舊大喊不公平。
(我們早上七點出門上班上課後,會在外閒晃到晚上八點半多才回家開冷氣,假日都會安
排外出去圖書館或賣場吹冷氣,盡量不在家使用電器)
而就在昨天,我小姑回來過中秋,剛好碰上小小姑下班,於是在喝酒罵嫂嫂的情況下等到
我們出外遊玩回來。因為我老公喝了些酒,而我和孩子們玩了一天也很累,只想早點洗洗
睡,就在我老公洗澡我在吹頭髮時,小小姑槌門,然後一付訂孤支的態度,連名帶姓叫我
下樓談一談,我太累根本沒戰鬥力,也想著喝酒醉的人外加小小姑的身分,我老公不在現
場,小姑肯定幫她,各種不利下就回了句我跟妳沒什麼好談的就關上門,接著,她就踹了
我的門。
老公洗好澡我把狀況告訴他,他下樓後就是一場大戰,當時已凌晨一點多,又飄著雨,不
禁讓我回想起兩年前的大年初一,我大姑、小小姑和阿姨跟我老公對罵,為什麼我老公不
跟我離婚?!-.-
最後吵了半小時也請我公公下樓協調後,我老公一臉疲憊回到房間,這時孩子們也睡著了
,他才緩緩說出剛的情形。
小小姑吵到拿東西一直砸我老公,還吼爲什麼要娶我,是因為真的喜歡我嗎?然後又吼她
媽是被我氣死的(阿姨過往前幾天,她們倆母女才在為了小孩的進食問題在用三字經對罵
),就在怒罵我不雅的言語及亂砸下,我老公氣到賞她一巴掌,她就更怒了,最後我公公
下樓,她還哭吼著問我公公,不是說我比較好嗎(比我老公其他前女友好),爲什麼對她
來說不是這樣!!
而她也不爽為什麼我不用煮給我公公吃,其實真的有煮過,只是吃了幾次他還是覺得口味
真的不合,但我只要有開伙都會叫孩子請他上座吃飯,雖然我公公都還是自己煮。而我有
時也會買些他愛吃的糕餅。但小小姑卻鬼打牆要我煮,還叫我每天早上十點和傍晚五點要
回來煮飯,可是瑞凡,我上班時間是早上七點半點到傍晚六點啊......
接著喊她媽來找她了,還有她小孩好可憐,都被我欺負,接著嚷嚷要搬出去,但如果我害
她搬走了,她要叫小弟來打我。她就不懂為什麼我老公硬要選我,我有什麼好?!
我老公回她,妳小孩不可憐,是妳害妳小孩變可憐
(看見人完全不會打招呼,也不會說謝謝對不起,這點我老公很賭爛),
而且當初妳結婚後,根本沒盡到妻子和母親的身分,只想著玩,也別說妳前夫對不起妳的
話。
(小孩生完丟給阿姨,和前夫在外地工作,想到才回來看小孩,而且吃頓飯就走;離婚後
和男友也還是住外,直到去年阿姨生病才頻繁回來照顧小孩)
老公說完又氣又累,我卻白目的討暖:要是我真的被打你要照顧我哦,但他正經的回我他
會保護我。(已融化)
其實吵很多,都不外乎是生活習慣上的摩擦,但對於崩潰又喝醉的人來說,每一件都是大
事。雖說她有醫生診斷憂鬱傾向,可是三天兩頭這樣,我更害怕她會失去理智做了些啥呀
......況且她女兒才因為外婆過世,鬧著逃學,還揍老師,盼著過了暑假升小四會好些;
但沒想到女兒還沒穩定,阿母也接著崩潰,儘管我大姑治好自身的躁鬱症來幫顧著小小姑
及她孩子,不難保會更嚴重......
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我原本就有大小姑但嫁到外地,而自從我公公的同居人(簡稱阿姨,隔代教養小小菇的女
兒)往生後,小小姑(跟我老公毫無血緣關係,在此稱小小姑)就搬回來和自己的女兒同
住,這場家庭革命就是她)引爆的。
話說我老公帶回來的女友中,我算是我公公最滿意的媳婦,雖然還是會有小摩擦,但氣氛
算是融洽。只是老人家對錢比較沒安全感,而我們目前的債務也比較大,加上要養兩個孩
子,所以孝親費盡最大的能力給,但小小姑卻不滿,為什麼她必須足足要多給我們的ㄧ倍
,因而在上個月有和我老公爭執,即使我們告訴她,妳在園區上班,是我公公幫妳顧孩子
,ㄧ直到妳下班,甚至還煮飯給妳吃,況且冷氣當電扇用,暑假甚至24小時沒關,是使用
者付費的道理,但她仍舊大喊不公平。
(我們早上七點出門上班上課後,會在外閒晃到晚上八點半多才回家開冷氣,假日都會安
排外出去圖書館或賣場吹冷氣,盡量不在家使用電器)
而就在昨天,我小姑回來過中秋,剛好碰上小小姑下班,於是在喝酒罵嫂嫂的情況下等到
我們出外遊玩回來。因為我老公喝了些酒,而我和孩子們玩了一天也很累,只想早點洗洗
睡,就在我老公洗澡我在吹頭髮時,小小姑槌門,然後一付訂孤支的態度,連名帶姓叫我
下樓談一談,我太累根本沒戰鬥力,也想著喝酒醉的人外加小小姑的身分,我老公不在現
場,小姑肯定幫她,各種不利下就回了句我跟妳沒什麼好談的就關上門,接著,她就踹了
我的門。
老公洗好澡我把狀況告訴他,他下樓後就是一場大戰,當時已凌晨一點多,又飄著雨,不
禁讓我回想起兩年前的大年初一,我大姑、小小姑和阿姨跟我老公對罵,為什麼我老公不
跟我離婚?!-.-
最後吵了半小時也請我公公下樓協調後,我老公一臉疲憊回到房間,這時孩子們也睡著了
,他才緩緩說出剛的情形。
小小姑吵到拿東西一直砸我老公,還吼爲什麼要娶我,是因為真的喜歡我嗎?然後又吼她
媽是被我氣死的(阿姨過往前幾天,她們倆母女才在為了小孩的進食問題在用三字經對罵
),就在怒罵我不雅的言語及亂砸下,我老公氣到賞她一巴掌,她就更怒了,最後我公公
下樓,她還哭吼著問我公公,不是說我比較好嗎(比我老公其他前女友好),爲什麼對她
來說不是這樣!!
而她也不爽為什麼我不用煮給我公公吃,其實真的有煮過,只是吃了幾次他還是覺得口味
真的不合,但我只要有開伙都會叫孩子請他上座吃飯,雖然我公公都還是自己煮。而我有
時也會買些他愛吃的糕餅。但小小姑卻鬼打牆要我煮,還叫我每天早上十點和傍晚五點要
回來煮飯,可是瑞凡,我上班時間是早上七點半點到傍晚六點啊......
接著喊她媽來找她了,還有她小孩好可憐,都被我欺負,接著嚷嚷要搬出去,但如果我害
她搬走了,她要叫小弟來打我。她就不懂為什麼我老公硬要選我,我有什麼好?!
我老公回她,妳小孩不可憐,是妳害妳小孩變可憐
(看見人完全不會打招呼,也不會說謝謝對不起,這點我老公很賭爛),
而且當初妳結婚後,根本沒盡到妻子和母親的身分,只想著玩,也別說妳前夫對不起妳的
話。
(小孩生完丟給阿姨,和前夫在外地工作,想到才回來看小孩,而且吃頓飯就走;離婚後
和男友也還是住外,直到去年阿姨生病才頻繁回來照顧小孩)
老公說完又氣又累,我卻白目的討暖:要是我真的被打你要照顧我哦,但他正經的回我他
會保護我。(已融化)
其實吵很多,都不外乎是生活習慣上的摩擦,但對於崩潰又喝醉的人來說,每一件都是大
事。雖說她有醫生診斷憂鬱傾向,可是三天兩頭這樣,我更害怕她會失去理智做了些啥呀
......況且她女兒才因為外婆過世,鬧著逃學,還揍老師,盼著過了暑假升小四會好些;
但沒想到女兒還沒穩定,阿母也接著崩潰,儘管我大姑治好自身的躁鬱症來幫顧著小小姑
及她孩子,不難保會更嚴重......
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