對婆家的人感到很有壓力 - 婚姻

By Thomas
at 2015-10-31T10:50
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結完婚也差不多半年了,我還是很不適應婆家的相
處模式,我跟老公在外地工作,自己租一個小套房
週末回家幾乎都是住婆家(婆家與娘家大約10分鐘
車程)當然還是會回我娘家坐坐,但大部分的時間
都是在婆家比較多。
婚後大概三個月左右,我跟老公要求說可不可以一
個週末住我家,因為我好久沒回家住了,於是我們
選了一個只放星期六的週末回我家 ,因為只放一天
假所以就沒去婆家了(去婆家也不可能像去我家坐坐就走),但這件事事先沒有讓公婆知
道(那個週末老公打了好幾通電話 他們都沒接)
沒想到這件事會讓我老公被罵到臭頭,我婆婆還因
為這樣哭了好幾天,因為他覺得他失去一個兒子,
事後我婆婆還跑來跟我說如果我想家可以說一聲就回去住(罷特是自己回去)
這件事後來不了了之,直到昨天聊天聊到才知道我
公公叫我老公不要去我家睡很像入贅。頓時我整個
非常的不開心!怎麼可以這麼自私!我覺得我老公
也是我娘家的家人花時間陪陪我家人也是應該的。
我公婆平常都對我很好,就是觀念傳統讓我很不能
適應。我有在努力適應婆家,我覺得我很辛苦在這
一塊,反觀我老公 我爸媽對他沒任何要求,也都對
他很好,我就覺得他也太爽了吧!
對於不能回我家睡這件事,我跟老公反彈的結果,
他也無能為力,他是個很孝順的人,他希望我可以
體諒,尤其婆婆身體又不是很好。但是我就是很
氣,結婚是互相的啊!因為手機發文,排版請見諒。
現在的心情實在是無法回婆家裝笑臉啊......
回復一下大家的建議
要各睡各家是不太可能 因為我公婆覺得我嫁進他們
就是要回他們家睡
很謝謝大家的建議 不過我還是有小心願希望可以有
辦法可以皆大歡喜 公婆真的是很好的人 只是這方面
哎...
謝謝大家給我的意見 現在就是先嘗試瞞著他們
自己跟老公回娘家開始做起!
--
處模式,我跟老公在外地工作,自己租一個小套房
週末回家幾乎都是住婆家(婆家與娘家大約10分鐘
車程)當然還是會回我娘家坐坐,但大部分的時間
都是在婆家比較多。
婚後大概三個月左右,我跟老公要求說可不可以一
個週末住我家,因為我好久沒回家住了,於是我們
選了一個只放星期六的週末回我家 ,因為只放一天
假所以就沒去婆家了(去婆家也不可能像去我家坐坐就走),但這件事事先沒有讓公婆知
道(那個週末老公打了好幾通電話 他們都沒接)
沒想到這件事會讓我老公被罵到臭頭,我婆婆還因
為這樣哭了好幾天,因為他覺得他失去一個兒子,
事後我婆婆還跑來跟我說如果我想家可以說一聲就回去住(罷特是自己回去)
這件事後來不了了之,直到昨天聊天聊到才知道我
公公叫我老公不要去我家睡很像入贅。頓時我整個
非常的不開心!怎麼可以這麼自私!我覺得我老公
也是我娘家的家人花時間陪陪我家人也是應該的。
我公婆平常都對我很好,就是觀念傳統讓我很不能
適應。我有在努力適應婆家,我覺得我很辛苦在這
一塊,反觀我老公 我爸媽對他沒任何要求,也都對
他很好,我就覺得他也太爽了吧!
對於不能回我家睡這件事,我跟老公反彈的結果,
他也無能為力,他是個很孝順的人,他希望我可以
體諒,尤其婆婆身體又不是很好。但是我就是很
氣,結婚是互相的啊!因為手機發文,排版請見諒。
現在的心情實在是無法回婆家裝笑臉啊......
回復一下大家的建議
要各睡各家是不太可能 因為我公婆覺得我嫁進他們
就是要回他們家睡
很謝謝大家的建議 不過我還是有小心願希望可以有
辦法可以皆大歡喜 公婆真的是很好的人 只是這方面
哎...
謝謝大家給我的意見 現在就是先嘗試瞞著他們
自己跟老公回娘家開始做起!
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